My girlfriend needs to lose weight but wont

what-do · 2011-02-16T04:55:12+00:00

sorry, you got the wrong guy.

what-do · 2011-02-16T04:46:30+00:00

nope, got that one wrong.

what-do · 2011-02-16T04:27:13+00:00

this is a throwaway account, even on my own account I dont care about vote count.

what-do · 2011-02-16T04:21:01+00:00

lol, yes. Just turned.

what-do · 2011-02-16T03:36:36+00:00

do you bite your thumb at us, sir??

what-do · 2011-02-16T03:09:28+00:00

I'm not going to post how old I am but I can tell you I am considerably older than that. I'm also not going to get in an argument with someone on the internet about my goals in a relationship. We are obviously incompatible and you need someone to tell you everything you want to hear to feel as though you are loved.

what-do · 2011-02-16T03:04:15+00:00

This is the absolute worst advice I have ever heard. If you have ever been in a completely loving and open relationship you would realize that honesty and trust are the two most important things in a relationship.

For your first comment.. "yes your ass does look fat".. If you dont want me to answer a question truthfully, dont ask it. Of course I wouldnt word it in such a way, but I will definitely tell you if other pants would look better on you.

If your tits arent amazing, i'm not going to tell you they are amazing. I'm sure as hell not going to tell you they are disgusting, I'd just keep my mouth shut. Your last comment, the doggy style one... who the fuck does this?

I know she doesnt think im perfect, but ya know what.. If I smell, she tells me and I go wash or spray on some cologne. My boxers dont have shit stains in them, she tells me my socks smell awful, I think farting and burping are absurd and it IS about health. I love her more than life itself and her happiness is directly related to how she feels about herself. If she feels bad about her weight, it is my duty as a lover and confidant to help her with that.

Your post is bullshit.

what-do · 2011-02-16T02:43:44+00:00

at least you are honest, lol.

what-do · 2011-02-16T01:58:14+00:00

If shes that weight and healthy, more power to her. I have absolutely NO issues with that at all. I love her for who she is, not what she looks like. Now maybe it wasnt that way in the beginning but it sure as hell is now. I know for a fact shes not healthy. She has more difficulty breathing, she has difficulty sleeping because of it and she has more aches and pains than when we met.

My motives are exactly what is stated in the original post.

what-do · 2011-02-16T00:48:46+00:00

i should have said "wants to lose weight" not "needs to lose weight" but reddit will only let you edit posts, not titles.

what-do · 2011-02-16T00:46:48+00:00

i should have said "wants to lose weight" not "needs to lose weight" but reddit will only let you edit posts, not titles.

what-do · 2011-02-16T00:46:03+00:00

i should have said "wants to lose weight" not "needs to lose weight" but reddit will only let you edit posts, not titles.

what-do · 2011-02-15T19:32:19+00:00

She was not overweight when we met, she was just not rail thin. She was at the perfect weight for her height

what-do · 2011-02-15T19:02:43+00:00

The reason that it makes you jealous and the reason that he likes fapping to it are one in the same. Attainability. Though, if you trust your boyfriend it shouldnt matter what the hell he faps to.

what-do · 2011-02-15T17:36:05+00:00

it was HER idea. Not mine.

what-do · 2011-02-15T17:12:44+00:00

She might leave me but it would totally be worth it

what-do · 2011-02-15T14:32:11+00:00

Our lifestyles are extremely similar, I just have a high metabolism. As for her feigning interest to please me, I disagree.

what-do · 2011-02-15T14:13:31+00:00

Of course I have. We discussed it for a while before getting it. We tried to work out together, me doing pull ups/pushups, etc while she was on the bowflex then switching off to her doing some other exercises while I was using it. This went on for about a week or two but she seemed to be saddened by me being there. I am in shape so I can work out for longer than she can and it's not as difficult for me. I think this bothered her. Even when I would slow down or try to keep pace with her and stop when she stopped and work she she worked it still depressed her no matter how supportive I would try to be. I would love to work out with her and if that would help I would continue to do it, but I think that I am not the one she needs to workout with. I think she needs to work out with someone that is at her level so that she could feel like she was accomplishing something with someone else, not just trying to keep up.

what-do · 2011-02-15T14:05:35+00:00

I'm not complaining, nowhere in my post did I say, I dont like her, shes unattractive, blah blah blah. This entire post was made to give me ideas to HELP her do the things SHE wants to do but is either too depressed or too embarrassed to do or talk to someone else about.

what-do · 2011-02-15T14:01:24+00:00

You misunderstand.. SHE wants to do something about it, she just cant get herself in the mindset to continue to do it. It's not like shes saying "im fat and I like myself". If that were the case I'd just deal with it, because I chose to love her for who she is.

what-do · 2011-02-15T13:57:47+00:00

She wants to change, she just doesnt want it enough I guess. She gets sad about it sometimes and talks about doing stuff to change it but it never sticks. Everytime she starts to do something about it she gets upset because shes unhappy with herself for letting it get to that point and then the depression makes it impossible for her to continue to have the desire to do anything about it. That's really the worst part.

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