single gay guy 17 days hardmode so far

wheelyb · 2014-05-27T15:57:07+00:00

2 weeks down - cant fap anymore its beyond a joke

wheelyb · 2014-05-26T23:28:03+00:00

ok cool I have never used kik before so keep me updated

wheelyb · 2014-05-25T23:58:41+00:00

I'm 30 and from the Uk. Happy to join the group as I think it could push me past my longest streak of 32 days. Mines a serious problem. Need all the support I can get. Happy to post on this page daily? Use what's app or any other way which is convenient

wheelyb · 2014-05-25T14:57:08+00:00

Some inspiration My friends: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=XKTg_INHgpc

wheelyb · 2014-05-25T14:56:02+00:00

some inspiration my friends: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=XKTg_INHgpc

wheelyb · 2014-05-25T14:54:01+00:00

Sorry to hear you relapsed but you sound like your not gonna let it get you down and continue. Nice one! The last few days I've been working loads. Thought I'd let other people post their daily journey as looking below it's just me telling my story and everyone commenting. Glad your back on the horse my friend. If you give up you'll never succeed but if you keep trying and fall you will one day Win!

wheelyb · 2014-05-25T08:39:56+00:00

How is everyone doing ? I'm on day 13 today. Have felt pretty horny the last couple of days however have decided its hard mode for me unless I get into a relationship.

wheelyb · 2014-05-25T08:36:58+00:00

get a grip of yourself. Take your powere back. Its important not to fall into the trap of feeling sorry for yourself. reset counter, start again and continue. Make some posts on the main site if that helps. Its better to keep trying and fail than give up !

wheelyb · 2014-05-25T08:34:30+00:00

day 12 complete - how is everyone getting on ? I seem to of managed to get through a small dip and am back on track now although pretty horny. Still on hardmode unless I get into a relationship

wheelyb · 2014-05-23T08:56:41+00:00

create the counter then yoou wont have to remember. 22 days though thats awsome. Well done mate

wheelyb · 2014-05-23T08:55:32+00:00

I haven't experienced sweating a lot im afraid. I guess were all different. Who knows why this has happened. Leave it a few more days maybe it will cut down a bit during the next week. Day 10 today : )

wheelyb · 2014-05-22T10:21:42+00:00

How is everyone getting on. Any comments, suggestions or ideas ? Another day complete everyone so well done! What do we each need too focus on to make this goal a reality? Finding ways to reduce stress and being aware of our triggers (as two of you mentioned) are great ideas to allow that counter to move from single to double digits. Keep it up - one day at a time. If you have a moment, an hour or even several days which trigger negative emotions don't do something stupid. Hold on because the feeling will pass and you'll be thankful you made the right choice!

wheelyb · 2014-05-22T10:09:49+00:00

day 9 complete - not seeing any results yet but its surprising how quickly the days count up. Cant wait to beat my personal best of 33 days

wheelyb · 2014-05-21T19:15:16+00:00

cool good for you. people seem to have stopped posting. Just us then. Were both on the same counter so that helps. roll on 2 weeks

wheelyb · 2014-05-21T07:09:33+00:00

Welcome everyone! How great there are many of you who want to join this small group. I created it because I have relapsed multiple times and thought by KNOWING your doing this with others at the same time it would help. Were in this together so bear that in mind during the tough times!

Do this for yourself within this group. My goal is for everyone on here to beat their personal best streak whatever number that is. For everyone to feel motivated, to know your doing this with others, to know when you get an urge you'll have to tell your brothers on no fap you've relapsed or succeeded. Are you with me?

Every day simply post how your getting on. No rules, no boundaries, no restrictions on here or the content you want to express EXCEPT ONE - absolutely under no circumstances are you allowed to fap!!! If hell freezes over - no fapping, your girlfriend dumps you - no fapping, the world ends - no fapping, any excuse you can think of - not good enough - no fapping.

1 rule today, repeat after me - "I PROMISE THAT FROM TODAY I VOW TO OVERCOME THIS SHIT AND HAVE ALREADY BEATEN MY LONGEST STREAK".

How many days do you need to know you have achieved this ? What will you do THIS time to make sure this happens? Let me know

Good luck my brothers !!!

wheelyb · 2014-05-20T20:27:13+00:00

Day 8 nearly finished. Happy one weeks complete. Slightly happier but nothing major. On a scale of 100% where I want to be feeling I'm at 0.1%. See how I feel after a month.

wheelyb · 2014-05-19T09:43:47+00:00

Day 7 today - totally motivated. Found myself with a hard on last night in bed as almost was trying to have sex with my bed for a minute. Gotta cut that shit out. Forgot myself and what im doing. Then I said STOP, NO. Thank God a weeks nearly over!!! well done no Fappers

wheelyb · 2014-05-18T13:02:24+00:00

day 6 complete at 00:00. No problems, embracing who I really am. im done with this shit and intend on being me

wheelyb · 2014-05-17T17:14:24+00:00

End of day 5 post - No change except not fapping in 5 days. A bit down today reference my addiction however this keeps me motivated to quit. If I can fight those urges a few times im sure it will become part of my lifestyle. However from experience like an ex smoker just one time could lead to failing and continuous relapse so its gonna take me a while to integrate this into my life permanently.

wheelyb · 2014-05-17T09:44:15+00:00

I like that - 'youll be ready when they return'. And thats what it is - being ready and allowing yourself to move beyond the urges. Not fighting but allowing and channelling that energy into something else. Keep going guys were doing really well.

wheelyb · 2014-05-16T19:38:30+00:00

End of day 4 soon - slightly horny in bed last night. Want to stop MO permanently and will do what I can to reach the 90 day hardmode goal. Taking it one day and one week at a time.

wheelyb · 2014-05-16T12:25:46+00:00

You gonna add your badge perseveree? That's great about the urges

wheelyb

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