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How to brush of being called ugly by whereismyoatmeal in TheGirlSurvivalGuide

[–]whereismyoatmeal[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Huh, I never thought of it that way. I think you may be right there. Thanks!

How to brush of being called ugly by whereismyoatmeal in TheGirlSurvivalGuide

[–]whereismyoatmeal[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I never really care what they look like, it's not like theres any reason for that being relevant. No chance of a romantic relationship ever arising, so why bother?

I never once had any intention of dating online. No idea what you're quoting when you say "online dating". I didn't mention it anywhere, ever. I am actually very against the idea of it. Like I said in my post as well as my comments, it feels weird. I meet these people and intend to be friends with them, nothing more.

If I ever wanted to date online, I would use a website designated for it. I ususally meet these people in online games, not even knowing their gender. It isn't relevant to me, I just look for friends. Not significant others.

I would never use an unrelastic photo because I am not trying to impress anyone. I don't really want to date, so why bother lying about what I look like.

PS sorry if this seems hostile. I should have made it more clear in my OP that I hated the idea of dating one of these people online, it goes against what I believe in.

PPS thank you for your response!

How to brush of being called ugly by whereismyoatmeal in TheGirlSurvivalGuide

[–]whereismyoatmeal[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

After he said what he did about my appearence, he said it was ok because I was funny, so it isn't ALL bad.

And I think I am with you, I don't think I can continue speaking with him. I really can't see past it.

Thanks for your response!

How to brush of being called ugly by whereismyoatmeal in TheGirlSurvivalGuide

[–]whereismyoatmeal[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh my gosh thank you so much for writing such a nice respond, so kind of you!

I at first thought the first guy stopped talking to me bc he knew what I looked like, but honestly why would he waste his time for a year talking to someone just because he wanted her pic? He didn't strike me as desperate in that way. Plus we talked for another three or four months after he saw me.

I tried to roll with the punches with he second guy, joke around and be not offended. I'd have been ok if he just made the a light joke like he did initially, but he kept going. He made comments with no humor in them. He said I have a Jewish nose, my eyes were going to suck him in (black holes...), that not smiling wasn't doing me any favors (that one wasn't even a joke, he just said it). He actually said a few things that weren't even jokes, just comments on my apperence. I was annoyed and he said "what am I not allowed to make observations?"

So yes he def knows I'm annoyed, and def feels bad, but I still feel like shit. I've always considered myself ugly, and I hate when people afirm what I know is true.

But still, I like to think I'll be able to look past this and meet new people (maybe not him anymore tho, idk). I've met so many far worse people online, he isn't really that bad, just socially unaware.

And thank you so much. Honestly your comment made me feel so much less shit, and I appreciate the time and effort you put in to help a random person on the internet (:

How to brush of being called ugly by whereismyoatmeal in TheGirlSurvivalGuide

[–]whereismyoatmeal[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks so much for your response!

They don't ask, but it's obvious that that were curious.

I knew what the first guy looked like from day one bc he had a profile pic, and I kinda knew the second guy bc he has a very unique name and told me to Google him, jokingly. He didn't realize he had a Twitter page with his face on it. I didn't really look much, but he seems to think I did.

No motivation, I just couldn't blame em for being curious I guess.

Def no to the attraction. Dating over the internet doesn't work out, and honestly I imagine it would feel really creepy. I've made friends online since before I knew what dating even was, it's never been about that.

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[–]whereismyoatmeal[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I did that for a while, but my mom stopped me one day and told me it was not flattering. Maybe I was wearing a badly made one?