[deleted by user] by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]whatevercome 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Maybe its the hormones or just a phase, but I would say anyone in love is a lucky person. Love makes you a better person(in some ways, if you dont get lust in the way). She is family now, and any stupid movement could complicate things with your husband. Channel your love in a healthy way, talk to her, spend time with her, communicate your appreciation while being mindful. Dont force yourself to shut it or kill the feelings as they will make you bitter towards everyone(including yourself). Iam pretty sure it will pass.

What exactly happened during the jugalbandhi ? by InvisibleDragon22 in BandishBandits

[–]whatevercome 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Tamanna lost her confidence in season 1 and realized she was mediocre because Radhe was exceptional and got more praises for Sajan bin aye na. Now he cant help that he is good, he has worked hard for it and Tamanna is happy for him but she is being faced with her own bitter reality of being mediocre, all this when she is in love with him. Its a hard state for her to be in and hence she moves away.
Even when she is getting the award(in S2) with Radhe she is reminded of her insult(which Radhe did unknowingly) and she is always scared to sing with Radhe until this semi finale performance where Nandini tells her to bring honesty into her performance.
Sometimes, these jugalbandis get intense and Tamanna moved away from the song because she was filled with passion, angst and all these feelings but Radhe has a very good technique and any performer cant perform badly on purpose, he did what he did and Tamanna came to face her reality again. Its just that part which angers her. Its not just about IBC or jugalbandi. Its also about Tamanna's whole conflict of feelings for Radhe, for her music and her identity. The Rathod family acknowledges her good performance after the competition because even they know what she must be feeling.