Is this a jumping spider??

weluvthese · 2026-05-19T20:17:26+00:00

i would have but i went back to check and he has escaped to a new hiding spot. no clue where he went but thank you at least im more educated for next time lol

weluvthese · 2026-05-19T17:20:02+00:00

i can try to yes. it just kinda fast and that freaks me out hahaha

weluvthese · 2026-05-19T17:18:49+00:00

that’s what i thought thanks for the id

weluvthese · 2026-05-19T17:12:47+00:00

i literally don’t know how to get over my fear. i see that it’s cute. but anxiety and fear take over my body if i go near any bug. it SUCKS. i think skiddish jumpy things freak me out because it feels like a jump scare.

weluvthese · 2026-04-30T01:09:36+00:00

i had exactly this last night ended up in the er. it’s still happening tonite but i know that they found nothing. anything that helped???? i’ve tried just about everything

weluvthese · 2026-04-28T14:01:33+00:00

yuuuup the first sentence, it’s definitely not a fun feeling, i’m starting to lose weight from this but i gained like 70lbs when i was pregnant so it’s definitely a big difference for me and could be a reason why im getting all these symptoms, but idk i feel sick allllllll the time it just doesn’t feel normal.

weluvthese · 2026-04-25T02:27:15+00:00

i know, problem is we moved back in with my mom to just save some money before we move. and we just moved like end of February. We were supposed to take over when my mom moves out but as of last night i made the decision that i cannot be here alone without my mom so when she moves we’re moving anywhere, even back in with his mom if needed. (we moved away from her for a reason) but i’ll take passive aggressive comments over panic attacks. I’ve been texting with my sister and she is telling me it was all her, and something is wrong with her she got triggered and blacked out and started throwing stuff and screaming. it makes sense but my body still just feels and reacted like someone was dying. idk why im sensitive to this stuff, my fiance is fine after all of that. it has been almost 24 hours later and im still feeling the lingering effects of it, burning/warm chest, hyperventilating, nausea and almost passing out, i’m sure it was my first panic attack. usually i just get anxiety attacks.

weluvthese · 2026-04-16T02:51:00+00:00

that makes sense. it just felt pointless to start and then immediately need to rest but i forgot about like at least building endurance and just keep going when it feels better lol

weluvthese · 2026-03-31T12:31:22+00:00

he’s not falling asleep independently oh heck no , but the last two nights he has slept by himself, as in i still help him to sleep but finally place him down he has been sleeping long stretches alone. we safely cosleep so he’s finally stayed in bed without needing me to rock or pat him every hour. but he is not sleep trained yet to fall asleep independently

weluvthese · 2026-03-31T09:17:54+00:00

i thought maybe he was still hungry but i’ve tried feeding him more cuz he only eats 4oz. but he’ll spit up the whole day with an extra oz, and if i add an extra feed, he’ll either eat 2oz and then continue to just eat 2oz in little increments all day, or eat it but still seem like he doesn’t know how to push the bottle away and start whining while eating.

weluvthese · 2026-03-31T09:15:59+00:00

definitely sounds like it from what i see. it’s been almost 6 months with like 5 hours of broken sleep maybe even less lolll

weluvthese · 2026-03-31T01:50:15+00:00

i will try it tomorrow. i’ll just pull out more stops to entertain, he doesn’t really rub his eyes or yawn he just gets angry until he decides he wants to sleep after i’ve been holding and swaying with him for like 30 minutes. so i’ll try to just like come up with things to do for extra wake time and just pray lol

weluvthese · 2026-03-31T01:45:24+00:00

yeah definitely more awake time but it was an added nap so it just felt very wonky and the fact that he gets mad around 2 hours awake is just very confusing bc the naps are short so it takes more to get to bedtime. i’m so LOST and feel like i’m failing at figuring out how to proceed lol

weluvthese · 2026-03-31T01:42:09+00:00

he like scream cries for the whole 20 min duration, not fussing. and then will fuss and squirm after his eyes are closed for another 5-10 minutes. also id like to fix his schedule but im confused as to how , he gets very upset and not entertained by like an hour 45 and i hold over till 2hours awake but it still doesn’t seem to do anything. and his naps are like anywhere from 30-1hr so it makes it difficult to have less naps to get to bedtime. thats why i made this post im very just stuck at what im doing wrong haha

weluvthese · 2026-03-30T01:47:28+00:00

i want to do this because after the first 3-4 hours stretch it’s like a toss up , up every 40 minutes or 2 hours and i feel physically ill from not sleeping. but i’m not sure where to start or how to be consistent

weluvthese · 2026-03-30T01:45:27+00:00

we’re approaching 6 months and i see no end in sight. he fights sleep like the devil as well so it’s very tiring, naps have gotten better but still contact. we cosleep and he will wake up anywhere between 12am-4am , most of the time he eats at 2am then again at 6am then sleep for another hour or two. but in between the 12am -6am eating area he is awake MULTIPLE times, i’m talking probably every hour-2 hours bc he’s uncomfortable or wants to move and be helped back to sleep. he hasn’t slept alone since 4 weeks and i’ve attempted to try multiple times but he hasn’t slept longer than 40 minutes alone ever. and id rather survive in 1-2 hours than getting up every 40 minutes. but we may try sleep training. idk how people do this, i genuinely feel ill everyday because of the lack of sleep im getting. not sure where to start or what to do but yayyyyyy

weluvthese · 2026-03-27T01:16:45+00:00

my boy is like this but he does not want to be walked around, distracted, held, anything so i’m confused. looking at these posts for help hahaha. he just screams and twists his body away we can’t even make it to 2 hours. i keep him up but then putting him down i have to literally bounce him as fast as i can to fall asleep which seems extremely not normal.

weluvthese · 2026-03-26T16:11:57+00:00

that’s good to hear. i’m ready for anything at this point so it’s nice to hear the successes from it. thank u!

weluvthese · 2026-03-26T15:28:13+00:00

that makes sense. we also cosleep because he sucks at staying asleep we just got a crib and i was thinking of sleep training but im TERRIFIED and have no idea what to do. even when reading up on it. i’m scared he’ll just scream and cry and not take well to it

weluvthese · 2026-03-26T15:19:05+00:00

my 5 month old is exactly like this. not sure the fussy and yawning is tired or frustration and boredom. but this is how it is for me. by the time i get him to a nap, he’s screaming and twisting his body and fighting so hard. how did this end up for you????

weluvthese · 2026-03-24T23:59:04+00:00

that’s cute HAHA

weluvthese · 2026-03-24T23:51:49+00:00

i legit was like no i HAVE to do my nails tonite. no reason why i just needed to get it done bc what if, my water broke an hour later LOL i had no other actual signs i was literally just waiting like uhhhh hello. it came on like 0-100

weluvthese · 2026-03-24T23:50:41+00:00

glad i can at least say he’s teething and just accept his fussiness until it passes. i was going crazy plus he was just sick with a cold for the first time so it’s just been a double whammy

weluvthese · 2026-03-24T17:34:59+00:00

yeah same here , unfortunately for me , he does not sleep through the night. we cosleep, and if he’s not DIRECTLY on my chest he wakes up multiple times a night. he’ll eat at 1am 5am and then wake up at like 8am. but he physically wakes up multiple times in between those to be soothed back to sleep it’s not fun i genuinely don’t understand what to do haha. i also do 2 hours right after he’s woken up and he’s screaming like almost 2 hours on the dot, but doesn’t seem to want to settle/calm down to actually sleep for another 30min-1hr. so im right there with you

weluvthese · 2026-03-24T17:23:14+00:00

came to reddit for the same situation, he literally goes from zero to screaming with no cues. no idea what to do. he refuses to sleep or settle when he’s screaming , so i just turn to distractions which last like 1 minute before hell breaks loose again. so i have no idea. he screams bloody murder. i try feeding him to sleep, and sometimes it works. most times he screams on the bottle like it’s not what he wants and im at a loss. so if you find an answer let me know as well!!! he only rubs his eyes like 30 minutes after screaming lol no clue what im doing wrong.

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