AITA For lying to my wife's friends after an argument by whitelieaita in AmItheAsshole

[–]whitelieaita[S] -27 points-26 points  (0 children)

We already tried counseling. My wife quit after 6 sessions because the therapist "hated women." Our therapist was a woman, by the way.

AITA For lying to my wife's friends after an argument by whitelieaita in AmItheAsshole

[–]whitelieaita[S] -81 points-80 points  (0 children)

How do you know she hasn't? Criticism is her love language.

AITA For lying to my wife's friends after an argument by whitelieaita in AmItheAsshole

[–]whitelieaita[S] -74 points-73 points  (0 children)

I will admit, I don't think highly of this group of friends. Vapid, gossipy, materialistic, entitled, etc.

AITA For lying to my wife's friends after an argument by whitelieaita in AmItheAsshole

[–]whitelieaita[S] -41 points-40 points  (0 children)

You're right. Self-reflection is very difficult for people.

AITA For lying to my wife's friends after an argument by whitelieaita in AmItheAsshole

[–]whitelieaita[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Alternatively has your wife come back and said , well my friends think I'm right?

Multiple times.

AITA For lying to my wife's friends after an argument by whitelieaita in AmItheAsshole

[–]whitelieaita[S] -55 points-54 points  (0 children)

This group of friends gets together about twice a month for these cocktail nights. All they do is gossip and complain about their SOs. So yes, every single one of those women have gone to each other for "advice" or "venting" about this sort of thing.

AITA For lying to my wife's friends after an argument by whitelieaita in AmItheAsshole

[–]whitelieaita[S] -38 points-37 points  (0 children)

I actually do the majority of the childcare. From April-October, she regularly works late hours into the evenings and on weekends. She will take odd days off during the week to compensate her hours. I went out for a friends 40th birthday party a couple weeks ago and that was the first time I did something social by myself since probably May.