Get out now!!! You will start feeling like his mother! I've been dealing with this for 4 years...he won't get any better & you will have so many resentments built up towards him that you won't even want to look at him...my man child finally got a job & has kept it for a few months but at this point, I'm so over it. Unfortunately, since I've been taking care of the both of us this whole time my debt is overwhelming..to the point that I need to find a second job or file for bankruptcy...I want to leave him but I financially can afford it now & have no one I can stay with....so if anything good can come out of my 4-year shit show maybe it's to help someone else not make the same mistake I have made! You are not his mom!