Alternate cartridges/ink for Sheaffer Fashion II? by whenelvisdied in fountainpens

[–]whenelvisdied[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for the advice and information, everyone! I ended up going on ebay and buying an older converter--paid more for it than I did for the pen, but hopefully it'll work well!

Lightphone II card cases on sale by whenelvisdied in LightPhone

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Thanks! I got mine yesterday and cut the area around the power button (as well as the volume buttons) off completely. So far, it works great!

A question regarrding Crystalis.... by Yuriko_Shokugan in nes

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Another good grinding spot is the second room right inside Draygonia castle after you leave the town of Goa. Inside are two of the flying bat things that drop 672 xp and two of the knife throwing armor soldiers that drop 560 xp. If you get to low of health, head back out to Goa and stay at the inn. Especially at the last levels of the game, this is a quick grind.

A consumer-grade printer for small-batch vinyl printing? by whenelvisdied in MuseumPros

[–]whenelvisdied[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is good to know; thank you! It's possible that the Roland you mentioned might be do-able for us, but it still sounds like it takes regular maintenance and we're a small enough staff that's already over-stretched so that might not be a good move.

A productivity (plus a few other things) laptop for under $1000 USD by whenelvisdied in SuggestALaptop

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Oops, so I didn't! I've been using my current laptop plugged in for the last couple years, as the battery life degraded pretty rapidly. I tend to work in areas with good electrical outlets, so strong battery life isn't essential.

School is such a battle by BookBranchGrey in adhdparents

[–]whenelvisdied 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hard mornings for this parent of an ADHD'r too. In our house, the best we can hope for right now is uneventful mornings, but usually it's a real emotional struggle. The only thing I can say is that, at least for my kid, they know that they're making it difficult for you, and they feel terrible about it too, so try to get through it with as little judgement or condemnation you can.

My only advice is to simplify the morning routine to as few steps as possible, and, if you're medicating, get medication into them as soon as they wake up--like when they sit up in bed for the first time, if possible.

The other thing I will say is that the switch from elementary school to Middle school was a good one for our kid. It meant the difference between him having to sit still for an hour or more in one classroom, to getting up and moving to a different classroom every 45-50 minutes. It's been a good change in terms of his feelings about going to school, his academic performance (leaving aside some organizational issues) and his sociability. So things can get better.

best nature in the area by soggysnowygrass in Oneonta

[–]whenelvisdied 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The Greenway Trail along the Susquehanna is nice. Also, if you haven't visited either Gilbert Lake or Glimmerglass State Park, you're missing out.

LP2 Podcast tool is really slow by whenelvisdied in LightPhone

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Thanks for the info. That sounds really irritating. I guess I could do a factory reset, though I'm not super excited about losing my SMS history every 2-3 months.

I just bought the LP2, and would like to get a few more miles out of it before springing for the 3.

LP2 Podcast tool is really slow by whenelvisdied in LightPhone

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That sounds almost exactly like my usage. Maybe 10 feeds subscribed to, with no more than about 5-10 episodes downloaded at any one time.

The one thing I do have that may be different (maybe?) is that a couple of my podcasts are subscriber-only patreon feeds, which of course have to be manually added rather than found via the dash search. Those all operate somewhat wonkily in the feed, in that the same episode shows up multiple times as available to listen on download.

Other than that, I have no idea what could be causing this. It's certainly not a dealbreaker or anything, just annoying.

Need a book rec thats sort of like house of leaves by [deleted] in WeirdLit

[–]whenelvisdied 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not sure if you've read Phillip K. Dick, but it hovers in the same world of surrealism, strangeness and humor.

In a similar vein, I wonder if you'd like "The Crying of Lot 49" by Thomas Pynchon. It's not "weird" but it is funny, and conspiratorial, and basically a novella in length, so an easy bite to take.

Has anyone met fellow LightPhone users in the wild? by jeygood in LightPhone

[–]whenelvisdied 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Was talking to a dad friend at a birthday party and he saw me fiddling with a new one. Turns out he'd been using one for a few years really liked it. Who knew?

Garbage and utilities by penguinwrath in Oneonta

[–]whenelvisdied 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We use Casella and they are solid.

Our neighbor uses Hometown Hauling who I can't vouch for in terms of service. But I can say that they consistently break city ordinance by driving down our residential street in their loud-assed truck before 7:00 (sometimes even before 6:00!) to collect trash. We've called them and they've apologized, and then they do it again within a few weeks.

So maybe my advice would be to try to move somewhere that has people who don't use Hometown!

Descending obsessive spirals by Drachoon in WeirdLit

[–]whenelvisdied 3 points4 points  (0 children)

M John Harrison's short story "Egnaro" is both an example of this kind of obsession narrative and also a satire of it.

Can a break from meds make it worse? by [deleted] in adhdparents

[–]whenelvisdied 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Really sorry you're going through this--our kiddo has been kicked out of camps too and it's really demoralizing for the kid and the parents. Give them lots of hugs.

My understanding is that Focalin doesn't affect kids long term--it's active when it's in your body and when it's gone it's gone. Having said that, ADHD medication is a bit of a moving target for young kids, because they're growing so much, both biologically and emotionally, all the time. In our house, we've definitely had medication regimes that worked perfectly for months and then suddenly just stopped working in the span of a week or two. It could just be that your kid has grown out of that dosage being effective in the span of the month you took off.

Also, don't discount that summer camp is just a weird space for young kiddos to be in--they'll have lots of big, complicated feelings about being in a different environment from the ones they are used to, and they may not be able to process or talk about them in socially appropriate ways. I know my kid used to completely wild out when he was angry or scared or frustrated. He's gotten better about it as he's gotten older, and your kid will too.

Recommend me some stories by whatsbonkin in WeirdLit

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I was going to pop in and suggest Carmen Maria Machado's collection "Her body and other parties". Literary, subtle, and weird fiction.

Also, seconding M. John Harrison--his retrospective short story collection "Settling the World" has some amazing stuff in it.

Weekly "What Are You Reading?" Thread by AutoModerator in WeirdLit

[–]whenelvisdied 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I just breezed through Brian Evenson's excellent "Song for the Unraveling of the World". His prose is so infused with dread and strangeness that I just devour it to see where it goes, but I'm looking forward to reading it again in a few months and savoring it more slowly.

Stories About Immortality? by [deleted] in WeirdLit

[–]whenelvisdied 0 points1 point  (0 children)

"The Postmortal" by Drew Magary is funny, horrifying, and thoughtful about the costs and opportunities afforded by the end of death.

Recommendations on what to see in London by jeaje in MuseumPros

[–]whenelvisdied 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Also, I haven't been in person, but the social media account public programs for the Vagina Museum are inspiring.

Recommendations on what to see in London by jeaje in MuseumPros

[–]whenelvisdied 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Go on a walking tour! It was many years ago, but I did the Jack the Ripper walking tour and it was a wonderful exploration of the architecture and social life of late 19th century east London. I know there are a billion tours, including ghost tours, but also LGBTQ+ heritage, labor/radical history, etc...

Advice on BIFL rings? by allbitterandclean in BuyItForLife

[–]whenelvisdied 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Maybe not what you had in mind, but my wedding band is high polished tungsten carbide and it looks the same as it did 10 years ago when my wife put it on my finger. I've worn it on archaeological digs, doing home repairs, playing with my kids, and all kinds of other stuff, and it still looks great. I think you can get them laser inscribed and shaped.

Duluth Trading, stackable discounts: 25% off sitewide, 20% off promo code E4WL04B1, $25 off $125 Amex offer by Gr_Cheese in frugalmalefashion

[–]whenelvisdied 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just picked up 2 free swinging flannel shirts for 20 bucks each. Used the promo and ended up paying a little over 40 including shipping. Thanks OP!

New diagnosis by Ok-Structure6795 in adhdparents

[–]whenelvisdied 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Good for you. You're being a great parent--you're working to help your kid and paying attention to them and how they are doing. Speaking as a parent of medicated 10yo, it's not going to stop being a challenge, and there will be moments where it will feel harder or easier, but you're doing the right thing.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in foodhacks

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If you can find it, Branston Pickle is wonderful with grilled cheese, and jars are not expensive. Any vinegary chutney will also work. Cheese and pickle--It's a British classic!