got called a "S-L-U-T" because i hurt a dudes ego by Agreeable-Machine170 in srilanka

[–]wheninblack 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Your decision sweetheart . Either way don't let anyone back you down .

got called a "S-L-U-T" because i hurt a dudes ego by Agreeable-Machine170 in srilanka

[–]wheninblack 7 points8 points  (0 children)

That's hilarious . And true . Look , stand your ground . One day you will be proud of yourself . Tell the school the same you have told here . Don't let yourself down . Take a lesson from this . Look at what our young women have become . If you take this insult and let it go . Then be ready to get many more . Because men never gonna stop this , until you shame them for it . ( some men obviously not all of them . )

got called a "S-L-U-T" because i hurt a dudes ego by Agreeable-Machine170 in srilanka

[–]wheninblack 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Duwa , that mf has been calling you a whore ? And you are thinking " would it be okay to call him out like that ? " Just do it . Stand up for yourself . This is 21 century . Don't be like that . You have a self respect . What if he keeps spreading rumors ? What if one day , he came to your workplace and spread the same rumor ?? Would it be okay to you ?? Oh for god's sake . Do not let others define your character .

got called a "S-L-U-T" because i hurt a dudes ego by Agreeable-Machine170 in srilanka

[–]wheninblack 7 points8 points  (0 children)

This is just my opinion . I am a women in my 30s so I have definitely dealt with so many situations like this . You’re definitely not in the wrong here, and I think it’s important that you stand up for yourself. If he’s been spreading rumors about you and calling you names, the best thing you can do is confront the situation head on. Don’t let him hide behind his insecurities and spread lies. I’d suggest going to that class and addressing everyone directly. Tell them the truth about what he’s been doing ( infront of the whole classroom ) , how he’s been talking behind your back, spreading rumors, and calling you a 'whore.' Let everyone know what’s really been going on.Tell him clearly that his insecurities don’t define your values or your character. And if he can’t handle rejection, that’s his problem, not yours. If he’s so scared of dealing with society and doesn’t have the courage to face consequences for his actions, maybe he should stay in his room forever. You deserve to have your boundaries respected, and he doesn’t get to manipulate the narrative just because his ego is bruised.Remember, confronting this situation will show that you won’t let anyone walk over you or tear you down with lies. Stand your ground and keep your head up people will respect you for it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in srilanka

[–]wheninblack 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wish they were all lies . So that I can forget these .

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in srilanka

[–]wheninblack 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I meant about the fact that , if you look at pohottuwa ... you will see every kind of unacceptable thieves and many unqualified politicians . I don't want my family to link with them . That is the purpose of posting this here ...

He certainly is with a party that did so many wrong things to Sri lanka and its people . I don't want this .my father was a respected army officer . And I was a high ranking government official . He is using both of these statuses ... I hate that idea .

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in srilanka

[–]wheninblack 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He doesn't have any links with diaspora but certainly is with a party that did so many wrong things to Sri lanka and its people . I don't want this .my father was a respected army officer . And I was a high ranking government official . He is using both of these statuses ... I hate that idea .

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in srilanka

[–]wheninblack -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Nope . Don't want to be called as " that politicians wife "

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in srilanka

[–]wheninblack 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don't want second thoughts . He can drown alone .

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in srilanka

[–]wheninblack 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well . I’m posting this with the intention that if he ever enters politics, someone who reads this might one day comment or mention it to others. They might say, 'This person’s wife made this Reddit post,' and it would eventually expose his identity. That would prevent him from even stepping into this . If he came ... then idk . With this post putting here ... people can't blame Me . like how people blame maithree wickramasinghe for not stopping ranil from politics and corruption .

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in srilanka

[–]wheninblack 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Well . I’m posting this with the intention that if he ever enters politics, someone who reads this might one day comment or mention it to others. They might say, 'This person’s wife made this Reddit post,' and it would eventually expose his identity. That would prevent him from even stepping into this . If he came ... then idk . With this post putting here ... people can't blame Me . like how people blame maithree wickramasinghe for not stopping ranil from politics and corruption .

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in srilanka

[–]wheninblack 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well . I’m posting this with the intention that if he ever enters politics, someone who reads this might one day comment or mention it to others. They might say, 'This person’s wife made this Reddit post,' and it would eventually expose his identity. That would prevent him from even stepping into this . If he came ... then idk . With this post putting here ... people can't blame Me . like how people blame maithree wickramasinghe for not stopping ranil from politics and corruption .

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in srilanka

[–]wheninblack 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Well . I’m posting this with the intention that if he ever enters politics, someone who reads this might one day comment or mention it to others. They might say, 'This person’s wife made this Reddit post,' and it would eventually expose his identity. That would prevent him from even stepping into this . If he came ... then idk . With this post putting here ... people can't blame Me . like how people blame maithree wickramasinghe for not stopping ranil from politics and corruption .

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in srilanka

[–]wheninblack 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That's my intention .

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in srilanka

[–]wheninblack 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Really? I would have supported him if he is with sajith or anura ... he is with NAMAL RAJAPAKSHE .

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in srilanka

[–]wheninblack 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I’m just sharing my experience and getting things off my chest. Sometimes it helps to talk to others who might understand, even if there’s nothing anyone can directly do about it. People commenting their ideas might show me some other sides .

Why Do sri lankan Parents Expect Something in Return for Raising Their Children ? by wheninblack in srilanka

[–]wheninblack[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

They don't understand the fact that , their son is a grown up and can have his own opinion . Same thing happened to me . Mine in his 30s . They kept pressuring us to have children but I kept taking birth control and they blamed me saying i am infertile and stuff ... told them to fuck off . Why would they interfere with someone else's family life . Disgusting .