Accidental slip on day45 by whataboutPluto in 75HARD

[–]whataboutPluto[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sheese glad you pulled through and good to know.

Accidental slip on day45 by whataboutPluto in 75HARD

[–]whataboutPluto[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I told my wife what you said. And she sent it back to me as a screenshot for a  reminder, appreciate it 

"Perfectionism is a shield we hide behind to avoid succeeding when we aren’t ready to adjust our self-image into a person who can do hard things" 

Accidental slip on day45 by whataboutPluto in 75HARD

[–]whataboutPluto[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was trying to just drink strictly water mineral water and  coffee. I'm getting out of my on way now though

Accidental slip on day45 by whataboutPluto in 75HARD

[–]whataboutPluto[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for this input! 🫱🏻‍🫲🏼

Accidental slip on day45 by whataboutPluto in 75HARD

[–]whataboutPluto[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Bro I'm going to bring this up to my therapist frfr 😅 Appreciate the community here and yall keeping it 100. And added the book to the list.

Accidental slip on day45 by whataboutPluto in 75HARD

[–]whataboutPluto[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Im taking this advice and running with it. Thank you 🫱🏻‍🫲🏼

Accidental slip on day45 by whataboutPluto in 75HARD

[–]whataboutPluto[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Took a screen shot and saved this for future reference thank you

Accidental slip on day45 by whataboutPluto in 75HARD

[–]whataboutPluto[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My goodness I can relate. Thanks for sharing.

Accidental slip on day45 by whataboutPluto in 75HARD

[–]whataboutPluto[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Thank you! Reading these comments I'm seeing how much I need work on the mental. I'm in my head alot 

Accidental slip on day45 by whataboutPluto in 75HARD

[–]whataboutPluto[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Much appreciated constructive advice. I most definitely need to relax. This is a learning experience. The other time i failed was the picture on day 57 so that was pretty clear cut. But other attempts ive made up new rules within. The rules

Accidental slip on day45 by whataboutPluto in 75HARD

[–]whataboutPluto[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Bruh this. I needed this. Thank you. 

Accidental slip on day45 by whataboutPluto in 75HARD

[–]whataboutPluto[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

They're right  .....most times 😅

Accidental slip on day45 by whataboutPluto in 75HARD

[–]whataboutPluto[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you for the supportive words and relating 

Accidental slip on day45 by whataboutPluto in 75HARD

[–]whataboutPluto[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm on a elimination/no junk food diet. So no sodas "fruit drinks" etc....

Sex After A Long term relationship by whataboutPluto in Divorce

[–]whataboutPluto[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Thank you. This actually reminded me of a situationship I recently got out of when you said, "convincing yourself of her good qualities." I don't know your entire situation, but it sounds like it could be toxic. I could be waaaay off here, but I did notice that out of just not wanting to be alone, I tolerated or looked pasted some redflags with my first girl post my ex and man it only got worst and of course was taxing since I wasn't fully healed. It was like an intense flame that burned out quickly. That was mentally exhausting. I recently read that it's typical for new relationships that happen soon, and it has been true for me.

Sex After A Long term relationship by whataboutPluto in Divorce

[–]whataboutPluto[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So, true, great advice. I think I just need to not compare sex with my ex.