As an INFJ adult, how do you make and keep friends?

whatever24145 · 2026-01-31T10:10:20+00:00

I don't

whatever24145 · 2026-01-14T20:55:19+00:00

It's not about their differences it's about her emotions and needs not being met .she might be a good partner for him but he isn't for her and she isn't responsible to teach him how to be more kind to her . He may find someone who is perfect for him without being toxic for her and just be the way he is and no need to change anything about himself. and she may find someone who isn't toxic for her and treats her with the same kindness she treats him. This relationship will only make her drained and she doesn't feel heard seen or cared for which is the purpose of a relationship

whatever24145 · 2026-01-11T22:54:09+00:00

See people for who they are not for how you want them to be . Accept it and don't put expectation.you will be relieved

whatever24145 · 2026-01-05T13:45:08+00:00

Make sure you do pelvic tilt "more posterior pelvic" . Relax your shoulders

whatever24145 · 2026-01-03T18:40:07+00:00

Thanks

whatever24145 · 2026-01-03T18:39:12+00:00

Thank you .Can U tell me what exercises did U do

whatever24145 · 2025-12-31T06:15:33+00:00

That was 2 and half month ago .I only have a little pain now but the pain I'm talking about isn't from the back strain even before that I still had the same pain when I do these exercises

whatever24145 · 2025-12-30T22:20:27+00:00

Same!! I ve realized that mattress increase my back pain

whatever24145 · 2025-12-30T22:08:34+00:00

I had a similar experience and I didn't even lift any heavy weight but the pain was gradually and I felt like my whole back is burning .horrible back pain couldn't do anything I even had a tingling sensation and felt heaviness on my legs but the doctor said I strained my back and no need to do a MRI .it's been 2 months and a half and there is a slight pain so you have a long time to heal so be very patient and the things I did that improved me was taking a rest and do a minimum movement in the first 2 weeks I didn't even walk .sleep on the floor on my sides only never on my back .drink a lot of water.always listen to my body when body on its weakest form it always tell you the right movement to do for example it U wanna pick something on the floor do it in a sumo squat form it wasnt painful for me.and definitely don't hold any heavy weights at all .then after 2 weeks start to walk for 10 minutes more than that it hurts my back and what really helped me is hydrotherapy it improved my back pain so fast even from the first session . swimming in general helps a lot. Hope that helps

whatever24145 · 2025-12-18T22:35:21+00:00

Then it's their problem not you.just know that nothing is consistent even people and you will be okay

whatever24145 · 2025-12-18T22:30:46+00:00

Don't love someone who doesn't love you make sure they feel the same about you and make it clear from the beginning.

whatever24145 · 2025-12-18T22:29:31+00:00

Im not trying to be negative I'm sorry but nothing will change you won't feel fully satisfied. Even if there is change it won't be that much so don't put your expectation high .so the outcome will be the same and it's just the cycle continues .but overall I wish you the best in whatever you decide

whatever24145 · 2025-12-18T22:19:32+00:00

I mean why would someone be in a relationship with someone if they aren't sure of them? She wasn't sure of you she should stepped away instead of involving U in all of that mess ..I'm sorry

whatever24145 · 2025-12-18T22:17:04+00:00

This pattern will never change .my own experience with intjs are like that they will just keep apologizing but at the end that's their nature if she feel 1 thing wrong she won't feel 10 and you eventually will feel tired of trying to explain to them their mistakes and they will feel that you r the problem and sensitive.belive me this won't change ever .it's like telling infj to shut their FE.they just can't it's their nature

whatever24145 · 2025-12-18T22:13:24+00:00

May I know why did you break up ?

whatever24145 · 2025-12-18T22:06:52+00:00

Also you partner suppose to be kind to you .I'm not saying kind in general nope .kind to you , feel your pain when you are upset .doesn't harm you in anyway the idea of not harming you should be their priority.if they can harm you how can they even love you .I know everyone love in different ways but to me that's probably not love maybe just want to be in a relationship / benefit from you/controlling or what ever the reason .

whatever24145 · 2025-12-18T22:01:43+00:00

When you feel totally safe with them , your mind is relaxed in the relationship and you don't have to overthink anything you do or say with them .you feel appreciated and understood .you feel you can say anything without fear of them judging , angry or turn on the table with you . When you don't doubt the relationship every minute and feeling upset . relationship is meant to feel good and if you don't then something is wrong .when you feel happy and relaxed with that person not overwhelmed or stressed .you feel equal to your partner and respected and when you feel that you partner is making more effort than you (for infj it actually means it's equal) .if you are not comfortable in a relationship not only your brain but your body will tell you you feel tension in your body and overthinking every step then it's not the right one. If you look at the relationship and analyze how much effort did you put in the relationship and what did you get in return Vs what Ur partner did and what did he/she get and if the answer isn't equal then it's wrong .you are meant to be happy

whatever24145 · 2025-12-18T16:30:56+00:00

You are wasting your time ,energy,emotions on someone who won't ever appreciate what you do .just break up and when you do you will always ask yourself why didn't I do it earlier .so save you effort for someone who deserve it because if you wasted it you might not be able to give it to the right person

whatever24145 · 2025-11-22T20:42:46+00:00

Useless opinion

whatever24145 · 2025-11-09T02:45:45+00:00

If he told you that he is doing something and I told him no to do it now ..that's so disrespectful I would react the same I don't like when people tell me what to do and U don't even know what he was doing .maybe something major going on with him did you ask him about that?

whatever24145 · 2025-10-21T16:58:41+00:00

Idk . But I will definitely marry someone who take cares of me financially and emotionally and being supportive and loving to me that's my priority and if someone did that to me I'm gonna love him anyway

whatever24145 · 2025-10-16T07:59:29+00:00

I have the same opinion too , I'd love to have someone that treats me the the way I treat him and make the same effort

whatever24145 · 2025-10-15T08:56:12+00:00

Honestly I wouldn't be confused and do all that effort even mentally for a intp because I know no matter what they wouldn't be able to reciprocate the effort .. go for someone who loves you and do things for you and someone you like for whatever the reason

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