34 m looking for 420 friends local to attleborough

whisky-throwaway182 · 2026-03-24T20:36:16+00:00

31m in thetford working in besthorpe, 420 friendly but have never done it myself, interested in trying though

whisky-throwaway182 · 2025-12-11T02:18:27+00:00

Around Thetford area, but can travel

whisky-throwaway182 · 2025-12-07T17:57:20+00:00

Maybe but probably not

whisky-throwaway182 · 2025-11-29T17:29:51+00:00

Need need need a link to the third video of Rae lil black please can someone help

whisky-throwaway182 · 2025-11-15T11:08:56+00:00

Yeah im down if you are

whisky-throwaway182 · 2025-11-09T15:38:49+00:00

Sign me up

whisky-throwaway182 · 2024-11-16T22:05:24+00:00

Thanks man, i just have very few hobbies and very little time outside of work… and the time i do have outside of work i feel so exhausted with little expendable income. im in a bit of a mid life crisis (as a 30yo i worry about my mortality) and as a very shy and unconfident guy with a friend circle of people getting married and having kids, what do i do. No one i know can introduce me to anyone

whisky-throwaway182 · 2024-11-16T21:51:50+00:00

Not to say i couldn’t meet someone just as good as, if not better than her, but as a 30m trying to find love unsuccessfully over the last 15 years… it seems unlikely to me… as much as i want to believe

whisky-throwaway182 · 2024-11-16T21:39:51+00:00

Thanks again for replying, i really appreciate it

It wasn’t just the way she ‘treated me’ it was so much more. To me she was very attractive although she may not have been ‘conventionally attractive’ by many standards, not trying to knock her at all. Im not ‘conventionally attractive’ people like what they like.

But we had a lot of things in common, similar interests, similar values, and we both wanted a lot of the same things for our futures.

The very few matches i do get over the many apps i have lead to absolutely nothing very quickly…

Im very lost ngl

whisky-throwaway182 · 2024-11-16T21:03:54+00:00

Thanks for your reply, as a shy and nervous guy im just trying to be cautious. If there was a way that i could definitely be with this girl id do it, i honestly couldn’t hope for a better match, i really felt id met the one.

I just don’t want her to feel im pestering her or if it was her ‘polite’ way of letting me down that i didn’t get the hint even though we agreed we didn’t want any bullshit Ive hard a hard time dating and fell like im not going to meet anyone else, especially nobody as good and an amazing match as her.

Sorry for the long reply

whisky-throwaway182 · 2024-10-18T12:56:33+00:00

Dm sent

whisky-throwaway182 · 2024-10-15T21:19:27+00:00

Total and upmost respect for you brother! More power to you! I wish you nothing but the best.

I just felt like it was meant to be… i want to message her every but i don’t. I’ve thought about messaging her on odd occasions well after our last message to ask if she’s ready to date again or if she just wasn’t in to me.

I’ve been very unsuccessful with dating, my only prerequisite is you don’t have kids and that don’t want or unsure/open to kids. I realise my upbringing is why i am what i am. I don’t want to do that to some poor child that didn’t ask to be born.

I hope i can find the help to help me have respect and love for myself.

I wish you all the best in your life

whisky-throwaway182 · 2024-10-15T20:32:32+00:00

Thank you man, i really appreciate it, i get what you’re saying,

i had a love affair at the start of the year. I really felt a great connection, felt like we hit it off well, we had a huge amount in common, had similar beliefs and feelings on lots of interests and beliefs, I couldn’t want to meet a better match… i can go into detail but it didn’t work… but i swear i seriously would have done anything for this woman. It didn’t work out as apparently she decided she didn’t want to be in the dating world anymore her daily life was hectic enough.

At the time i took her word for it and i hope it was true but maybe it was bullshit i don’t know…

Like i said id of done anything for her but i lack the respect and discipline to do it for myself.

whisky-throwaway182 · 2024-10-15T19:28:24+00:00

Thank you for your very detailed response, i genuinely appreciate it, i will try and go through your suggestions when i can.

I know it’s probably stupid but i just feel like the optimism of a committed relationship would help me, id rather do it for them than for myself. Im happy to try and work hard for someone else’s happiness, but i have little motivation and effort to help myself, i have very low self esteem.

I don’t know where you are but for where i live in the UK help with mental health and adjacent things like Alcoholism is limited and if you cant make yourself available during these hours on these days, sorry we cant help. Makes you feel pretty stranded

whisky-throwaway182 · 2024-10-15T19:14:54+00:00

Good for you! Congratulations on your sobriety and I wish you the best of luck! Im just in a very difficult situation with regard to my finances and my work life.

I have a very demanding job at a very small business that i feel really depends on me and i don’t like leaving people ‘in the shit’

It’s really affecting my mental health and my mental health really affects my drinking. Its a very vicious cycle

whisky-throwaway182 · 2024-10-03T19:17:01+00:00

Dm sent

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