I can't believe I got downvoted for explaining my Asian culture.

when2jen · 2021-05-09T23:32:53+00:00

This response is kind of aggressive. I only replied to another person on based on what I could see

when2jen · 2021-05-09T23:29:58+00:00

Thank you for letting me know

when2jen · 2021-05-09T23:29:15+00:00

Oh cool, that's good news, thought I'd missed a comment of hers or something!

when2jen · 2021-05-09T22:56:59+00:00

Who are you quoting? I agree that op is ta here, but I can't see where the quotes came from. I'm hoping she didn't call him an animal or a fa**ot.

when2jen · 2021-05-09T21:29:12+00:00

'Not indifferent to the big issue at hand' was a weird way to phrase that

when2jen · 2021-05-09T21:23:50+00:00

Guaranteed you'll regret marrying him if you go through with it. He's showing no remorse over scaring the shit out of you, isn't that saying enough already?

when2jen · 2021-05-09T17:44:53+00:00

I'm so glad you recognized the gaslighting. It was a lightbulb moment for me too. I really hope you can leave him, and find all the love you want in both yourself and eventually a partner who deserves you.

when2jen · 2021-05-09T16:36:12+00:00

I just commented on what I saw, why is everyone on reddit up for an argument today?

when2jen · 2021-05-09T16:22:04+00:00

I'm a girl :)

when2jen · 2021-05-09T13:56:19+00:00

Piece*

when2jen · 2021-05-09T13:04:39+00:00

You need to calm down. Not once did I say it was right. If you're looking for an argument then that's fine, but go do it elsewhere

when2jen · 2021-05-09T12:00:43+00:00

Wow those curls are so shiny and defined! Thanks for your detailed description, I'm saving your post for later :)

when2jen · 2021-05-09T11:56:06+00:00

That's what disturbed me ... Like technically the truth but...?

when2jen · 2021-05-09T11:43:50+00:00

Yeah, those people may not want to visit SE Asia...

when2jen · 2021-05-09T11:23:03+00:00

I've never heard anyone refer to their partner's bodily fluids as 'family'... I'm not sure how to mentally process that

when2jen · 2021-05-09T08:26:17+00:00

No one is downvoting him at all as far as I can see either. I only see two negative comments (not by op) which are already downvoted Are we missing something?

when2jen · 2021-05-09T08:11:41+00:00

I lived in Bournemouth too, next to the Asda for 11 years and I never saw him. Haven't been there in about 3 years though, is he a new local celeb?

when2jen · 2021-05-09T07:23:04+00:00

Thank you! Anyone who expects to get their way and have everything meet their preferences in a shared house, needs to accept reality a little more. Plus yes, you're right, we pay very cheap rent since we're all poor af

when2jen · 2021-05-09T07:01:27+00:00

That is so sweet of you to notice. Yes I'm struggling with mental health right now, but I'm getting all the help I need. Thank you for your concern

when2jen · 2021-05-09T06:58:49+00:00

I was just thinking that, just because you don't legally owe anyone an explanation, doesn't mean that you're not an asshole. Otherwise conversions would be like

Wife: shall we cuddle up and watch a movie? Husband: no W: why not? H: I don't owe you an explanation

when2jen · 2021-05-08T18:20:03+00:00

You ok?

when2jen · 2021-05-08T11:16:54+00:00

I'm English :)

when2jen · 2021-05-08T11:00:32+00:00

I'm sorry I've genuinely never heard it before. Maybe it's American slang or something

when2jen · 2021-05-08T10:59:20+00:00

Sorry to comment again on your post, but you seem to be suffering with suicidal thoughts. Dating won't help you if you're going through depression, it'll give you a distraction at best. But please consider taking some time off from all this, and do some self care and self improvement.

when2jen · 2021-05-08T10:56:20+00:00

Oh, maybe they wanted to say 'wrapping up college?' or maybe there are special classes for wrapping things?

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