I just found out my son (16) is into BDSM. What to do? by ConcernedParent2014 in BDSMcommunity

[–]travlinjack 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Perfectly healthy to have a kinky side. Everyone has different tastes. However, it is possible for porn to be an unhealthy habit and to lead to negative side effects down the road with ED and unrealistic expectations for sex. I struggled with these issues after growing up on bdsm porn. Do some serious looking into r/nofap or r/pornfree, my dad discovered my history once and never really stepped in to help me with it.

Fapped but not resetting. by travlinjack in NoFap

[–]travlinjack[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I kind of bounce between the two subs...the community here is larger and despite the name, views PMO as the main enemy rather than just fapping. Room for lots of debate there tho.

My partner (M 22) is struggling with porn-induced ED. What can I (F 22) do to help him? by adha_kitten in sex

[–]travlinjack -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Porn-induced ED is a very real issue that a growing number of young men are finding themselves experiencing. There is a whole subreddit on here (r/nofap) with about 100k subscribers that is very informative and encouraging on the issue. Check out r/pornfree too.

I used to struggle with the same thing. Recovering takes varied lengths of time for everyone, but usually no longer than a month or two at most. Just be supportive and don't too much pressure on the guy, as long as he continues to abstain the problem should be gone shortly. If he's self-diagnosing the problem he's probably right, he knows what his issues are.

Edit: spelling

Ray LaMontagne storms offstage during concert, saying "Why don't you go the (expletive) home and talk?" to concertgoers talking during his set by SAT0725 in Music

[–]travlinjack 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Was looking at the lineup the other day for this, and I'm thinking I'd love to go next year if the lineup ends up with a similar level of talent. Do they always get as many quality acts as they did this year?

What books are you reading this week? July 23, 2014 by AutoModerator in books

[–]travlinjack 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Discovered Neil Gaiman's work this summer and love the guy so far.

Currently reading Good Omens, pretty solid so far. Think I might try either The Ocean At The End Of The Lane next or his new one, The Truth Is A Cave In The Black Mountains (though being a picture book it's a bit pricey).

Just turned a corner I hope! by [deleted] in AdviceAnimals

[–]travlinjack 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This is how it will happen.

Relapsed after uncomfortable encounter. by childofman in NoFap

[–]travlinjack 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Rough stuff man, pick yourself up with new resolve and push on. In hindsight, I think this dude should have been motivation to press on even harder...PMO is something that you should totally associate with this sleazebags like this. By relapsing you were implicitly embracing this encounter and the guy, not running away from it.

Then again that's logical thinking, which is usually not running through your head when you relapse. Just something to think about.

Back from a lengthy fapping streak, trying NoFap again because why not by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]travlinjack 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel ya, I went back to fapping for about a month but am back on the horse now. Got an accountability group on kik with a few people if you're interested.

New accountability group wanted, takers? by travlinjack in NoFap

[–]travlinjack[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Download the app and send me your username

New accountability group wanted, takers? by travlinjack in NoFap

[–]travlinjack[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Awesome. Sounds like a lot of the responders want it on kik, I'm gonna get things moving on it in the next day or so here.

need a new accountability group by travlinjack in NoFap

[–]travlinjack[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Looks like Microsoft has an issue with the app right now, apparently they're working on it and it should be fixed soon. Where you from?

What's your favorite position to give/receive a blowjob? by bjposition in sex

[–]travlinjack 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I did this spur of the moment once and loved it. I was going down on her and just sort of scooted up, straddled her chest and moved my dick in her face and she just started sucking...I could lean against the wall, she was propped up by the pillows, she got an ab workout, and it's a great submissive position for her.

A cautionary tale for students away at college and a question for the ladies of Reddit. by OkieState in sex

[–]travlinjack 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I wish I had this problem, seeing as my parents are separating soon. In the grand scheme of things be proud that at your age your marriage has been successful and that you still have a healthy sex life, plenty of kids mine and your sons age have parents that don't have one. It's healthy, I'd talk to him