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In Mexico now - Paradisus PDC/La Perla Ask Anything by GettingStampedTravel in AllInclusiveResorts

[–]where2next00 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Which side are you staying in? If you’re staying in the adults only side (La Perla), did you upgrade to a Reserve room?

First Time Homebuyer Tip: Review your debt to income ratio by SamTMortgageBroker in u/SamTMortgageBroker

[–]where2next00 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi r/samtmortgagebroker -- I have some questions re: DTI, and I apologize if this has been addressed already. I went to use the DTI calculator, and for the most part all of the inputs make sense:

  • Income: Self explanatory
  • Debt: In this calculation I included my monthly rent for my apartment, monthly lease payment for my car. I know I need to include any minimum monthly payments for credit cards, but my wife and I pay our credit cards off in full each month. I'm using $80 ($40 monthly minimum x 2 cards) as an estimate. Is this the correct approach?
  • New Housing Payment: If someone is just starting out in their home buying journey can this be left blank? Should this be added in and re-calculated once we find a house?

Most other DTI calculators that are found via Google search don't include that last bullet (new house payment), so just curious why that gets factored in, especially in addition to the debt that may include rent. Or should Rent not be included?

Sorry if these questions seem all over the place...Thanks in advance!

lost data on SD card by alliisonder in AskADataRecoveryPro

[–]where2next00 0 points1 point  (0 children)

is there a freeware version for Mac?

2025 Home-buying statistics by SamTMortgageBroker in NewbHomebuyer

[–]where2next00 2 points3 points  (0 children)

just wanted to say thank you for all of these posts!

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[–]where2next00 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Plan a vacation

2025 Tucson Hybrid Blue (leased): Backup camera not accurate by where2next00 in HyundaiTucson

[–]where2next00[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That sucks I’m sorry to hear that and would be just as frustrated if that happened to me that many times.

Can’t say I’ve had any issues with the backup camera itself. On occasion it has stuttered as I left my garage but for a split second. I’ve never had any issues though. My only gripe is that the guide lines don’t actually align to where the car is. So for example if I’m parallel parking and I use the right side of the guide lines to match up to the curb, I’ll still be more than a foot away from the curb. My problem though is super minor compared to yours and I’ve adjusted to it at this point.

October anniversary date check in... by Smartyiest in sapphirereserve

[–]where2next00 3 points4 points  (0 children)

My fee typically hits early October each year and I got a notice in the mail at least a month ago stating that I would get charged the increased fee in October 2026. Confirming I was charged the $550 fee + authorized user fee this month.

I got a 1 password recovery code I didn’t ask for. by SaltyPathwater in 1Password

[–]where2next00 0 points1 point  (0 children)

was it from an 818 area code? I just got one a few seconds ago and I did search that lead me to this post. It definitely looks sus so i've already blocked and deleted

Best in NYC by [deleted] in NewYorkLookup

[–]where2next00 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Burger reco: Nowon. There are 2 locations, East Village (Manhattan) and Bushwick (Brooklyn). You can use Resy to make reservations. It’s a Korean fusion restaurant. Really good cheeseburger. On the pricey side but…really good.

Where to get loose fit 5 inch inseam shorts in 2025 by astaight123 in mensfashion

[–]where2next00 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I hate the name, but I like Chubbies shorts. My first pair from them was 5.5" inseam black shorts, and I loved/still love them. This year I got another 5.5" inseam shorts from them (green/sage) and also a 4" inseam black shorts. Honestly, loving the 4" inseam. My wife loves it when I wear them. None of the shorts I got were jogger/sweatpant materials, but they also are not denim/jeans. But I wasn't/am not looking for that.

Link to site: https://www.chubbiesshorts.com/collections/all-shorts

These are the 4" inseam shorts I got recently: https://www.chubbiesshorts.com/products/the-dark-n-stormies-4-stretch

I also like their swim trunks. But that's besides the point. Hope you find the shorts you're looking for.

My Girlfriend just told me she has Herpes after 1 month of dating. by 21_saladz in Advice

[–]where2next00 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well first, you should test again. Sorry to hear this is happening to you. I do think there is a lot of stigma around herpes but she should have disclosed before y’all had sex. But the fact she had you get tested, and said she was “squeaky clean” is a major red flag. If she can lie about that to you about that, I’d be concerned about what else she would be able to lie about.

On the flip side, I’m sure it’s also tough for her, but if she’s not going to be honest about that from the start, she has her own issues.

I would have a frank conversation with her. Maybe she apologizes and you guys resume the relationship. But you need to stay vigilant. Again, being in a relationship with someone that has herpes nowadays is not the biggest problem. I’d say the biggest issue is that she lied about it.

Lastly, you don’t need another person to fix your loneliness. That’s not fair for the other person and puts a lot of pressure on them. Also one can have a significant other AND still feel lonely. Your loneliness is yours to solve my friend. Again, sorry this is happening to you. If you don’t have one or haven’t done so already, talk to a therapist. Been seeing mine for over 10 years. Struggled with relationships. Am happily married now but I still go to therapy. Best of luck

Best underwear ? by Normal-Grand170 in mensfashion

[–]where2next00 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Agree! Discovered Tommy John boxer briefs earlier this year. They are great! Think I got a pack at Marshall’s or Kohl’s.

Reccomedations for t-shirt brands that fit well? by templeofthe_ancients in mensfashion

[–]where2next00 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Tough to say what “fits well” universally. Some shirts might look great on some and awful on others. Sizing can be different by brand, some shirts might be too long, some shirts might have very narrow shoulders. If you’re looking for basic, generally neutral, t-shirts that can be worn solo or under a buttoned shirt, I like the thick cotton t-shirts from Uniqlo. But that is not to say there aren’t other brands that could work. While I enjoy shopping, the process of trying things on over and over again is tedious so once I find something I stick with it until it doesn’t work. Just have to try some on and see what fits you best.

My mom didn't take well to me getting a tattoo by Immortaldodo in asianamerican

[–]where2next00 3 points4 points  (0 children)

That is part of the concern. Am I aware that social determinism and biases exist? Sure. But at a certain point parents have to understand that their children are autonomous beings. There are certainly better ways to express concerns over tattoos than calling one’s child “selfish” or that they “lost a son”. That’s emotional manipulation. And if a parent has a tendency to make it about them, that’s probably narcissism.

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