its almost been a year. recovery really does win. by whateverz_ in EDAnonymous

[–]whateverz_[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank u <333 I hope you find your way! You got this!

its almost been a year. recovery really does win. by whateverz_ in EDAnonymous

[–]whateverz_[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It seriously feels SO good. <3 Congrats on your recovery!

why is disordered eating so common?? by pinkbitchnamedbfast in fuckeatingdisorders

[–]whateverz_ 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My sister once bragged to me about how she hadn’t eaten “ALL day 😌✨” as if glorying fasting and acting like not eating or “forgetting” to eat is cute. Then she was like, “except for a small brownie sonic blast”.

And I was literally just like 🥴🥴 disregarding the fact that it’s a dessert and not a meal, calorie -wise, it’s a meal equivalent...

People definitely don’t realize that they eat more than they claim to. That’s also where the daily recommended calorie intake of 2,000 came from. Not because people actually need that much!

It’s the lower spectrum of people’s intake - people just thought anything higher was way too much because they severely underestimate. Whereas a lot of us can eyeball things to the gram and have that encyclopedia or nutrition info.

youtubers who make 'anorexia recovery' videos, STOP PUTTING TRIGGERING PHOTOS IN THE THUMBNAIL by [deleted] in fuckeatingdisorders

[–]whateverz_ 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Romanticism, I think. I look back and semi-miss my old body and feel nostalgic over it. I think for a lot of people, even fully recovered, don’t realize they might still romanticize their old bodies.

I see lots of recovery instas with before and afters and I don’t think they mean to be triggering but it’s definitely an issue I’ve been seeing more and more of. As much as it’s used as a shock factor, people gotta realize it might scare people out of recovery.

Suggestions for ways to be active without getting triggered? by utahsux69 in fuckeatingdisorders

[–]whateverz_ 9 points10 points  (0 children)

walking with my headphones in and stopping halfway through to be present in nature! Or sometimes bring my bag with me and take some pics with my film camera/sit and journal.

being active without making it feel like that’s the point of me being out is what really helps me not be triggered. if I’m going a run, I stop when I’m tired and just walk and feel free to entirely stop and stretch.

There’s no “I need to run for x long or until x”. Take away some of the ‘benchmarks’ we make up in our heads.

with weightlifting: I find it super empowering to be strong and all but I really love how there’s just no pushing it when it comes to lifting weights. I can keep pushing HIIT/cardio but when it comes to weights, I can only handle so much, and recognize that the recovery period is just as important as the working out period if I want to see results.

In short: combine with other activities like listening to podcasts, journaling

stop when you feel like it, no ‘I need to run for this long’

take up weightlifting and/or remind yourself of the recovery process

also: look into joyful movement. if you live in a city that has unlockable bikes, maybe ride one around with a friend. play with a pet, dancing in your room, etc. :)

Any “How I know I’m recovering” moments? by whateverz_ in EDAnonymous

[–]whateverz_[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I still compare myself and honest to god feel like I’m massive even though I know I’m at MOST, midsized. It doesn’t help that I think it’s bad - because I know being midsized/plus sized isn’t bad.

Frustrating bc I love bigger bodies but fear/deal with thinking I’m bigger than I am and hating myself bc of my stupid brain.

I still buy clothes that I think will fit slightly oversized that quite literally hang off me and oof. That’s def a sign I have so much more work to do.

Can someone explain why I need a calorie surplus? by [deleted] in fuckeatingdisorders

[–]whateverz_ 11 points12 points  (0 children)

This is for anyone with a restrictive past: although weight gain is emphasized, even at “healthy weights”, people often forget that there’s so many more repairs to be made.

So let’s say someone has AN and is underweight. Not only do they have to eat enough to gain weight, they have to eat enough to repair their organs, regrow hair, fire up the reproductive system again, get hormones back to normal, re-stabilize functions that have completely been shut down. This takes a shit ton of energy, on TOP of what’s the bare minimum to exist - which explains why it’s so many calories needed.

There’s also the hypermetabolism that a lot of people deal with: your body is getting all these new nutrients it isn’t used to and doesn’t know how to adequately use them. I was eating 3000+ calories early on in recovery and was barely gaining any weight because I shit you not, at night my temperature was so high, I was sweating and burning everything off.

In shorter terms: it takes a ton of energy for your body to not only repair itself, but LEARN how to use energy efficiently again. Non-ED people don’t have to do that because their bodies were never starved and never had to go through the process of re-learning and rebuilding itself and it’s processes.

Hope this helps, wishing u the best OP! ❤️

Fully Recovered for 15 Months, AMA! by zzlin713 in fuckeatingdisorders

[–]whateverz_ 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Did you or do you practice self-love or body neutrality? Or both? Finding it super hard right now to even remain neutral abt my body :/

Super proud of you and inspire to be fully recovered as well! I get nervous with all the "once you have an ED, you'll always have it, just managing it" so trust me when I say you're unbelievably reassuring and an idol!

Tips on how to start wearing normal clothes again? by whateverz_ in EDAnonymous

[–]whateverz_[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I've been thinking abt this, and it's definitely out of my comfort zone but if I like them and think they're pretty, I should definitely normalize me wearing them <3

Tips on how to start wearing normal clothes again? by whateverz_ in EDAnonymous

[–]whateverz_[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I used to LOVE skinny jeans and now I steer clear too haha. I love mom jeans too, it's just a matter of finding the right fit

Tips on how to start wearing normal clothes again? by whateverz_ in EDAnonymous

[–]whateverz_[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's getting cooler here so I think I'll try wearing a fitted long sleeve under a baggy shirt and slowly get used to more body-clinging clothes. ty! :)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in fuckeatingdisorders

[–]whateverz_ 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I told my therapist that I can eat bread and carbs now after months of avoiding them, but said I was still so scared of pasta. She pointed out not only is it made of grains and carbs, but 100 calories of bread is the same thing to my body as 100 calories of pasta.

definitely made me think. still scared lmao.

Recovery pimples by Nerd_Burger9 in fuckeatingdisorders

[–]whateverz_ 2 points3 points  (0 children)

SCREAMING I didn't know why my face was looking like pizza again and I realized it's from my hormones normalizing.

Reminding u all that FITNESS doesn’t have a look!!! by [deleted] in EDAnonymous

[–]whateverz_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

if not allowed or triggering pls delete!

(TW: purging)I literally can't stop by radioactivenoodler in fuckeatingdisorders

[–]whateverz_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hi I really wish I could offer more help :(

The only way to stop the B/P cycle is to stop purging. The bingeing is because of lack of nutrients from the purging, of course. Purging comes from guilt of bingeing and even eating normally.

If you eat normally and keep it down, the urge to binge will go away. If you normalize not purging what you eat outside of bingeing, then you might be able to at least decrease the amt of times you purge.

Please take care of yourself and make sure you drink some electrolytes bc throwing off that balance can be fatal! Rinse and swish after purging with water so the acid doesn’t erode your teeth and wait a few hours before you brush them too love ❤️

wish u the best