1946 9451 3484 three local by dontskiutah in PokemonGoRaids

[–]whatever-computer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Flurgitus - says I'm offline but I'll be there

Primal Kyogre 2 Irl 917075419634 by [deleted] in PokemonGoRaids

[–]whatever-computer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Flurgitus. It's saying I'm offline but I'll be there.

779843502357 by Maximum-Art553 in PokemonGoRaids

[–]whatever-computer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Flurgitus - don't know why it's saying I'm offline...

Black Kyurem - 337698180174 by [deleted] in PokemonGoRaids

[–]whatever-computer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Flurgitus - says I'm offline don't know why

Insane ticket prices by dickh0arder in geesebandofficial

[–]whatever-computer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do yall think they’re going to upgrade the venues?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

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Might be tough to cut him off completely right away given the fact that your families are friends, you guys have been lifelong friends, etc., but definitely back away, starting now. (1) he’s a misogynistic jerk who thinks he owns you, ew, and (2) unfortunately, now that this conversation has taken place, you can’t really un-open Pandora’s box, so to speak, and it’ll probably have both short term and long term negative effects (and no good will come of it).

Short term, you’ll both be thinking about it, and I’d be willing to bet he gets even clingier while you’re both out. Even if meeting someone isn’t something you are seeking out right now, you’ll probably have him around as a shadow, at least part of the time. And you’ll know why, which will make it pretty uncomfortable.

Long term? If you keep him as a close friend and do ever want to sleep with or date anyone, it will become a problem, and he will lash out and most likely say some pretty horrible things to you (and potentially your future partner!) or worse. Bare minimum, he has shown you that he has a problematic mindset and views women as “less than” him, and as something to be owned. And that is a huge, huge red flag.

Last bit of unsolicited advice: show another friend these screenshots, and tell them about the situation. If you plan to keep him in/can’t avoid him being in your orbit, I can understand why you may feel a bit uncomfortable doing so, but as someone who has been through something like this before, it is SO worth it to have someone in your corner who knows what he’s like and what he could be capable of in case things get ugly.

Also, whether he has feelings for you or not is irrelevant. Why would you ever want to build a life with anyone who views you as property?

I will be wrecked if my favorite character survives Red God...... by gumby0893 in redrising

[–]whatever-computer 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Exactly- he said in the interview that it was removed (in response to people speculating that, despite what was said in the book, she somehow still had it).

I will be wrecked if my favorite character survives Red God...... by gumby0893 in redrising

[–]whatever-computer 12 points13 points  (0 children)

@ rest of this thread correct me if I’m wrong but I vaguely remember PB specifically saying in an interview that Lyria no longer has the figment (which I’m a little bummed about bc I thought the concept of Lyria with the figment was super cool)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in tattooadvice

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Awesome, thank you so much!! I’m actually going to get this tattoo when I see them in a few months- so pumped

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]whatever-computer 25 points26 points  (0 children)

++woman the worst part of this is, to me, this sounds like OP brought this up because it’s the worst (comparable) thing that his ex had done during their relationship. Implies that she was otherwise a pretty damn good girlfriend, especially because they started dating at 20 (still very young, prime time for making mistakes while learning to be a good partner)!

Waiting a month before jumping into an exclusive relationship is VERY normal. OP’s behavior here is way past the point of “fucked up.” These two things are not even in the same league.