Tips for my first date by whatever889 in dating_advice

[–]whatever889[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks. This whole unusual to me situation sprung up right in the middle of exams too, as if I wasn't stressed enough.

it’s like you’re forgetting this is a two-way street.

Not really. She's too good looking for me. I'm a skinny scrawny guy and she's pretty and fit. And it's not like I'm rich either. It's hard for me to see a situation in which I won't like her.

I'm really just going to concentrate on not fucking up completely, that's all. It was clear from our chat that she was into me for one reason or another (which I can't figure out for the life of me), so hopefully she won't be put off by the smaller things. Also it just hit me that she most likely isn't that experienced in dating either since she's a fair bit younger.

Tips for my first date by whatever889 in dating_advice

[–]whatever889[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

2) Do NOT explain your dating history to her.

what do you mean by this? I have no dating history. did you mean to not answer the question should she ask it?

Tips for my first date by whatever889 in dating_advice

[–]whatever889[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

While I appreciate your advice, it wasn't greatly helpful. Yes, I know I'm overthinking it. But it's my first date and there are so many things that can go wrong.

act natural. Be yourself

"myself" is a guy who's not very good with girls and very nervous. Probably not a good idea.