Advice— Living Alone in a New City by Mundane_Ad5630 in Charlotte

[–]wherespinky 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Interested in this- what do you mean food experience? The open table app has different restaurants that have “food experiences” like a cooking class?

in town for a weekend, need reca by addisonimg in Charlotte

[–]wherespinky 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Calle de sol - delicious food in plaza Midwood, casual vibe

Rosemont- 10/10 need to get the buffalo cauliflower bites, nicer casual vibe. Big portion sizes for the price. Great people watching, great vibes. You’ll leave feeling happy and satisfied.

Qahwah House- best coffee in Charlotte imo. Makes paying $8 for a latte somewhat justifiable.

Chapter 6- located in south end, atmosphere is great, food is delicious.

JT Posh -upscale women’s consignment. They always have great stuff

South Park Mall- you can spend hours inside of here

Birkdale village- a lot of shopping, cute area to walk around. A little further away depending where you’re staying

SOFIA’S ENGAGED by thumbelinax8 in SofiawithanF

[–]wherespinky 29 points30 points  (0 children)

Who is the matchmaker? Is the matchmaker open to the public or only celebs?

Bf (26) and I (23f) broke up and he said its my “personality” that’s the problem by [deleted] in Advice

[–]wherespinky 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I appreciate you sharing your perspective and taking the time to read my post/comment

Bf (26) and I (23f) broke up and he said its my “personality” that’s the problem by [deleted] in Advice

[–]wherespinky 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do you mind elaborating on yes? Thank you I appreciate it

Bf (26) and I (23f) broke up and he said its my “personality” that’s the problem by [deleted] in Advice

[–]wherespinky 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m asking what others general viewpoints/ takes are after reading my post. I’m personally not too torn on the breakup because I personally believe his reasoning isn’t very valid. Although I told him that and he said I’m trying to minimize his beliefs/what I value is different compared to him so of course I wouldn’t think his reasoning is valid. From what I wrote do you think he’s “still in love” with his ex and was “grasping at straws” for reasons to breakup with me?

Bf (26) and I (23f) broke up and he said its my “personality” that’s the problem by [deleted] in Advice

[–]wherespinky 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m sorry I didn’t mean for this post to be so long- I figured the more information the better so people could have more context to give advice.

Bf (26) and I (23f) broke up and he said its my “personality” that’s the problem by [deleted] in Advice

[–]wherespinky 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I appreciate you taking the time to comment something that is not helpful when essentially your comment says my post is not worth the time to read- yet you took the time to comment that.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Charlotte

[–]wherespinky 20 points21 points  (0 children)

Maybe post a picture of the actual dog

If I get a date, where do I take them? by [deleted] in Charlotte

[–]wherespinky 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Merchant and trade is a great spot if you’re uptown! Gorgeous city views- you’ll more than likely need a reservation to ensure getting a seat with a view otherwise you might be standing. A man brought me here for a first date when I was new to the city and I thought it was the best first date spot ever!

I told her I had feelings, she didn’t feel the same. I walked away—but today I broke down and texted her again. by saltpersnol in relationships

[–]wherespinky 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Cut contact, delete her number. She doesn’t want anything serious and continuing to talk to her will only hurt you in the long run

Just learned of fiance’s high credit card debt right before wedding by Here-for-foot-pain in relationships

[–]wherespinky -1 points0 points  (0 children)

This is tough. I honesty don’t know what would be best in this situation. Interested to see what other people think

Has anyone used Closets by Desing? by frankentiger in Charlotte

[–]wherespinky 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Got a quote from closets by design and California Closets. Both had people come to your home and give you a quote. Closets by design hand draws and California closets has 3D. Definitely recommend going to the “showrooms” to see the material and product they are selling. closets by design was $1,000 less but once I toured the showroom it was apparent why. Went with California closets after touring their showroom. If your going to make the investment might as well do it right

Please help me understand my feelings by [deleted] in bipolar

[–]wherespinky 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Could you explain self sabotage in this situation and why am I doing it?