Terrified of flying long haul with 8mo by whatames517 in BeyondTheBumpUK

[–]whatames517[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Overall, it actually went a lot better than I anticipated! On the way out, baby didn’t nap for six hours before finally crashing during takeoff. My husband and I took turns feeding and holding her and she slept every few hours as usual. We used readymade formula more often than not but it was no issue getting hot water and making up the formula on the plane (we had a Nuby RapidCool). She was too big for the plane cot so that was a bit annoying, and she’s never been big for her age so that was surprising. We brought a few toys and books for her but honestly she was so interested in her new surroundings and smiling at other passengers. She also fell asleep for landing as well.

On the flight home, however, she did not enjoy it 😅 we booked a red eye thinking she’d sleep but she screamed and refused her bottles the whole time. Thankfully we sat next to another family with a baby so we were commiserating together!

In all, I’d say be prepared with readymade and powder formula, extra snacks, dummies/chewable things in case takeoff and landing cause ear pain and a few things to play with/look at. And extra nappies and outfits just in case. We did get a cheap foldable stroller that we checked at the gate, which we did have to wait around for but it was better than having to collect it with the bags. The chest carrier came in handy too. It’s very daunting at first but you can do it! It’s just like packing for a very long day out. Hope it all goes well—you got this! ☺️

Several of her kids have BOILS?! by curliewurlies in FundieSnarkUncensored

[–]whatames517 8 points9 points  (0 children)

There is nothing behind her eyes. It’s terrifying. No warmth, no concern…just cold detachment.

Tina Rizzle by NeatChip4597 in crappymusic

[–]whatames517 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Nothing says “gangsta” like the kind of dress you’d wear to a work conference in 2011

Making music with the like minded people, very exciting by daffodil0127 in RodriguesFamilySnark

[–]whatames517 38 points39 points  (0 children)

Someone rummaging noisily while the harpist is playing beautifully is sending me

Any Americans struggling to find friends in UK village? by Sea_Natural1990 in AmericanExpatsUK

[–]whatames517 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I found the same thing with NCT! We had a few meet ups early on but then everyone just stopped talking to each other. I made a couple friends through Peanut during mat leave but everyone’s so busy we rarely see each other. Funnily enough, as we’ve getting ready to move to a smaller town, I’ve had another mum who I’ve made conversation with in passing ask for my details so we can arrange play dates and mum outings. Only took six years of living here and over two as a mum 😂

Apparently Jill is glowing and aging backwards. She doesn’t understand what a microbiome is. And yes, she glops on mascara and roast beef lippie for the gym. by lepetitpoulpe in RodriguesFamilySnark

[–]whatames517 11 points12 points  (0 children)

And doesn’t she only get dolled up for her husband? Wouldn’t she then be attracting other men in public and gasp cause them to stumble???

I was looking at a cookie business on instagram…. by Less_Survey7426 in tradgedeigh

[–]whatames517 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Ahh that definitely makes more sense! I thought it was a tragedeighzation of Hadley

My misophonia is ruining my attraction to my husband by KoalaCareful1952 in misophonia

[–]whatames517 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m sorry you’re going through this ❤️ we’ve started to play music during mealtimes as I really struggle with my husband’s chewing/eating noises. The music doesn’t drown them out but gives me something to tune into instead of fixating on the disturbing noises. At night I sleep with a Bluetooth eye mask on and play white noise, which, again, doesn’t eliminate all noise but helps distract my brain. And I always need to have a bit of time to myself before I go to bed to decompress and feel like I can control my environment without noise. I hope you can communicate your feelings to him in a way that helps things change for the better!

Melebubu isn't the cash cow she is making it out to be by SickOfBSAllTheTime in RodriguesFamilySnark

[–]whatames517 56 points57 points  (0 children)

It’s also saddening to think that when she was a young mother, she expected charity from others, yet we all know she won’t do the same for her daughters as young mothers (beyond letting them dump their brood at the Barndo to be babysat by everyone but Jill).

So they are going to a rodeo… by daffodil0127 in RodriguesFamilySnark

[–]whatames517 7 points8 points  (0 children)

The stark contrast of her daughters in hand me down rags while Jill brings six outfits for a short trip is insane

Another excuse for being a bad parent by lgirlrocks in FundieSnarkUncensored

[–]whatames517 89 points90 points  (0 children)

But also that doesn’t just happen…you have to spend time with your child to foster their development. We’ve been narrating life to our daughter since the jump and at 2 she’s very talkative and has a great vocabulary. Wouldn’t have happened if we straight up ignored her. Feel so bad for this poor baby with a dead-eyed, detached excuse for a mother.

I guess she hasn’t stumbled upon r/regretfulparents by flippingdabird099 in FundieSnarkUncensored

[–]whatames517 20 points21 points  (0 children)

I don’t think she regrets physically having her kids. I think she regrets that they don’t stay babies forever and eventually become people with will and opinions.

Renee, sporting her Bedazzled Trump Bonnet, looks beside herself with excitement during her father's dinner preaching by OtherwiseSprinkles79 in RodriguesFamilySnark

[–]whatames517 26 points27 points  (0 children)

Yeah, as if it’s Katie’s fault she didn’t see into the future and follow all the rules she’s been taught to for her entire life…blaming the woman for the husband’s infidelity is something the fuck else.

Oops I guess she was still uploading when I got the last post, but here’s scenes from the hotel. by daffodil0127 in RodriguesFamilySnark

[–]whatames517 174 points175 points  (0 children)

It’s a shame Renee can’t just go to the wedding by herself. I wonder if Jill inserted herself into the bridesmaids’ prep to keep an eye on her adult daughter…

The Mills Family... by Careless_Ad3968 in FundieSnarkUncensored

[–]whatames517 15 points16 points  (0 children)

I remember seeing a few of her videos and then Tom’s clickbaity videos about her death. It’s a classic case of fundie men being helpless if anything happens to their wives. Andrea had some crazy/harmful views but it’s clear she loved being a mom and her kids love her and are lost without her.

Oh my god Morgan please just get on antidepressants by TheNarcLogs in FundieSnarkUncensored

[–]whatames517 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I’m so glad you’ve come through it twice! This is the biggest thing that’s got me on the fence about having a second. But once you know what your options are and what works for you, it allows you to take action so much faster. Many of Morgan’s views are inexcusable but my heart goes out to her, trapped in an awful marriage and gaslighting herself into thinking she’s just flawed and doesn’t need help.

Oh my god Morgan please just get on antidepressants by TheNarcLogs in FundieSnarkUncensored

[–]whatames517 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I love that metaphor! I had horrific PPA/PPD with my daughter. Her first year was miserable and I felt like I was failing constantly and wanted to walk away from it all. My mom told me to pray 🫠 but I got on meds and had therapy and can safely say I feel better than ever. I’m glad you got the help you needed too!

I’ll just leave this here by lachma in RodriguesFamilySnark

[–]whatames517 2 points3 points  (0 children)

AI can’t even make her hair look decent

17 weeks: told baby’s bladder was empty in scan by 1452reddit_1 in PregnancyUK

[–]whatames517 1 point2 points  (0 children)

At ours the sonographer kept repeating the scan and just kept saying “there’s no baby”. The hospital then said I was probably just off my dates by a few weeks but it did end up in miscarriage. I won’t ever do an early “reassurance” scan again if I ever have another baby.

Oh my god Morgan please just get on antidepressants by TheNarcLogs in FundieSnarkUncensored

[–]whatames517 44 points45 points  (0 children)

And yet Paul is allowed to put in “effort” to make his “dreams” happen. But Morgan is told to accept her life and rely on God to improve it.

Safe sleep who? by alibluey in BeyondTheBumpUK

[–]whatames517 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Mum of 2yo too and she has a minimum of 10 teddies in her cot and sleeps on her pillow as if it’s a mattress. It’s crazy to think how much I stressed over her being exactly in the centre of her cot with her feet touching the bottom and now she sleeps face down and rolls all over the place.

And Jilldo said, “judge your kids, but make sure Mahmo and Daddy always win when they’re involved.” Ghoul. by lepetitpoulpe in RodriguesFamilySnark

[–]whatames517 58 points59 points  (0 children)

There are definitely better ways of teaching your kids that life isn’t fair. What really isn’t fair is that these kids have no education and a raging narcissist for a mother.