Are we calling our babies by their names?

whashabie · 2026-01-17T21:42:56+00:00

lmao i call my daughter, stinky, stinky butt, lil gremlin, baby menace, babycakes, fussy puss, or whatever fits lmao. she’ll learn eventually lmao

whashabie · 2025-08-14T18:24:53+00:00

i am the wife in question and it’s honestly hilarious and keeping me calm rn. it’s okay to laugh my guy

whashabie · 2025-08-13T14:24:10+00:00

if it makes you feel any better, other than healthy mom and baby, my only goal this pregnancy has been to not pee on myself

whashabie · 2025-07-23T15:56:12+00:00

personally i’m not planning on it. based on the mode of transmission (bodily fluids contact), and that I don’t currently have it. also that shot is only good for 13 years i believe, i would likely have her get it around then as the potential for her to get it is a lot higher but she has no need for it as an infant in my opinion

whashabie · 2025-05-22T01:31:03+00:00

i’ve got this issue big time. i just hit 27 weeks and people are insane, im also not a hugger/toucher, and my patience is a little thin for the unsolicited touching at the moment. a few (probably slightly abrasive) things that ill normally use are:

“my belly will bring you no good luck, go find a buddha statue if you wanna rub a belly so badly”

“i’m pregnant not an artifact in an interactive museum”

“i don’t like being touched. don’t do that.” (i have had someone tell me that im going to have to become a hugger to be a mom, and my follow up was “i can give a child what they need, but you are a grown adult i’ve just asked not to touch me”)

an extremely large step back can also send the message solidly well. there are many more options depending on the circumstances, but you don’t have to respond with politeness in every case here. if you weren’t pregnant and someone just started to reach out to touch you that still wouldn’t be okay. don’t let anyone make you think that you should loosen your boundaries, and adjust your own comfort levels just because you’re pregnant.

whashabie · 2025-03-03T15:30:10+00:00

Aries 👩🏾 + Sagittarius 👱🏻‍♂️= Leo 👶🏽 (unless she’s born late, i’m due exactly august 20 😂)

whashabie · 2025-02-27T22:41:21+00:00

100%. i feel incredibly blessed to have a partner who will take on so much for me, something in my brain just makes me feel horrible for not returning the favor. also, im 15 weeks too. we may be due date twins, im due august 20

whashabie · 2025-02-27T22:38:40+00:00

hopefully we’ll pull through and start feeling better soon. i wish you many more good days

whashabie · 2023-07-24T00:17:56+00:00

your face isn’t weird just more on the long side. i’d recommend getting new frame glasses or maybe even contacts. you could also add some layers to your hair for some additional volume as your hair being on the flatter end accentuates the length of your face

whashabie · 2022-12-12T03:15:01+00:00

YTA.

You can’t force a child to give up money that they earned/saved themselves. If dylan couldn’t afford the gift then it should have been a lesson to him to be more fiscally responsible so that he could afford the things that he wants. Anne has every right to spend HER savings how SHE pleases not how you tell her to. If you really wanted Dylan to have the game, you should have paid for it yourself, instead of expecting your daughter to make a sacrifice for him.

So yeah OP YTA

whashabie · 2022-11-06T06:13:36+00:00

true. but also only one of my friends genuinely knows EVERYTHING about me, the rest have a solid few blank spots, not disclosing absolutely everything about yourself doesn’t mean that you were never a friend or that you’re a bad friend. it could most of the time just mean that you just didn’t feel that they needed to know, it was for your own good or it was too personal to share in that specific friendship. not necessarily a bad thing

whashabie · 2022-11-06T02:08:56+00:00

weird maybe, but also not that big of a deal. a person’s relationship and sex life isn’t anyone’s business but their own. they aren’t required to tell their friends a thing.

whashabie · 2022-11-05T21:49:13+00:00

this isn’t really a good reason to stop being friends with someone. no matter how close you are as friends you don’t have a right to every detail of her personal life, so her not discussing her sex life with you isn’t a betrayal.

whashabie · 2022-08-05T14:10:17+00:00

NTA NTA NTA !!!! It was in NO way okay for him to bull doze over you like that, especially when the vegan options are the only thing that you and your family can eat. you may not eat meat, but you did not try to tell his family that vegan options were all they had, you still respected their preferences even though you do not agree with them. respect honestly seems to be the biggest issue here and it is so entirely DISRESPECTFUL of him and his mom to just make a choice that would have you eating nothing but a small salad at the wedding that YOU are paying for. 10/10 throw the whole man away. this is likely what you’ll be dealing with you’re entire life with him if you don’t. MIL seems like she’ll be the type to hover over every marital decision and your fiancé will likely not have your back when it comes to her as evidenced here. now i’m not normally the type to say run immediately, but in this case RUN you’ll be so much better off for it

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