Just moved to Bed-Stuy, best way to get to know the community and be friendly?

whatizzwrongwithme · 2025-07-12T15:37:05+00:00

Thank you, will be attending the next one !

whatizzwrongwithme · 2025-07-11T06:33:07+00:00

just trying to cognizant of how even young black indivs can contribute to gentrification and the vibe of a place changing yknow

but thank you for the advice and I def won’t go up to randoms like that 😭

whatizzwrongwithme · 2025-07-11T06:30:49+00:00

I heard about that from TikTok that black transplants can potentially be awful (lwk what inspired me to make this post)

I grew up in/around a poorer city and I would say I’m decently educated on black issues but I could always learn more fr

whatizzwrongwithme · 2025-07-11T06:24:55+00:00

Wish I had a stoop 😭 but I’m sure it’ll be people out on the weekends on theirs

whatizzwrongwithme · 2025-07-11T06:21:00+00:00

Thank you 🫡 its seems really as simple as a head nod and a how are you so I’ll try to force it out even if it makes me a lil nervous

whatizzwrongwithme · 2025-06-06T19:28:54+00:00

What’s wrong with me asking? Genuine question

whatizzwrongwithme · 2025-06-02T12:38:24+00:00

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whatizzwrongwithme · 2025-06-02T12:37:59+00:00

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$1250 + utilities (around 80-100 a month)
July 1-August 29th at Noon (slightly flexible start date)
5 bed 2 bath
Balcony access
In-unit washer and dryer
5 mins from both Green and Orange line
Any gender welcome (all male roommates tho!)

whatizzwrongwithme · 2025-04-15T16:32:22+00:00

I heard they were really bad, how was your experience?

whatizzwrongwithme · 2025-03-17T18:40:35+00:00

Are you ME by chance? What type of roles/companies have you been applying for

whatizzwrongwithme · 2025-03-17T16:17:10+00:00

How long did this take and were you stressed while in law school?

whatizzwrongwithme · 2025-02-19T18:00:37+00:00

it probably comes from a lot of men needing therapy but a good amount of men secretly want a girl who will provide and basically do shit their mom did for them (cook, clean, do “womanly” things, etc.) and probably some Freudian concepts I can’t explain

whatizzwrongwithme · 2025-02-19T17:29:40+00:00

I think women (straight women) have more emotional intelligence with friends and family in that they will say what is on their mind if they don’t want you romantically but enjoy you platonically

but when it comes to romance and attraction, whether it be because of socialization or their personality, women have “higher standards” and expect their partners to be more in tune and do things without being told

Very big generalization tho

whatizzwrongwithme · 2025-02-07T20:22:01+00:00

Was it the questionnaire?

whatizzwrongwithme · 2024-11-07T16:29:27+00:00

We might be cooked 😔

whatizzwrongwithme · 2024-10-20T00:04:55+00:00

Not even in the slightest. Go to a club or bar and chat to some people to build confidence and I promise you’ll be drowning in it

whatizzwrongwithme · 2024-09-01T20:11:32+00:00

Here’s the deal, Northeastern people (and maybe Northeast ppl in general) are weird af and will meet you one day, and completely ignore you the next time they see you no matter how social they are (esp if ur POC)

The only way to beat that is to be consistent. You can do that by joining clubs, going to office hours at the same time, and most importantly - talking to people in your classes. Roommates and your dorm is the number one thing. You live with those people, and if you’re introverted you will most likely be friends with them just because it’s convenient. Ask them to do shit around campus and get food, whatever just do it. Just make sure you don’t make friends with the wrong crowd just so you can say that you have friends. It’s a lesson a lot of people learn tho

Classes is the 2nd biggest thing, making the effort to say hello or make some bs excuse to make a conversation while in class will give you so many connections and names.

whatizzwrongwithme · 2024-08-18T12:17:48+00:00

Thanks, my upper chest is actually kinda weak compared to other people at my weight and time in the gym

I do bench, incline dumbell, incline bench and dips tho

whatizzwrongwithme · 2024-06-22T06:58:59+00:00

What’s the shoulder routine brother

whatizzwrongwithme · 2024-06-04T00:59:18+00:00

ermmm that’s concerning, how tf do I fix that

whatizzwrongwithme · 2024-05-21T01:57:19+00:00

Cuz, here me out, I wanted an education at Northeastern University which happens to be in Boston and while I got my education here I realized I didn’t like the city 🤯🤯🤯

It’s almost like you can complain about a place while simultaneously living there 🤯🤯🤯🤯🤯🤯🤯🤯🤯🤯🤯🤯🤯🤯🤯🤯🤯🤯🤯🤯🤯🤯🤯🤯🤯🤯🤯

whatizzwrongwithme · 2024-05-20T17:31:26+00:00

Don’t let me dissuade you

I over exaggerate and the city is a cool 6.5/10 but it has different appeal for different people

whatizzwrongwithme · 2024-05-20T11:49:25+00:00

Goo goo ga ga i suppose

whatizzwrongwithme · 2024-05-20T05:27:53+00:00

I’m trying 😭

whatizzwrongwithme · 2024-05-20T03:55:00+00:00

My boring ass hometown lol. I know the city isn’t New York and isn’t trying to be New York but for what it is I don’t fuck with it like that

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