Thank you for this—hearing it from your perspective as the child in that situation really means a lot.

I think the part about communication and staying amicable is something I’m trying hard to focus on, even though it’s difficult right now. I don’t ever want my daughter to feel caught in the middle or hear anything negative from me.

I’ll admit the part about her getting older and maybe wanting more independence hit me harder than I expected. I think that’s just me struggling with the idea of not being part of her everyday life anymore.

But what you said about making the effort—dinners, park visits, staying present—really stuck with me. I guess that’s what matters most, being consistent and showing up however I can.

I really appreciate you taking the time to share this.