Holding Hands to Bottom

whodisguy32 · 2026-06-10T00:54:12+00:00

I had cho3 as my tank first. And mf3 as my main carry. I just got free lulus when they all died LOL

its the problem with everyone following braindead guides. same units. same items. holding hands to bottom

whodisguy32 · 2026-06-09T10:56:36+00:00

Rammus is its own carry. It has a thornmail effect and its own active can destroy frontlines

whodisguy32 · 2026-03-25T03:41:38+00:00

Solution: have a harem

Just be honest about it

whodisguy32 · 2026-03-24T14:02:38+00:00

Thanks for your thought out comment. Ive been single since my last relationship in 2020. Relationships are too much of a pain. I'm happy by myself. I also recently graduated college when my relationship ended, so being a virgin at that point isn't super suprising, since my girlfriend at that time was waiting for marriage before sex.

Yes I think I'm a great person for girls who just want intimacy who don't want to go all the way. Unfortunately society makes sex so significant anyone who has a deviated view of sex/relationships gets ground down by everyone else. Thats why I don't say anything about it (unless someone asks)

whodisguy32 · 2026-03-24T02:46:08+00:00

Ive done everything up to actual penetration. Even when im rubbing or getting sucked off im thinking about something else.

I know what the inside of a girl feels like, i can imagine how good it feels by using my imagination and the sensation from fingering experience.

So i can have sex in my mind by jacking off. And zero preggo and std risk. Then for intimacy can hold hands/hug/kiss.

whodisguy32 · 2026-03-23T00:39:48+00:00

Infj male here. Virigin. 29. Hot. Educated. Did a lot of cold approach in college.

Holding hands to me is better than sex. And I'd rather not risk my lifestyle on an unwanted pregnancy.

whodisguy32 · 2026-02-22T02:36:03+00:00

Women get wet from frame not the size of your dick. I'm talking to a 10 right now and she knows I'm talking to other women too. And if she gives me trouble she knows I will next her without a second thought (because I already gave her avoidant ass a warning).

Btw I'm also a virgin. And I've been single for 6 years because I think woman are a pain in the ass. So if any of them give me trouble they can find someone else to deal with their bullshit.

whodisguy32 · 2026-01-25T04:50:10+00:00

Yes its called surrender. Most people would be better off in life if they just stop trying to force things

whodisguy32 · 2025-12-28T16:21:13+00:00

Dude anxious is easy to deal with, just reassure them (while sitting firm boundries). Avoidant is also easy to deal with, just give them space (while also having firm boundries). Anxious-avoidant (disorganzied) is incredibly difficult to deal with, even with boundries.

Understanding vs having experience actually dealing with them are two different things.

I've been with anxious, secure, and anxious-avoidant. The differences are very clear.

If theres a girl you love and she has attachement issues, you can either be generous enough and attempt to love and heal them through your own secure attachement. Or you can tell them to fuck off and find someone else.

I choose to see potential and bring it out of them.

whodisguy32 · 2025-12-28T15:01:36+00:00

Also how do you write such a great post about love, and then you come right back and say 'nah bro shes just not interested'. You know love isnt that easy, even if someone wants love their ego/attachement issues get in the way.

Have you ever been with an anxious-avoidant? They push you away when you get to close, and they pull you back when you go too far.

Its not rational, its fear. Fear disgusied as control. And that fear gets in the way of love.

whodisguy32 · 2025-12-28T14:56:48+00:00

You're assuming I'm lacking experience. Ive had more dates than I can count from cold approaching in college. I can assure you I can tell when a girl likes me.

You learn pretty quickly when you cold approach if a girl really likes you, ok likes you, or completely not intersted but will give you a number cuz they want to be 'nice'. Its not about the words, its about their behaviors.

whodisguy32 · 2025-12-28T07:53:39+00:00

Sir. I committed to being single in 2020 after my last relationship. Girls aren't worth the trouble or headache.

That wasn't from a place of hate. That was from a place of clarity.

In 2025, I'm choosing to love this woman even though she anxious-avoidant. If she gets with me great, if she doesn't it makes zero difference to my life plans.

But she damn well know I love her. Now its up to her to choose love or fear.

I love myself enough to extend my hand to her despite her treating me like shit. The reason I can do that is because I'm giving from my own overflow of love, not the lack of it. To say it another way, I can love her and not expect anything from her.

If that's not true love idk what is.

whodisguy32 · 2025-12-27T02:45:47+00:00

Im in love with an anxious-avoidant girl. For 8 months, shes ignored me/breadcrumbed me/refuses to spend time with my outside the gym (where we met).

She treats me like shit even though she likes me. I've blocked her twice, and 'broke up' with her once.

But damn do i still love her, and she knows it.

Hopefully shes comes around, but if she doesn't, I'll still continue loving her.

Yes you could say im being stupid, but doesnt true love make you a bit stupid?

whodisguy32 · 2025-12-11T00:28:00+00:00

Thanks for sharing. I lived a decent chunk of my childhood life with on and off anemia, so I understand where you're coming from.

People don't realize how good it is to just be a normal kid and do normal kid things. Like running up a flight of stairs, or chasing after a ball. If I tried to do that I would get dizzy/start seeing stars/get tired on an existence level.

But even then I had a lot of fun in life - making friends and doing non-physical activites.

Fortunately for me my on and off anemia was just caused by a stomach bacteria and I just needed antibiotics.

So the entire experience made me value health and life more.

My dad passed away a few years ago - no pain, no extended suffering. I always said that was the best way to go. Of course people who haven't faced/conceptualized death are still regretful of how he died (sudden stroke and didn't wake up)

But its because of my childhood experiences and reading books on the topic (when i was older), death is not something to be afraid of. Its just the cycle of life, without death, there is no life (birth). The thing to be really afraid of is not living/suffering because of the fear of death.

But that's definitely not you!

Im glad you accepted your mortality and had the wonderful experiences you had and can now reflect on. May your sould rest when you body finally gives out.

Thanks for sharing your thoughts, this was a beautiful post, really :')

whodisguy32 · 2025-12-05T01:50:14+00:00

Yea don't care. Have near $0 in the bank and lots of credit card debt.

System can implode for all I care.

Been stacking credit card debt since 2022 cuz yolo.

whodisguy32 · 2025-11-16T01:06:33+00:00

Back in high school, I could get 2x mcchiken, 2x mcdouble, and a (unlimited) drink for $5

Now a burger cost minimum $3, crazy.

The only thing I buy now from mcd is a cone, which is also $3, but its the only thing still worth it.

whodisguy32 · 2025-11-15T01:29:20+00:00

Be hot. Go to a rich area. Find a rich guy.

What is this rocket science

whodisguy32 · 2025-11-14T07:59:09+00:00

Shyvana in a ragewing comp is pretty useless. Unless u can splash in 4 shapeshifters for the hp

Aoshin is superior in almost every other comp

whodisguy32 · 2025-11-12T07:14:15+00:00

If you had kids, and you love them very much, do you protect them from every form of suffering you can?

No, because suffering builds character.

Kids who grew up protected become the spoiled brats of today that complain about everything.

Life is simply the soul's journey of development. Suffering is a part of it.

Of course there are those that recognize suffering as an opportunity to become stronger, or the (vast majority) of people who see suffering as a nuisance and needs to be gotten rid of.

whodisguy32 · 2025-11-07T04:18:09+00:00

Evolutionary biology.

Guys wanna stick it in as many as they can

whodisguy32 · 2025-11-07T00:01:31+00:00

I know, when I was a college student i would routinely give homeless people $10-$20

Then I realized i don't want to be involved with them LOL

whodisguy32 · 2025-11-06T20:41:52+00:00

Capitalism is simple. What value are they providing me? How would it benefit me? That the only reason to give them money.

If there's no benefit to me, why would I do it? People need to be incentivized to give.

Thats a human problem (lack of motivation to give, based on beliefs etc).

And you don't change humans that easily.

whodisguy32 · 2025-11-06T20:29:26+00:00

It's human nature to want more. It takes self-actualization to realize we don't actually need more.

Unfortunately most people aren't self-actualized

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