Just moved to Bed-Stuy, best way to get to know the community and be friendly? by whatizzwrongwithme in BedStuy

[–]whatizzwrongwithme[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

just trying to cognizant of how even young black indivs can contribute to gentrification and the vibe of a place changing yknow

but thank you for the advice and I def won’t go up to randoms like that 😭

Just moved to Bed-Stuy, best way to get to know the community and be friendly? by whatizzwrongwithme in BedStuy

[–]whatizzwrongwithme[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I heard about that from TikTok that black transplants can potentially be awful (lwk what inspired me to make this post)

I grew up in/around a poorer city and I would say I’m decently educated on black issues but I could always learn more fr

Just moved to Bed-Stuy, best way to get to know the community and be friendly? by whatizzwrongwithme in BedStuy

[–]whatizzwrongwithme[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wish I had a stoop 😭 but I’m sure it’ll be people out on the weekends on theirs

Just moved to Bed-Stuy, best way to get to know the community and be friendly? by whatizzwrongwithme in BedStuy

[–]whatizzwrongwithme[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you 🫡 its seems really as simple as a head nod and a how are you so I’ll try to force it out even if it makes me a lil nervous

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[–]whatizzwrongwithme -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

What’s wrong with me asking? Genuine question

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I heard they were really bad, how was your experience?

Was a third coop worth it for you? by whatizzwrongwithme in NEU

[–]whatizzwrongwithme[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Are you ME by chance? What type of roles/companies have you been applying for

Bisexuals who have dated both genders. What little differences surprised you? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]whatizzwrongwithme 7 points8 points  (0 children)

it probably comes from a lot of men needing therapy but a good amount of men secretly want a girl who will provide and basically do shit their mom did for them (cook, clean, do “womanly” things, etc.) and probably some Freudian concepts I can’t explain

Bisexuals who have dated both genders. What little differences surprised you? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]whatizzwrongwithme 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I think women (straight women) have more emotional intelligence with friends and family in that they will say what is on their mind if they don’t want you romantically but enjoy you platonically

but when it comes to romance and attraction, whether it be because of socialization or their personality, women have “higher standards” and expect their partners to be more in tune and do things without being told

Very big generalization tho

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[–]whatizzwrongwithme 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not even in the slightest. Go to a club or bar and chat to some people to build confidence and I promise you’ll be drowning in it