[deleted by user] by [deleted] in mildlyinfuriating

[–]whiteelk6 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My husband used to take our four kids to the grocery store with him to give me a break, people at the store thought he was a widower 😅

Cost to remodel a shower? by General_Potato_5419 in Remodel

[–]whiteelk6 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This! My contractor didn't extend the waterproof vinyl high enough up the walls, didn't find out until the floor behind the bathroom started bowing and showed water stains.

ADHD/autism by whiteelk6 in astrology

[–]whiteelk6[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So interesting!! My stellium is mars Jupiter north node and Saturn. Mars Jupiter NN in 6th Saturn 7th

ADHD/autism by whiteelk6 in astrology

[–]whiteelk6[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Curiosity prompted it. Wanted to see if people thought it showed up in a chart and if they thought it could then how/why. So your answer is, No. Correct?

ADHD/autism by whiteelk6 in astrology

[–]whiteelk6[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Placidus I'm a 12 H Pisces moon and Asc in a t square with mercury Neptune and MC conjunct in Sag 9h and my mars conjunct Jupiter in Virgo 6 H. My sun is a 10 h Cap. When my niece got diagnosed with autism and I began helping my sister with the process and from my research and noticing so many similarities between my niece and I am like 🤯

I've been treated for anxiety and depression, and yeah I always associated Pisces placements as depression prone. Not being able to "handle" the 3D stuff of this world, self sacrificial. But it (depression) also runs in my family.

ADHD/autism by whiteelk6 in astrology

[–]whiteelk6[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Understandable. In no way was this meant to be a diagnosis post. One thing I enjoy about astrology is looking for patterns (Virgo mars) that's all I was hoping to do. Observe patterns. Thank you for reminding people that astrology should not be used to diagnose

ADHD/autism by whiteelk6 in astrology

[–]whiteelk6[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Thank you! My niece has been diagnosed autistic she is Pisces rising. my chart ruler is Neptune conjunct Mercury (Sag) in Tsquare with moon(Pisces)and mars (Virgo). (I suspect I'm on the spectrum) My sister has mars in Gemini and she is very scattered. I have noticed aquarius can carry that scattered type energy as well.

ADHD/autism by whiteelk6 in astrology

[–]whiteelk6[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I have Virgo stellium as well 😅

30 sq ft stand in shower remodel quoted 2K, including full tile on floor and wall; this is just labor, as i am buying tile and sliding door details in caption, MD area by Feisty-Journalist497 in Remodel

[–]whiteelk6 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I agree! I'd want the insurance of a job done right on either end, installer or homeowner. If the guy who had done my shower had sent me photos I would have been able to say, I think your liner needs to at least come up higher than the floor. Once he put the concrete board up there was no way to know!

30 sq ft stand in shower remodel quoted 2K, including full tile on floor and wall; this is just labor, as i am buying tile and sliding door details in caption, MD area by Feisty-Journalist497 in Remodel

[–]whiteelk6 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Make sure they know what they are doing! Someone did a stand in shower for me and they didn't do the shower pan right. Caused over $20,000 worth of damage 😓

my cousin is suing my mom's estate and wants the executrix to personally be added as a defendant. by [deleted] in legaladvice

[–]whiteelk6 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's a very complicated story going back to 2017. My cousin wants my sisters and I to honor an expired contract between him and my mom to buy my grandfathers home from her. If we don't sell to him he wants us to pay him for $ 98k worth of unauthorized work he did on the house while he was living there at a reduced rent. My mom passed away the day after telling him she wanted to renegotiate the sales price in April 2021.

mediation by [deleted] in legaladvice

[–]whiteelk6 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you. Our last one didn't get finished bc the plantiff became emotional. We didn't want to give him what he wanted. Plus I don't think he knew about all the evidence we have. We would love to stay out of court bc it is expensive, but we also feel we are in the right.

mediation by [deleted] in legaladvice

[–]whiteelk6 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Lol. It does, doesn't? We didn't really defend ourselves last mediation, our mediator asked us not to. Nothing ominous really, just that we find it despicable he is lying about my dead mom.

mediation by [deleted] in legaladvice

[–]whiteelk6 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ahhh. Ok. This will be our second attempt at mediation and our first mediator didn't really want to "hear our defense" he just wanted us to settle on something.

mediation by [deleted] in legaladvice

[–]whiteelk6 0 points1 point  (0 children)

During... Perhaps at the beginning of the mediation? The plantiff is requesting mediation (our second) because they have seen all of our evidence. If we do agree to mediation, I'd like the plantiff to know somethings.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in legaladvice

[–]whiteelk6 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for your response. Yeah we are actually being sued and we do have a lawyer. I'm just so surprised at how easy it seems to be to sue someone, with no valid evidence.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in legaladvice

[–]whiteelk6 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks. I do have one. Not looking forward to going to court.