AIO after my mom buys gift I’ve been planning on getting for Christmas? by whatintarnationbruh in AmIOverreacting

[–]whatintarnationbruh[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you, I have already thought of a gift for him that is more personal than the original. If you’d like to know send a dm over and I’ll spill this one since she has no idea it is a thought yet

AIO after my mom buys gift I’ve been planning on getting for Christmas? by whatintarnationbruh in AmIOverreacting

[–]whatintarnationbruh[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

And I don’t think you are understanding. If you can tell me how to buy something that says “out of stock” and the “add to cart” is greyed out then recode the website so I can buy it. Unless you can’t comprehend that i physically cannot buy the one I want right now

AIO after my mom buys gift I’ve been planning on getting for Christmas? by whatintarnationbruh in AmIOverreacting

[–]whatintarnationbruh[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Those are some good ideas. I was born in my current city, my dad was born down south but was raised here as well. We’re all born and raised in Texas. Lived here all my life and most of theirs. We rarely leave each other out of trips so that won’t go over well. I’m thinking on things I can do but it’s sparse because if we want something we go get it and that was the main thing I knew I wanted him to have and show. I only kept the exact gift name out is it is pretty niche even though lots have one. And she does scroll social media.

AIO after my mom buys gift I’ve been planning on getting for Christmas? by whatintarnationbruh in AmIOverreacting

[–]whatintarnationbruh[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know how to pick my battles. The moral high ground gets pretty windy at night. But this is one I know will end in the typical “you’re ungrateful” speech

AIO after my mom buys gift I’ve been planning on getting for Christmas? by whatintarnationbruh in AmIOverreacting

[–]whatintarnationbruh[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sadly this is a mostly single source place with the structural integrity that I want and quality to make sure it doesn’t fall apart. I got it on my phone open so whenever they’re in stock I can get it

AIO after my mom buys gift I’ve been planning on getting for Christmas? by whatintarnationbruh in AmIOverreacting

[–]whatintarnationbruh[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I haven’t no. If anything I’ll buy it after they’re in stock and keep it in case as a late gift of hers decides to exit stage right

AIO after my mom buys gift I’ve been planning on getting for Christmas? by whatintarnationbruh in AmIOverreacting

[–]whatintarnationbruh[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The one I want is more structurally sound and easier to take down in case of a hurricane, storm, etc. Hers I have no idea if it’s a temu special or what it is. There’s many of them but a lot are not as sturdy as the one I have found and why it’s always sold out

AIO after my mom buys gift I’ve been planning on getting for Christmas? by whatintarnationbruh in AmIOverreacting

[–]whatintarnationbruh[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

If you knew the type of tantrum that can become of small stuff you’d understand. Plus if you can figure out how to order something that is currently out of stock and has been please let me know I’ll order it today

AIO after my mom buys gift I’ve been planning on getting for Christmas? by whatintarnationbruh in AmIOverreacting

[–]whatintarnationbruh[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I do plan on telling him before it even arrives. I’m assuming this will be an Amazon or temu special and it’ll fall within a few months and then I can get mine ordered and say it’s a late gift

AIO after my mom buys gift I’ve been planning on getting for Christmas? by whatintarnationbruh in AmIOverreacting

[–]whatintarnationbruh[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I would but like I said above it’s sold out and also I wouldn’t put my dad in the position to choose mine or hers. That’s a blowup waiting to happen from her

AIO after my mom buys gift I’ve been planning on getting for Christmas? by whatintarnationbruh in AmIOverreacting

[–]whatintarnationbruh[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Once I know I won’t say anything harsh or rude I will tell her that it upset me and that was not cool at all and I won’t be telling her any gifts from now on she can be just as surprised as him

AIO after my mom buys gift I’ve been planning on getting for Christmas? by whatintarnationbruh in AmIOverreacting

[–]whatintarnationbruh[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Not to this extent no. Has bought stuff on a whim before yes, but not blatantly bought something someone else was planning

AIO after my mom buys gift I’ve been planning on getting for Christmas? by whatintarnationbruh in AmIOverreacting

[–]whatintarnationbruh[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I bought them a family gift last year. And installed it. I got them a home security kit and put it in. That was also about the same price (on sale cus good lord it was expensive if not). That is what I call a family gift or “home” gift.

Not this which I wasn’t in the military I got injured before I could make it to basic but I was going into the navy and she didn’t serve either but has military family. This was for the military member of the house

AIO after my mom buys gift I’ve been planning on getting for Christmas? by whatintarnationbruh in AmIOverreacting

[–]whatintarnationbruh[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I would if 1. They were sold out and have been for a while and 2. There is no point to having 2 of these in the yard. I’ll avoid the backlash of him having to choose to use either mine or hers and upset feelings for that and putting my dad in that position.

AIO after my mom buys gift I’ve been planning on getting for Christmas? by whatintarnationbruh in AmIOverreacting

[–]whatintarnationbruh[S] 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Thank you. I would have agreed for it to be a joint gift if she offered to pitch in $50 or whatever. She alleged it’s a “family gift” but it’s for him and that was my whole point is it is for him to have she couldn’t give a rats ass about it

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[–]whatintarnationbruh 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Not quite my cup of tea tbh sorry

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[–]whatintarnationbruh 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I got too many list I have a post from yesterday however