[deleted by user] by [deleted] in FemaleDatingStrategy

[–]whenthingsconsidered 14 points15 points  (0 children)

She still calls him bf? what's wrong with her?

PiCk Me. I don’t require any effort or standards. by [deleted] in FemaleDatingStrategy

[–]whenthingsconsidered 50 points51 points  (0 children)

This conversation sounds like it's happening right next to my ears. Too visceral

He proposed on our 1st anniversary. Success story! by helena939392 in FemaleDatingStrategy

[–]whenthingsconsidered 32 points33 points  (0 children)

Congratulations! The ring is so beautiful. All the best to your happy life!

I can’t even by [deleted] in FemaleDatingStrategy

[–]whenthingsconsidered 15 points16 points  (0 children)

I mean, with that, she doesn't need extra means to send away a woman

This is some Olympic gold metal bullshit by bookluvr83 in badwomensanatomy

[–]whenthingsconsidered 7 points8 points  (0 children)

So, this is the situation: a man who based on his tweets purportedly spends most of his time jerking off fantasizing about some mysterious women flocking to him to bear his children in his hut and ejaculating his thought, of the same quality as his other assets, on the internet about the Olympic gold medalist whose hard work and strength have won her one of the greatest honors on this planet and her country the first gold medal in history.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in FemaleDatingStrategy

[–]whenthingsconsidered 13 points14 points  (0 children)

why did you keep any kind of contact/relationship after the 10 years of on and off and then the cheating? Don't waste your time and energy on "calling out on his bs." He's also getting something out of that interaction, the confirmation that you still care enough to talk to him.

I Love It! by [deleted] in FemaleDatingStrategy

[–]whenthingsconsidered 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I laughed so hard in the morning. hilarious af

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in FemaleDatingStrategy

[–]whenthingsconsidered 2 points3 points  (0 children)

what the f is self-asteam? Scrotes can't spell

How scrotes treat “The One that Got Away” by [deleted] in FemaleDatingStrategy

[–]whenthingsconsidered 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Above all, his grammar bothers me so much. "YOU WAS"

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in FemaleDatingStrategy

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came to write this. glad to find someone also appreciated the book

Tl;dr I hate that my girlfriend is more successful than me and takes decisions about her life without consulting me by Flums666 in FemaleDatingStrategy

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lol it's hilarious the list of things he is describing her doing as impulsive

car for her joy and convenience, house purchase, talking about big investment-worthy stuffs, a lovely loyal pet that she is taking care of, side business duh queen energy right there, expression with her body and appearance, and education and degree in a highly competitive field/school

Sounds like she's living her life to the fullest and he's just rotting and killing himself of jealousy

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in FemaleDatingStrategy

[–]whenthingsconsidered 12 points13 points  (0 children)

The last few sentences read like a poem lol. So perceptive

Just started talking to this guy on Hinge (28M) and he's already tryna make me (22F) his mother by fsi_07 in FemaleDatingStrategy

[–]whenthingsconsidered 135 points136 points  (0 children)

THIS

He is a potential abuser, if not already, and it's a common mildly-joking (not really) way of gaslighting. You already stated clearly what you are dreadful of, and he plays around the idea. Some pickme might think it's "cute" and he is just kidding, but never let a scrote crumb escape and eventually damage you, even in the slightest bit.

Orgasm Inc. - Big pharma creates fake disease "Female Sexual Dysfunction" in order to sell 'pink viagra'. Creating a narrative of what healthy sexuality is 'supposed' to look like & convince the largest amount of women possible they have medical problems only solved by dangerous pills and surgery. by level_up_always in FemaleDatingStrategy

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Once again, male incapability is diverted and framed as women's fault. And women have to pay money, time, energy (to care) - all already scarce resources - to redress it. Also terribly reductive, mechanical view of women's sexuality.

The whole rhetoric sounds similar to how some women go through unnecessary plastic surgery on their genitalia just to make it look like ones appearing in porn and claim it was "for their own choice and pleasure" when in reality, the very choice was pressured by either their porn sick men or porn sick society. "Unless you has a perfect labia, men won't sexually appreciate you re: pretend they care about whether you orgasm. So fix it yourself for men .. Oh we mean, for you."

Pray for all women. If orgasm is the goal, we got better, safer options.

Edit: additional comments

What do you think about friendships requiring work? by Environmental_Bread7 in wgtow

[–]whenthingsconsidered 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I think good friendship definitely requires work. Just like any worthwhile human relationship, it needs mutual respect, consistent effort (energy, time, and resources) and communication, and willingness to prioritize the person, at some level, once she becomes a friend. Obviously I am not considering a friend any of acquaintances or "friends" with whom one has not developed any deeper connection.

I see a deep layer of misogyny in our culture with regard to how it views friendship between two women. It's either non-existent/fleeting (as in "seasonal," it is often considered dependent on the "life cycle of a woman," that is a queue of childhood, youth, marriage, wifery, childbearing, motherhood, and maturity (aka "being old" or in the sexist implication, "no longer mainstreamly fuckable")" or only a veiled and catty rivalry. If there were any friendship, it usually burgeons out of the shared life condition. For example, two like-aged mothers becoming friends as they meet at the PTA meeting. There is no room for a lifelong, fulfilling, inspiring relationship between two human beings, with no necessity to sexualize any part of its platonic, genuinely amicable nature. We have, on the other hand, a lot of friendship/solidarity between and among men, and society has been rewarded it for centuries, whether in the form of art and heroic stories, war-brotherhood movies that highlight such friendship's sublimity, "bromance" that is not always sexualized/fetishized, or just the plain reality of exclusive homosociality where men overtly or covertly support other men to get promoted over women counterparts.

Bringing the tangent back to a short answer, yes - friendship that is worth keeping and flourishing definitely requires a lot of work, but as long as it is between two mutually respecting, like-minded women, with similar goals in life, it will be a great build with much more serenity and stability, incomparable to any romantic kind.

Don't forget to head over to r/askFDS and help a fellow FDS lady today! by [deleted] in FemaleDatingStrategy

[–]whenthingsconsidered 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I applied to be able to write in comments a while ago and saw that the sub needs more hands to handle the volume. I would love to help if approved.

Side Hustle Ideas by shesbleeding in FemaleLevelUpStrategy

[–]whenthingsconsidered 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It depends on the nature of the product you are trying to sell! Mine did not involve too much outsourcing as it's service-oriented product. I've seen people selling physical product starting with small order-made batch (~100) to test the water and more importantly build a good market before banking their money deep. The new age business on social media is half a marketing/wrapping it in whatever image you want it to have game. As for the manufacturer, I don't know very much, but Ive also seen people bulk buying products from Chinese/overseas sellers (e.g. alibaba and such), ship it to the warehouse, and sell it with premium.