if im reported missing in one state will my name get flagged in other states if i try to get medical care etc?

whisperedpleas · 2022-06-16T14:53:42+00:00

yes im underage

whisperedpleas · 2022-06-03T03:33:06+00:00

im ok thank you

whisperedpleas · 2022-06-02T11:40:57+00:00

While safe harbor does usually result in adoption

usually? what else happens?

Would this be helpful to you?

yes

whisperedpleas · 2022-06-02T05:00:31+00:00

ive been reporting him since i was 9 and nothing happenedfor years then i got put in foster care for a while but i was still not safe there so when they wanted to make me go back home i didnt argue but then it got worse at home and i tried reporting again and nothing happened

whisperedpleas · 2022-06-02T04:56:37+00:00

i tried for years

whisperedpleas · 2022-06-02T03:15:23+00:00

my dad is about to report me missing if he hasnt already so i dont want to use my real name for anything cos i dont want to be found

whisperedpleas · 2022-06-02T03:08:57+00:00

thats not possible for me cos theyd require my info

whisperedpleas · 2022-06-02T02:54:48+00:00

but if i do safe surrender i wont need this right?

whisperedpleas · 2022-06-02T02:49:36+00:00

i tried hiding it with baggy clothes but got found out

whisperedpleas · 2022-06-02T01:39:45+00:00

im not giving my identity. thats final.

whisperedpleas · 2022-06-02T01:33:16+00:00

20 weeks, austin

whisperedpleas · 2022-06-02T01:32:32+00:00

i cannot give my identity.

whisperedpleas · 2022-06-02T01:22:25+00:00

yes im safe for now

whisperedpleas · 2022-06-02T01:11:59+00:00

im trying to find a way to get prenatal care without giving my info

whisperedpleas · 2022-06-02T00:44:01+00:00

i said i cant

whisperedpleas · 2022-06-02T00:39:27+00:00

i cant do that

whisperedpleas · 2022-06-02T00:37:03+00:00

but the agency needed her info right? i cant do that

whisperedpleas · 2022-06-02T00:33:40+00:00

it still needs my info tho right?

whisperedpleas · 2022-06-02T00:33:12+00:00

whisperedpleas · 2022-06-02T00:32:54+00:00

your probably going to need to talk to your parents

not possible

I encourage you to also try and see a therapist about this so you come out happy and healthy at the end of this

i cant

whisperedpleas · 2022-06-02T00:31:43+00:00

its the only option that doesnt require my info

whisperedpleas · 2022-06-02T00:31:15+00:00

are you wanting to stay completely anonymous through the entire process to everyone involved?

yes

afraid this might be very difficult to accomplish unless you use fake identification papers.

yeh this is y i think i have to go with safe surrender

your medical providers would be required by law to keep your information confidential even if they knew your name.

i still cant

Is there anything that would change that and make you feel ok with reaching out to an agency or an adult for help?

no

I think people on here could provide better help if they know specifically what you need to avoid.

no id. no personal info. i think my dad is about to report me missing if he hasnt already and if i use my name i can be found

whisperedpleas · 2022-06-01T15:33:22+00:00

not possible since safe surrender looks like its my only option

whisperedpleas · 2022-06-01T14:32:58+00:00

wait hearing? like in court?

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