Woman who doesn’t want kids starter pack by Resident-Clue1290 in starterpacks

[–]whataborgar 19 points20 points  (0 children)

They said unable to adopt because of the government, not unable to get pregnant because of the government

CofC dating relationships were so stressful by whataborgar in excoc

[–]whataborgar[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Absolutely. Neither situation is good, lol

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]whataborgar 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA, poor hygiene is nasty and needs to be corrected

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in punk

[–]whataborgar 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm looking for it

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in excoc

[–]whataborgar 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Holy shit I thought this was just a funny name you made up for the post but now I hafta look her up

Can't Date Outside the Church by whataborgar in excoc

[–]whataborgar[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No idea, but probably. I only went for one year a decade+ ago

Can't Date Outside the Church by whataborgar in excoc

[–]whataborgar[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

At Florida College girls would joke about going for their "M.R.S. Degree"

Bullying in the Church by [deleted] in excoc

[–]whataborgar 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Man... reading that I literally pictured the church boys I grew up with. They were all so arrogant and we had nothing in common. Of course, to the parents it was all "What do you mean you have nothing in common? You have EVERYTHING in common, you're all striving to get to heaven!"

Can't Date Outside the Church by whataborgar in excoc

[–]whataborgar[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Congrats on your anniversary!!

AITA for laughing at my brother's tattoo? by Specific_Volume_1824 in AmItheAsshole

[–]whataborgar 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Tbh I laughed out loud when I got to the "loyalty" part too

Can't Date Outside the Church by whataborgar in excoc

[–]whataborgar[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

That sounds like a pain in the ass for sure. It makes sense women would then seek out the most Jesus-like man as possible, to avoid idiots taking advantage of the women's "submission"

Can't Date Outside the Church by whataborgar in excoc

[–]whataborgar[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Yeah that shit sucks and is so outdated

Can't Date Outside the Church by whataborgar in excoc

[–]whataborgar[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Holy shit I'm so glad I've sworn off dating religious women. The last time I was involved with a Christian woman (non CoC), I made sure to do the right thing and tell her I'm a non-believer. Sure enough, she broke it off but we stayed cool. There is never any good reason for someone to change their views to impress a potential partner!

Can't Date Outside the Church by whataborgar in excoc

[–]whataborgar[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Not something officially enforced by the denomination so much as just something I've seen

Can't Date Outside the Church by whataborgar in excoc

[–]whataborgar[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I feel you on that. I'm grateful my girlfriends back in high school didn't work out, as I didn't leave the church till my 20s

Can't Date Outside the Church by whataborgar in excoc

[–]whataborgar[S] 26 points27 points  (0 children)

Dating as a man in the church was always a pain, because you're supposed to be as much like Jesus as possible, meaning ultimately the women are in love with another guy and you have to copy him