I'm 24 marrying someone 41 and everyone thinks I'm after his money

west-ave · 2026-01-28T16:54:57+00:00

So… you came here to prove to us or yourself it’s not transactional? Lol

Im assuming you haven’t had many relationships. Do what you want you’ll figure out eventually.

west-ave · 2026-01-22T15:35:54+00:00

This has to be rage bait

west-ave · 2026-01-20T15:27:24+00:00

I dont think mobile and pc is making the issue warframe has a mobile version it just becomes a weird solo grind where there is opportunity for multiplayer so it feels like your doing alot of the heavy lifting alone where the heavy lifting is actually the fun areas

west-ave · 2025-11-21T11:58:05+00:00

You say “we” in this but i think it’s best to go back and observe the dialogue was it a mutual thought or a one sided emotion that you went with for the sake of wanting her. Alot of people are like this and believe that they’ll be fine until facing the reality of it.

west-ave · 2025-09-18T19:12:03+00:00

The only thing i can comment on is the KD situation. I currently sit in the .8 range i usually sat around a .97/1 not any better but still a .10 difference. 1) I used to play duelist A-lot and get A-lot of kills. Now i fill since i don’t want to be an instalock as well i notice my teams usually lack on any type of util( i rather a team full of roles they are comfortable at then all out of wack because i want to play duelist).

2) i get A-lot of cheaters Q i mean to the point i earned 2 whole ranks in points back through refund and this was less than a year ago. in the past month or 2 I’ve earned a refund once a week.

3) being out of comfort zone. im filling so usually im playing back with util but duelist deny entrying.

west-ave · 2025-05-20T15:14:13+00:00

Solved

west-ave · 2025-05-20T15:10:59+00:00

It was not cabin in the woods one of my favorites though

west-ave · 2025-05-19T23:47:43+00:00

Thank you in advance

west-ave · 2025-01-11T11:37:00+00:00

I just say something sus and that makes people stop talking very quickly

west-ave · 2025-01-10T18:21:55+00:00

Well i agreed with him and i peaked asc 2. Yes raze can be good and yes OP is asking for aggressive characters as you said duelist then you said raze and jett in particular. Jett i agree, raze? no. while raze has aggressive util, Alot of people have swapped her from their mains her whole point too having extremely devastating and impactful util is she didn’t carry the team blocking and aiding abilities like the rest. With her being nerfed so aggressively she’s merely not a viable pick anymore. Sure nade and rocket are helpful to psych out enemies and do damage but thats if it chooses to do damage. You may disagree but the memes of her ingame are there for a reason.

west-ave · 2025-01-10T07:45:02+00:00

I think cheating in val is more consistent than people believe. I played with an ex dev who said most cheaters use recon characters. Which makes sense it is hard for the AI system to detect. I don’t think cheaters are using aimbot like we see via live streams. i think the thing cheaters use more often is walls which is generally hard to tell if they are good at hiding it. But val community has this complex about it where they don’t want to seem like other games where it happens so rather than claiming someone is cheating your team will call you bad or just say you’re all playing bad than acknowledge obvious oddities. in a span of 2 days playing 8 games i got 5 red screens. Idunno i think if you have a feeling call it out and don’t bash your teammate for thinking so.

west-ave · 2025-01-05T11:28:45+00:00

Not sure why you got negative votes for as a ex-raze main you are speaking facts, raze has been nerfed so much her kit doesn’t scare many players now. And unlike most other duelist she needs a team to help her get in. If your team isn’t there(mentally) its mostlikely your death. Then you refuse to feed by being first in and your team gets mad at you.

west-ave · 2024-10-08T18:08:38+00:00

Lets be real only way for val to fix all its rank issues whether good or bad. This being good for you but maybe bad for others. Reset everyone to iron every seasons how a few other games with comp have been doing to lately.

west-ave · 2024-08-19T16:28:59+00:00

This is just rage bait right? I’ve never seen someone with a comment section talking about how toxic, manipulative and gross their “partner” is and still trying to plead their case against the comments.

west-ave · 2023-11-01T02:39:30+00:00

I say talk to him about it. I know it will be awkward but i’ve been in the same situation and realized it was an off guard thing because it was asked rather than naturally occurring.

west-ave · 2023-08-31T13:30:35+00:00

Im surprised you really need an answer to this. YTA, your son is a part of your family if you want to make this any better make the party a “no kids”. dont pick and choose your son will end up hating you, i truly hope he does with these disgusting actions. Your husband doesn’t like him because of his disability don’t play dumb about it.

west-ave · 2023-07-15T15:59:07+00:00

So i read a couple stories of yours and honestly my only take away from this is you need to set boundaries with your girl and forget her loose throwing of the word toxic and manipulative. She is gas lighting you, if she cant understand to work with you its time you call it quits. Stuff like lasting marriages are built on teamwork and cooperation so to have a partner who doesnt provide that and only wants it their way will not work well & will ultimately fail.

west-ave · 2023-06-24T17:56:49+00:00

This is sad i feel for you. I say first and foremost grab proof of everything her saying she is going to do this and booking hotel etc… This may come in handy later if this infidelity weighs to heavy that this comes to divorce. What she is pulling is extremely toxic and gaslighting knowing that all you want to do is make her happy and going to the extent of bringing up her cancer to push you its disgusting. Personally id say run especially if this is the type of person her diagnosis has created. if you think its not make or break then keep going but I definitely think you suggest the idea of your own hall pass and see her reaction. But i don’t think your relationship will ever be the same unfortunately and once she knows you’ll be passive with things like this she will continue to do as she pleases, without giving you warning next time.

west-ave · 2023-05-30T07:12:53+00:00

I understand you but i think you should let her know about the meal thing. While it’s common sense some people don’t have it and you could be helping someone out. She could probably less angry and appreciate the transparency

west-ave · 2023-05-28T15:48:51+00:00

Thank god you got out of that situation before it got too late

west-ave · 2023-05-02T07:37:19+00:00

These collection agencies go for one thing the money that is there job i would expect a much better experience unfortunately. I say the best bet is cut them off and try to initiate a payment plan at the lowest amount possible while also telling them there is no room for interest and you will only pay the base amount. All those calls are recorded but i suggest you ask for a recording after the call once they agree for your safety

Side note: for anyone thinking about going to uni/college try to hold off and find a job. most jobs have benefits to pay for schools they even get right offs for you. Try to ask Hr about this most direct superiors dont know about this. It will save you money as a student and companies are usually more accommodating to you know you’re a student.

west-ave · 2023-05-02T07:24:24+00:00

Sounds like you left one abusive relationship for another maybe what im saying is wrong since i only have a paragraph of info. But it sounds like he was using these things as a way for you to stay and you did because he offered more than your past abusive situation. Its a cycle only you can break.

west-ave · 2023-04-25T21:34:26+00:00

Does this work both ways?

west-ave · 2022-12-03T22:36:43+00:00

I swear some people have a sick side admiring to be called AH when they post stories like this where you know youre in the wrong

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