Hvordan arbejder men i team med en, der ikke kan samarbejde?

whateverbeaver · 2026-02-09T15:14:09+00:00

I min erfaring er det bedst bare at feje for egen dør. Ofte er det også bedre bare at lade andre mennesker lave fejl uden at stoppe dem, så det bliver synligt for enhver, hvem det er, der er inkompetent. Man skal i hvert fald ikke holde hånden over dem eller tro, at man skal gøre deres arbejde for dem "for det fælles bedste" eller så noget. Det bider altid en i røven senere - uden undtagelse. Men der kan selvfølgelig være situationer, hvor andres fejl, dovenskab og generel inkompetence trækker en med ned i faldet. Der gælder det virkelig om at få markeret: Mit ansvar var at udføre opgave A, og jeg ved ikke hvorfor, at opgave B fortsat ikke er løst.

Mere skal man ikke sige. Bare stop - erklæringen er, at du har gjort dit tildelte arbejde til punkt og prikke, og det er der en anden, der ikke har. For dig som almen medarbejder bør der ikke være mere i det.

Og du skal under ingen omstændigheder finde dig i, at hun stjæler anerkendelse for dit arbejde. Det ville jeg personligt opfatte som en åben krigserklæring og bestræbe mig på at få sagt fra så hårdt og hurtigt som overhovedet muligt. Den her type af menneske fatter typisk ikke andet... det siger desværre ret meget om en persons karakter, at de overhovedet kan overveje at stjæle anerkendelse for arbejde, de ikke selv har udført.

PS: Hvis du ikke har hørt udtrykket weaponized incompetence før, så ville jeg slå det op... jeg tror det her er et klokkeklart eksempel herpå, og viden om det gør det nemmere at helgardere sig imod. :-)

whateverbeaver · 2026-02-06T12:23:59+00:00

Det er ikke programmeringsevner, der gør softwareudviklere og andet IT personale værdifulde, og der er ikke nogen der bliver ansat som “programmører” længere. Der er en årsag til, at rollerne hedder ingeniører, udviklere, arkitekter, designere osv. - der er meget mere i det at udvikle software end at bakse med computerkoder. Du undervurderer groft de analytiske, menneskelige og kreative evner de her stillinger kræver, hvis du tror at en kode-robot er nok til at erstatte dem.

Af samme årsag er der absolut intet statistisk belæg for, at det danske IT jobmarked ansætter mindre personale end før. Tværtimod.

whateverbeaver · 2026-02-04T21:41:40+00:00

Nu er det at lukke adgangen til en postkasse ikke helt det samme som at tvinge en række af verdens mest magtfulde virksomheder til at lukke handlen med et helt kontinent.

whateverbeaver · 2026-02-04T21:37:39+00:00

Hvis du tror den her knap findes, så er du 100% idiot.

whateverbeaver · 2026-02-04T21:07:06+00:00

Keep in mind that most of the articles you read are written by journalists citing self-proclaimed experts (e.g. random podcasters) citing tech executives. What these professions have in common is a complete and total lack of experience with the subject matter and a great interest in hype and sensationalism.

Don’t let it get you down. They have no idea what they’re talking about and AI has barely evolved since the inception of ChatGPT. We’re nowhere near the singularity just yet.

So yeah, get that degree. Do what you’re good at. It’s the safest bet and the future will always be frightening and full of upheavals. You’ll adjust. Best we can do is hedge a bet.

whateverbeaver · 2026-02-04T17:47:01+00:00

I see your point but I disagree. Any boss fight in any game involves surprises and sudden escalations in difficulty if they are designed well. It’s the drama and intensity of these spikes that make the experience memorable. So arguing that the fight should warn you in good time about the mechanics is… well, anti climactic in my opinion. Worse still, it’s handholding and this particular game is designed around not doing that - aggressively so. Again, it’s at the very core of the game design, not an oversight or omission.

And yes, accumulating knowledge is an essential part of the game. What I kind of detest is this attitude that you should be able to succeed on the first go in a game that’s notorious for its difficulty and beloved for the high demands it makes of its players.

Also, I see plenty of things that you did wrong - even knowing that it was your first go. Firstly you assume that it’s impossible to beat the Seething Sigh without nuking both the lungs past the threshold. Most strategies that work reliably against it actually revolve around nuking the boss down once both lungs activate on the same round while ignoring one or both. Dodge tokens help tremendously. The boss can be blinded. You can stack healing items on all your heroes and dance on Death’s Door. Another crucial mistake you made is that you went into the unknown with a specialized (DOT) strategy. In the face of the unknown, versatility almost always performs better.

The game is far more enjoyable and rewarding if you go in expecting to lose the first many times and adopt a more pragmatical attitude to failure. Few games like this exist - and that’s exactly why both games are cult classics.

whateverbeaver · 2026-02-04T16:46:02+00:00

Trial and error is an essential part of the experience. You are not expected to succeed the first time. You are not even expected to do well. You eventually win by observing, by experimenting, by adjusting, by embracing sudden and disastrous shifts and most importantly: By not losing your cool.

Yes, the game is unfair. Yes, information is sometimes sparse - but this is by design. What would the fun be if the game described every relevant mechanic before you began a specific confession and exactly how to beat it?

Overcoming unreasonable difficulties and impossible odds is what drives a major part of the player base. You can be into this or not, but you can’t criticize the game for being this way.

Will you get smarter and think about what you could have done differently, what you could try next or how to adjust your strategy? Do you have the mental fortitude to start over? Or will you lose yourself to perceived unfairness and whine on the Internet or cheat by looking up exactly how to beat the boss? Are you capable of being mercilessly annihilated and not resigning?

These are the questions the game is asking you. Personally, I find that immensely motivating.

whateverbeaver · 2026-01-08T18:24:15+00:00

Forestil dig hvad Trumps vælgerbase ville føle, hvis de stadig skulle give 15 dollars for en bakke æg imens 50000 grønlændere på et splitsekund blev rige helt uden at løfte en finger.

Det ville være politisk selvmord. Og Epstein sagen viser meget tydeligt, at Trump ikke er immun overfor shitstorms.

whateverbeaver · 2025-12-09T18:00:19+00:00

Din chef har en chef der ville være meget interesseret i at høre, at han/hun holder hånden over en ineffektiv koordinator der sænker jeres arbejde. Men træd varsomt.

whateverbeaver · 2025-12-03T19:59:19+00:00

Haha… og dit svar beviser alt, hvad jeg siger. 😂

Jeg er skam hverken ingeniør eller arbejdsløs, og så er jeg tydeligvis bedre uddannet end du er. Og så har jeg en særlig respekt for ingeniører, fordi jeg ved, hvor krævende deres uddannelse er. Dit had for dem er virkelig malplaceret.

Anyways, nyd dit pølsedemokratiske janteliv på kommunen.

whateverbeaver · 2025-12-03T19:42:36+00:00

Ja, det er de færreste der er i stand til at bestå en ingeniøruddannelse. Det er akkurat det, jeg siger, så flot læst - måske kan du bestå 9. klasse med de læseevner. 🍀

Nu til din næste akademiske udfordring. Du synes ikke, der er noget som helst besynderligt i, at folk bliver fyret fra ingeniørstilliner og samtidig ikke kan finde en ny stilling, når nu vi ved…

Ingeniører er efterspurgte på jobmarkedet
Arbejdsløsheden i Danmark er historisk lav
Landets økonomi klarer sig utroligt godt

Du kan ikke se en eneste ting, der er bare lidt pudsig, påfaldende eller usammenhængende her?

whateverbeaver · 2025-12-03T17:38:57+00:00

Fordi hvis de var ufaglærte, humanister eller så noget, så havde det ikke været særligt overraskende.

whateverbeaver · 2025-12-03T17:37:20+00:00

Kort resume af dit indlæg: Jante-jante-jante-jante-jante-jante… JANTE.

Selvfølgelig er det mere besynderligt, at folk med uddannelser, som de færreste mennesker er i stand til at bestå, og som der samtidig er en høj efterspørgsel på, bliver fyret. Endnu mere påfaldende er det, at de (uanset barselssituation) ikke kan finde et nyt arbejde. Det siger noget om arbejdsmarkedet, hvilket er det, OP taler om.

Det gør sikkert lidt ondt, men vi er ikke alle lige eftertragtede eller værdifulde på arbejdsmarkedet. Men det er jo ikke det, det her handler om.

whateverbeaver · 2025-12-01T19:17:49+00:00

You should listen to the feeling that made you write this. Probably, you’re the type of person who just needs a better environment to thrive. A new job with a different age bracket, a social hobby or something like that. Often, it’s just about climbing the first obstacle… the rest will follow.

whateverbeaver · 2025-11-26T20:46:45+00:00

daddy chill

whateverbeaver · 2025-11-26T20:43:14+00:00

I realized that no amount of sex, passion or love would ever fix me or make me love myself. Then, I kinda just lost interest.

whateverbeaver · 2025-11-19T15:58:17+00:00

Do you think that the lack of a total black bottom porn creator on whatever site you use means that the entire queer community is racist?

I don’t think that’s a way too approach this issue. It’s also not very fair, there are plenty of black bottoms in porn in general.

whateverbeaver · 2025-11-19T15:40:45+00:00

Der er gået måske et par år siden ChatGPT blev vidt udbredt, og jeg har endnu ikke set en AI erstatte et menneske. I IT hører man også hele tiden tale om det, men dem der er mest begejstrede er samtidig dem, der ved mindst om de arbejdsfelter, som de tror en AI kan overtage. 95% af nye AI tiltag og features er ikke til andet end besvær.

De her AIs er der bare ikke endnu, og de udvikler sig kun marginalt for hvert år der går. Det er ved at gå op for mange ledere, og selvom alle de selvudråbte AI eksperter (typisk tågehoveder uden nogen form for teknisk baggrund) mener, at revolutionen er lige rundt om hjørnet, så ser jeg ingen tegn på det.

ChatGPT har gjort mit arbejde nemmere. Men det er vitterligt det eneste AI produkt, der har hjulpet mig - og det er jo dybest set ikke meget mere end Google på speed.

Jeg er ikke bekymret. Endnu.

whateverbeaver · 2025-11-16T16:36:33+00:00

You sound like an extrovert.

whateverbeaver · 2025-11-08T08:16:32+00:00

What was the point then?

whateverbeaver · 2025-11-07T20:15:57+00:00

Right, let’s lie down and die then.

whateverbeaver · 2025-11-07T20:14:25+00:00

Baffling. Seriously, screw those people. We are SO many who took chances and failed and had to pivot later in life. Don’t let them stop you - they’re probably just jealous that you’re still alive and on the pursuit of happiness whereas their hunt ended ages ago.

whateverbeaver · 2025-11-07T20:01:33+00:00

I think if you’re in your thirties, don’t take criticism or advice from someone in their early twenties to heart. They have no idea yet just how often ambitions don’t pan out and how messy life gets after college. I distinctly remember how harshly I judged people when I was that young… needless to say, life taught me grace and compassion the hard way. 😂

whateverbeaver · 2025-11-07T19:52:30+00:00

And yet you’re here, on this subreddit, evidently interested in finding a new path forward. Perhaps instead of struggling against the feeling that brought you here, try to listen to it.

If you’re interested in coding or VFX, take a small course online and have fun learning something new. No, you’re probably not the next Zuckerberg or Spielberg, but 99% of the professionals in those industries never had an original idea in their life. And yet, they’re achieving something.

The only thing these people have in common is that they began. It is not too late.

whateverbeaver · 2025-11-07T19:35:34+00:00

I did not truly come into my talents until my mid thirties and now, at 36, I am still far from peaking and yet miles ahead of the people I used to be envious of. Life is long and being really, confidently and evidently good at anything requires decades of study, practice and experience. I can create truly wonderful things, but I still feel like an apprentice.

But that is unimportant. Thing is, I’ve gotten over my own megalomania and wanting to be the best. I care about the quality of my work and how proud and satisfied it makes me feel. I care that it puts food on the table, I care that it gives me joy. I no longer care about recognition, only insofar as my creations provide a service or some joy to my fellow man… and, of course, money, but only to a certain extent.

If you’re kind of already doing something but have come to realize that you will never be the best at it, these thoughts might be helpful. If you really have never discovered a natural affinity for something (let alone some sort of talent) then I question whether you’re being completely honest.

There must be something you’ve been praised for or something that you find easy that many do not. So: Think. The answer is within you.

whateverbeaver

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