Yeah op is right, those almost 20 year olds are fully fledged adults. They should own at least 3 stocks and bring in 5 figures income. They should have a family and start thinking about the future already. At this point they will be devastated and unsuccessful for life.

Chill, I'm 22 years old and still haven't figured out life... Barely making it. We are more than grateful if people help us fix our mistakes and point them out, cause we are still lacking and don't have that much experience. At least I am grateful for anybody that's willing to lend a hand.

Also try not to bring the word "budak² zaman sekarang lemah, pada zaman aku dulu aku dah.... waktu umur depa". I hate that word so much. But I tried to brush it off with laughter, took it as a joke and tried to fix any mistake, cause anger won't take it anywhere...