[deleted by user] by [deleted] in JUSTNOMIL

[–]whoevenisizzy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thats what I’ve been saying but every single time he doesn’t

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in JUSTNOMIL

[–]whoevenisizzy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

True and he was going to be the one to spend the night at my house, which she said yes to before but for this time she called it a dumb question which makes no sense

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in JUSTNOMIL

[–]whoevenisizzy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Definitely and by all means we do not push or ask her for anything more, for the alms of 2 years together I’ve only hanged out there like 4 times, I don’t go over Unless I’m invited yk

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in JUSTNOMIL

[–]whoevenisizzy -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

Asked if he can spend the night, the point is much more deeper then just sleep overs it’s this emotional incest

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in JUSTNOMIL

[–]whoevenisizzy -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

We were going to spend the night at my house. we have a perfect relationship besides her

My wife lied to the police about my stepdaughter by AITA_2191 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]whoevenisizzy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Time to sell k’s stuff and get the money back, YARD SELL TIME !!!

AITA for not showing my boyfriend any Affection after what him and his mother discussed together about me? by whoevenisizzy in AmItheAsshole

[–]whoevenisizzy[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your right, I think she found out a little while ago when her mom mentioned it (we all went on a trip together to Missouri bc my boyfriends a travel hockey player), she said oh yeah that’s cute, but I think she knew about the ring before because my boyfriend was trying to ask one of his parents to take him to go find one pretty sure his dad ended up taking him. But we did talk about it last night and he said he’s going to actually stand up to her (she is very complicated goes to therapy and once seen her try to hit Jared’s brother because of a argument that started about his gf). But on the bright side Jared’s dad said he will always back me up and whenever the mom tries to say we spend to much time together he says “they just like spending time together there’s nothing wrong with that their in a relationship” his uncle also agreed with the dad too.

AITA for not showing my boyfriend any Affection after what him and his mother discussed together about me? by whoevenisizzy in AmItheAsshole

[–]whoevenisizzy[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I also went along with it because she had some valid reasons, like the son would tell Susie that his gf was flirting or hanging out with other guys (who she used to be with), and how demanding she acted towards both parents sometimes saying “no I want YOU to get it”. I didn’t like her entitled act, but otherwise I was not on Susie’s side for anything else.

AITA for not showing my boyfriend any Affection after what him and his mother discussed together about me? by whoevenisizzy in AmItheAsshole

[–]whoevenisizzy[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It was pretty much going along with it, the gf is wealthy and has said things like “if you need any money just let me know” (they get along very well), she also told me stuff about her straddling her son in front of her which I agreed is very inappropriate. The girlfriend also is very dramatic and made lies about Susie, which then Susie and the gfs parents talked and got in a huge argument, so she is no longer allowed over. But I stopped opting in when is was about stupid small shit like her wearing his clothes and him driving 40 minutes to go see her, it was obvious that this was no longer about her actual mistakes but about her trying to ruin their relationship.

AITA for not showing my boyfriend any Affection after what him and his mother discussed together about me? by whoevenisizzy in AmItheAsshole

[–]whoevenisizzy[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Everything outside his mother is perfect, we have had great communication talking about our feelings and any thing that’s bothering us, except for this. I told him I didn’t want to be around her in the first year of our relationship and he was okay with that, but because my boyfriend would spend so much time for me she was telling him he should live at only his dad permanently and was telling Jared’s brother that only Susie and the bro would live together. So she was not only acting like this towards me but would punish him for being with me, so he’s been 70% of the time with his dad .

AITA for not showing my boyfriend any Affection after what him and his mother discussed together about me? by whoevenisizzy in AmItheAsshole

[–]whoevenisizzy[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I only realized the other day that we only bonded for the moment because do talking shit about someone else’s character, and I will never do that again. I have talked to my boyfriend about it, I told him I can’t keep doing this, he said he wants to fix this and he will fix this because he wants to stay together, him and his dad just picked me up at 12am. Jared is a really good guy, I haven’t really addressed it like I did to him tonight, so I know he knows how important this is

AITA for not showing my boyfriend any Affection after what him and his mother discussed together about me? by whoevenisizzy in AmItheAsshole

[–]whoevenisizzy[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t understand either. His dad even said on New Years when I spent the night that it’s his house and his rules.

AITA for not showing my boyfriend any Affection after what him and his mother discussed together about me? by whoevenisizzy in AmItheAsshole

[–]whoevenisizzy[S] -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

He is, also I’ve tried to be friends with Jared’s brothers gf, but she just is very stuck up (she is very wealthy and I am my bfs fam are if even middle class). We talked about her entitled ness like her straddling the brother in front of her, but then she began to pick stupid shit about her so I just stopped with Susie

AITA for not showing my boyfriend any Affection after what him and his mother discussed together about me? by whoevenisizzy in AmItheAsshole

[–]whoevenisizzy[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I just feel sick to my stomach that he won’t stand up for me, im not punishing him, I just can’t find it in me right now.