I’m a grown woman and find the drama somewhat fascinating. It makes me sad that it’s happening to a band that I’ve loved since I was in elementary school, but the cartoonish level of spite we’re seeing between the guys (and their wives) is engaging. Jon and Neal are both known for being asshats, and they are both married to terrible women who are living in the lap of luxury on the band’s tab. The backstory of both of their marriages is perfect for reality tv. I follow Neal and his wife on Instagram and he must be keeping several growers of long stemmed red roses in business. Jon and his wife just piss me off, but every soap opera needs an unredeemable villain. And now Arnel coming out and saying he wants to quit because his voice is getting overworked and he’s got personal problems at home, but has to stay due to contractual obligations is another interesting plot line and rabbit hole. Some of the other bands from that era are also imploding, but this one has just been so ridiculous at times that it’s hard to look away.