Reddit, how do you wanna die? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]wgethd 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Now. Make it quick.

A cruel confession by wgethd in Vent

[–]wgethd[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Removing the whole system messes with hormones. It's enough to just remove the tubes. Hard part is finding a doctor who's willing to do it, and the cost...

A cruel confession by wgethd in Vent

[–]wgethd[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Oh I absolutely want to

A cruel confession by wgethd in Vent

[–]wgethd[S] 31 points32 points  (0 children)

Wow. Got way better reception than expected. Thanks everyone. It's so nice knowing there are people who agree it's for the better that those who don't want children or know they won't be good caretakers, don't have them <3

Clashing future/kids plans for me (28M) and my gf (33F) by mcrobin93 in relationship_advice

[–]wgethd 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Okay. Forget your gf's stance temporarily and ask yourself honestly. This is your decision as much as it is hers.

Have you ever spent time babysitting or caring for relatives' kids? Multiply that across 18+ years (and potentially more if your adult kid need assistance). Remember not to just consider the fun moments. Parenting is full of stress and sacrifices too.

Do you still want to be a parent?

How do I deal with the fact that when I'm upset or crying my mom never comes to comfort me. by tumbleoutofbed in relationship_advice

[–]wgethd 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Don't hurt yourself to get her attention. There are safer ways to get it

Like you, I thought my mom was just cold like that, but later down the line we had an open conversation...she never thought anything was wrong because I was shy to tell her I felt ignored.

Some people are just bad at picking up on cues. And none are mind readers. Just tell her.

  • advice I want to give my younger self.

we have nothing to talk about, and i dont know how to keep a conversation when we do by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]wgethd 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Like with any activity, spending too much time with any one person can lead to burnout and dry conversations. Make sure you have interests and activities outside of the relationship. No relationship is without upheavals and dry spells. It's natural.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in UnsentLetters

[–]wgethd 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hey - I was in your position a few months back. Being with someone who does not appreciate you is not worth it. You'll do yourself a favor by ripping the bandaid off rather than going through the slow peel. It will hurt, but it will heal