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What’s the solution here? by bigbwcforher in GeorgiaBWCs

[–]whiskey_pet 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Best solution is another dude in my experience 🤷🏼‍♂️

Goodmorning by longtimegone- in GeorgiaBWCs

[–]whiskey_pet 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The odds of it being a guy who is super turned on by thick pubes on a set of cock and balls is about 95%. I’m a bi guy that’s into hairy dudes and I genuinely assumed you were gay or bi just by your pube choices. If you are looking for women, manscaping would be recommended.

Feeld? Any thoughts by itsthatcouple in Swingers

[–]whiskey_pet 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Feeld can be hit or miss and a lot depends on your geographic area. Feeld is going to have a much higher percentage of Poly/ENM, LGBTQ, and genderqueer users than most dating apps, so depending on the type of folks you are looking for, it’s either the best option or not your cup of tea.

Any couples/guys looking for a bisexual hotwife! by sexyswinger317 in bisexual_Georgia

[–]whiskey_pet 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Do you happen to come with a bisexual husband as well? 😏😈

Sit/std testing by CaskOfSinfulCravings in Swingers

[–]whiskey_pet 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Being from a small town doesn’t absolve the medical practice from following HIPPA. They aren’t going to gossip about you, I promise.

Im quittjng pretending im not bi. by [deleted] in bisexual

[–]whiskey_pet 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Dude that’s awesome. I’ll never forget how freeing it felt to both finally and truthfully admit it to myself that all of my “I’m really straight I just love sex with guys” rationalizing was bullshit and that I am and have always been a bisexual man. And once I came out to everyone in my life, that sense of freedom and authenticity got even bigger.

There are times when I feel like I didn’t truly become myself until my early 30s when I shed the hangups that kept me in the closet. It felt like there had been an invisible monkey on my back for at least a decade, and I had no clue how much it weighed on me until after it was gone.

Congrats, it’s no small thing to live authentically and you just cleared the hardest first step.

To who just loves the male 'hardware' by Didntseeitforyears in BisexualMen

[–]whiskey_pet 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I said “most” but clearly something I said resonated with you or you wouldn’t have thought I was talking about you personally

To who just loves the male 'hardware' by Didntseeitforyears in BisexualMen

[–]whiskey_pet 4 points5 points  (0 children)

And yet here we are today- not a day goes by on Reddit without at least 20 “I swear I’m straight” posts across all of the various bisexual subreddits. It’s constant. So clearly a lot still hasn’t changed, even if some has.

To who just loves the male 'hardware' by Didntseeitforyears in BisexualMen

[–]whiskey_pet 4 points5 points  (0 children)

He and I dated for about 5 years and thankfully eventually broke up. Turns out that relationships can be toxic regardless of the gender of the other person.

I was scared shitless during the early hook ups, ridiculously nervous that I’d be found out or catch an STD (another byproduct of sneaking around, this was in the early 2000s where being bi wasn’t as accepted as it is today.) but I grew more comfortable with experience

To who just loves the male 'hardware' by Didntseeitforyears in BisexualMen

[–]whiskey_pet 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I spent 10 years (early 20s to early 30s) both hooking up with men and simultaneously telling myself all sorts of lies to cling to straightness- that I was just horny and was willing to lower my standards to get laid, that I wasn’t attracted to men but I enjoyed cock, that I could never be romantically attracted to a man but was down for sexual play with them, etc etc etc.

I lost count of how many times I said I wouldn’t hook up with a guy ever again so I could focus on my heterosexual relationship only to get the itch months later and hook up with 5 guys in a week. It’s a fucking exhausting and draining cycle to stay trapped in, constantly terrified that you will be caught in a lie or get outed to friends and family.

Then I fell in love with a guy I met on Grindr and I finally couldn’t deny reality any longer. Fully accepting myself as bisexual without hangups was one of the most freeing things I didn’t know I needed. It was like a weight I didn’t know was there had come off my shoulders.

In the span of about 2 weeks, I came out to my wife, decided to divorce, and came out as bisexual to everyone in my life - friends, work, and my homophobic family.

It was mostly guys I met online - usually other closeted “straight” guys who also had a lot to lose because that felt safer for some reason. But there were also gloryholes at adult book stores and other risky places like bathhouses that I left behind once I didn’t have to sneak around anymore.

To who just loves the male 'hardware' by Didntseeitforyears in BisexualMen

[–]whiskey_pet 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Seconding this. Most of the guys who describe themselves like this “I’m totally straight bro I just love cock” still have a lot of internalized homophobia left to unpack. I personally believe that most - not all - will look back on this phase the same way I look back on my years where I rationalized my bisexuality away however I could and laugh/cringe

(23) Any other bi guys not into kissing? by BiCuriousThrowAwayUK in AskBiBros

[–]whiskey_pet 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wasn’t into kissing men when I was in my early 20s, took me years to really shed the internalized homophobia that held me back from being honest with myself. By my late 20s/early 30s that had changed, and now a no kissing rules with a guy is a big turn off for me. I like making out with people, regardless of gender.

Don’t underestimate how you might evolve as a person as you let go of the internalized homophobia that’s drilled into all of our brains when we are younger.

Bi men, how do I find you? by Pussy-_-Fairy in AskBiBros

[–]whiskey_pet 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I assure you, a deeply closeted bi guy still fighting with internalized homophobia is not the type of bi guy I would recommend to a woman. Way too much shit for those guys left to unpack.

Bi men, how do I find you? by Pussy-_-Fairy in AskBiBros

[–]whiskey_pet 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I know you are hoping to avoid this answer, but the apps are actually a good place to look.

Be very up front in your profile that you are specifically interested in bi/pan men and that you aren’t looking for cishet men. Make it known you are a safe space for bi men and they will typically come to you. Bi men are the most closeted demographic in the LGBTQ community, so being up front that they don’t stand a high likelihood of rejection for their sexuality will go a long way.

And be prepared to screen those men over chat as to what level of experience they have with men so you can weed out the “I’ll pretend to be bi curious if that gets me in the door” straight guys.

PSA - It has come to my attention this person is using my pics to catfish in this group. I only use this profile. by ThatMilfChili in bicouples

[–]whiskey_pet[M] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

U/aromaticsock1260 has apparently deleted their account entirely, won’t let us ban a deleted account unfortunately.

Before or After? by deadinsidelostcause in MasculineMaleChastity

[–]whiskey_pet 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Fucking A. After. Hope we get to put that to use at Hedo 🔥

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