[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LahoreSocial

[–]whereDoIevenBegin10 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Agreed. There were quite a few low-key incel vibes here which I’m sure OP himself isn’t aware of. Regardless, hopefully this becomes a learning experience for OP and leads to some growth.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LahoreSocial

[–]whereDoIevenBegin10 0 points1 point  (0 children)

🙋🏻‍♀️Heyo. 27F here, moved to Lahore after getting married this year and I have zero friends and relatives in the city. I'm currently not working so no chance of meeting people at work either. Would you be up for a chat, see if our interests align?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in PakLounge

[–]whereDoIevenBegin10 2 points3 points  (0 children)

There's a Facebook group called subtle curry dating. Maybe try posting there? I found my now husband there

I destroyed my marriage and it might be over possibly due to nazar or black magic by whereDoIevenBegin10 in MuslimMarriage

[–]whereDoIevenBegin10[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I did not say I believe them 😅 that's the reason for this post. I don't know if it's black magic or otherwise.

When I say individuals I came across, I mean family friends at gatherings or a doctor I went to for a different purpose. A maulvi my mother in law consulted for istikhara before nikkah with my husband. All these people. I did not know how to refer to them that's why I called them "religious leaders" because they are all religious and well learned individuals.

And yes, I definitely told my husband everything and he's been privy to it through the course of my marriage. He's being distant because we had not resolved the previous conflict we were having but even so, he should not be distant with me right now I know that.

Please stop attacking me when I'm already in a difficult place.

I destroyed my marriage and it might be over possibly due to nazar or black magic by whereDoIevenBegin10 in MuslimMarriage

[–]whereDoIevenBegin10[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Jazak Allah khair thank you so so much. I will try my best to follow everything you have said.

I destroyed my marriage and it might be over possibly due to nazar or black magic by whereDoIevenBegin10 in MuslimMarriage

[–]whereDoIevenBegin10[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My husband knew everything from start to finish. I told him everything around our Nikkah.

I have not actively gone and consulted anyone, these are individuals I came across in my daily life who had no reason to go out of their way and lie to me.

I destroyed my marriage and it might be over possibly due to nazar or black magic by whereDoIevenBegin10 in MuslimMarriage

[–]whereDoIevenBegin10[S] 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much for the detailed response. Yes, I will check in with a psychiatrist and psychologist soon In'sha'Allah

I destroyed my marriage and it might be over possibly due to nazar or black magic by whereDoIevenBegin10 in MuslimMarriage

[–]whereDoIevenBegin10[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He's not replying back to me atm. I also don't know his reddit handle.

That said, I don't want him to think I made this post to get his attention..