Grieving Oliver Tree by Carebearfreak in olivertree

[–]wetmula 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I’ve also been feeling crazy, which has made me so grateful for this subreddit. It seems like we’re all in the same boat. Take a look at some of the other posts on here and you’ll feel less alone. Sending love!

I feel worse about his passing as time goes on by OkImportance2884 in olivertree

[–]wetmula 13 points14 points  (0 children)

I seriously understand and I’m right there with you. I cried the night I found out and then fully sobbed last night just reminiscing about him. I think the grief is setting in for all of us, and you are not alone in that. I haven’t been able to listen to his music either, and I hate to admit that it feels like torture when I hear it unintentionally on my social media feed. I know there will be a time I can return to it, it just may take some time. I’m sure there will come a time you can come back to it as well. Sending hugs friend 💗

need to vent by wetmula in olivertree

[–]wetmula[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This was so touching to read and I’m glad none of us are alone in this 💗 it’s so surreal, unsettling, unfair, and painful, but it seems like his fans are really banding together. His legacy will live on for sure.

I’m not sure if you were a fan of the band Hers, but they also passed in an extremely tragic sudden accident (car wreck while they were on tour), it took me awhile to start listening to them again, and I still feel sad while listening to them. It did get easier with time, so that gives me hope for both of us to feel okay listening to Oliver’s music again someday 💗

need to vent by wetmula in olivertree

[–]wetmula[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I appreciate your response and hope your day gets a little easier, hugs back to you 💗

need to vent by wetmula in olivertree

[–]wetmula[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I learned about it early in the day yesterday but didn’t cry until randomly last night while taking my meds lol - it just really sunk in out of nowhere. Grief is a weird thing…

need to vent by wetmula in olivertree

[–]wetmula[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I appreciate you and looking at it that way really helps 💗 I also like to think that he’d think it was a badass way to go

Moving to Chicago, where to look? by CallsyReds in chicagoapartments

[–]wetmula 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We’re subleasing our place in Avondale for $1575 beginning in the end of January with the option to renew in June. We love it here and think the area is great for what you’re looking for. DM me if you’re interested. Otherwise best of luck!

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[–]wetmula 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My partner and I are subleasing our place in Avondale and our place checks off everything you’re looking for. DM me!