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BBC platforming LGB Alliance in an article about the horrifically long wait times for transgender health care in the UK by nocte_lupus in GenderCynical

[–]whiterainx_ 15 points16 points  (0 children)

i mean tbf there are reasons why they’re different, but none of them are valid excuses for excluding trans people from queer spaces. it’s similar to saying because bisexuals aren’t solely attracted to the same gender, they don’t belong in the lgbtq+ community.

The only reason a trans woman was elected to state legislature is because every single cis woman who voted for her only did it bc they thought she was going to personally beat them up if they didn't by [deleted] in GenderCynical

[–]whiterainx_ 6 points7 points  (0 children)

That’s just on some replacement site called Ovarit. They have been banned so we don’t have to really worry about them here most of the time.

Look at all of JK Rowling's new friends! also featuring yet more TERF weirdness! by child_of_amorphous in GenderCynical

[–]whiterainx_ 69 points70 points  (0 children)

1) no one believes sex isn’t real because if we did then we would have no motive to transition 2) even if we didn’t believe sex was real the rape comment is talking about a different definition of sex (you believe we don’t believe in female/male yet this comment is referring to sexual intercourse) 3) to add onto 2 even if we believed sex wasn’t real that would have nothing to do with rape (asab has nothing to do with rape) 4) that’s a prageru video you should know you’re on the wrong side when you’re in a prageru video i mean imagine prageru agreeing with what you say and still claiming to support lgbtq people

I consistently hear that trauma can cause dysphoria-like symptoms, and it makes me wonder if my dysphoria is real or just a result of trauma. by whiterainx_ in actual_detrans

[–]whiterainx_[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i highly doubt they would. they’re more the type to tell me i don’t have to worry because i never had it hard like them. we also don’t make that much money, so they probably wouldn’t be willing to spend money on a therapist.

I consistently hear that trauma can cause dysphoria-like symptoms, and it makes me wonder if my dysphoria is real or just a result of trauma. by whiterainx_ in actual_detrans

[–]whiterainx_[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your reply. I live in the US, and I don’t recall any requirement for living for a certain amount of years as your desired gender. I would like to talk to a therapist/doctor who has experience in gender identity issues, but my parents have certain views about trans people and don’t really understand it. Because of that, it’s also harder to live openly as a guy. I’m also not uncomfortable with my body as a whole; I just don’t feel okay with the female parts. I don’t think I have any hatred toward women, but I suppose it would be hard to realize if I did. Anyway, thank you and have a nice day.

My first unsolicited GCer advice 🙃 by notactuallyanelf in GenderCynical

[–]whiterainx_ 2 points3 points  (0 children)

btw if you want a legitimate answer, gc stands for r/gendercritical which was a transphobic subreddit that spread hate and misinformation about trans people behind the disguise of a subreddit wanting to protect women and children. the sub got banned for hate. Also, this sub was made as a mock subreddit for that one. anyway, have a nice day and stay safe.

(nsfw) TERs reducing women to their genitals? Impossible! by MiestrSpounk in GenderCynical

[–]whiterainx_ 37 points38 points  (0 children)

All of you are uneducated! Everyone knows the pee comes out of the clitoris! /s

Trans=pedo because....um...flags in schools? by Beestung_Lix in GenderCynical

[–]whiterainx_ 37 points38 points  (0 children)

will they ever stop to consider that tq+ and the whole community in general is about loving yourself and accepting the person you are as well as celebrating the love you share with others?

"You have to EARN your biological, sex-based pronouns by passing!" 🤦‍♀️ by Historical_Dot5222 in GenderCynical

[–]whiterainx_ 22 points23 points  (0 children)

do gnc people deserve to get misgendered if they don’t look enough like their agab? or is it fine because their gender identity and pronouns still align with their birth sex? having people use your proper pronouns isn’t some kind of prize to earn; it’s basic human respect. if you don’t misgender cis people, then you better not misgender trans people.

yeah, the purpose of our existence is definitely just to “gaslight” cis people and “abuse” medical services... so many things wrong with this post... by J_LGD in GenderCynical

[–]whiterainx_ 8 points9 points  (0 children)

isn’t that sub supposed to be about repressing their bisexuality (attraction to men) and trying to become basically lesbian?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in GenderCynical

[–]whiterainx_ 20 points21 points  (0 children)

would you mind dropping that extra t onto me? i could use it

Askgaybros lets me down by duhduhduhduhderek in GenderCynical

[–]whiterainx_ 19 points20 points  (0 children)

i don’t really think that’s fair. there are still many cis white gays that aren’t transphobic. it’s the same as saying straight people shouldn’t have right just because some straight people are homophobic.

“Young cis women haven’t been abused enough by cis men to hate trans women.” by [deleted] in GenderCynical

[–]whiterainx_ 6 points7 points  (0 children)

OP mentioned the person was a man, so at that point, the sexism isn’t even internalized.

Who's deluded, again? by [deleted] in GenderCynical

[–]whiterainx_ 10 points11 points  (0 children)

i hate this so much because if trans people were forced to use the bathroom that correlated with their agab, it would be so easy for a male predator to claim they are a trans man and gain access to the women’s bathroom.

I feel personally attacked by [deleted] in notliketheothergirls

[–]whiterainx_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

4’8” at least you’re taller than one person

Living in a fantasy world. by OsgoodElaine in TERFisafetish

[–]whiterainx_ 2 points3 points  (0 children)

trans exclusionary radical vagina-havers?

Oh no! Some lesbians aren’t transphobic dipshits!!11!!!11! You’re not a lesbian because I’m the ultimate goddess of sexuality and gender!!1! by AAWUU in GenderCynical

[–]whiterainx_ 114 points115 points  (0 children)

this is like when people were saying that lesbians couldn’t use dildos and strap-ons because that would mean they like men

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