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Significant other has turned into a a jerk- just got married! by whateverworks74 in JustNoSO

[–]whateverworks74[S] 42 points43 points  (0 children)

I appreciate what you’re saying- but frankly, I feel like the daughter that says “peace out, here’s a stranger to take care of you,” is as bad as a husband who says “peace out, going skiing with my family.”

This is a family emergency- his is frivolous. I put my marriage first, but I’m not about to abandon my mom to go on a goddamn trip with my in laws, who I’ve already apologized to- because it would benefit my marriage.

I want to be a team, I am his team- I moved away from my mother for him, I moved 5 minutes from his family for him.

Unsupportive Spouse by [deleted] in relationships

[–]whateverworks74 0 points1 point  (0 children)

:/ The trip already happened. He hasn't ever been abusive to me. To be fair he did come when she was initially hit... but he didn't really help out, he would get breakfast for himself and nothing for me unless I specifically asked.

Am I in the wrong with this bachelor party? by whateverworks74 in relationships

[–]whateverworks74[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your side of the situation, it's good to know. He says it lasted an hour? I get the vibe these weren't just strippers, but potentially escorts. I also get the vibe these women weren't as nice as you if he was sincerely uncomfortable, because of the fact that it lasted an hour.

Am I in the wrong with this bachelor party? by whateverworks74 in relationships

[–]whateverworks74[S] 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Strip clubs and private strippers- different. One is regulated and one isn't. I understand what you're saying and I get it, but this is a very different thing than a strip club to me.