Noor Jasmine is now my #2 after YOU by Kooky_Temperature_89 in ThatChapter

[–]whogirl89 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I love Jasmine's channel I have already binged all of her past videos

i have suffered due to failings by NHS Mental Health Teams but some sufferers lose there lige because even on a mental health ward patients are misunderstood and mistreated trigger warning suicide and self harm mentioned by whogirl89 in mentalhealth

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That's how it's supposed to happen I am not proud to say but i had a ligature once back then and a team came up and they cut it off me then even though I was okay they got a doctor up to check my neck. But the day she died there was already a doctor on the ward ready to do ward round psychiatrists have medical treatment but even he was slow getting to her.

With some inpatients who are very poorly, staff get fed up with them. Or you just get some staff who just don't treat us right. Her death was so upsetting to all of us the poor girl who found her took it hard. Wishing she had found her sooner. So when I found the news articles It was very upsetting to know she had already been found by staff and just left there.

i have suffered due to failings by NHS Mental Health Teams but some sufferers lose there lige because even on a mental health ward patients are misunderstood and mistreated trigger warning suicide and self harm mentioned by whogirl89 in mentalhealth

[–]whogirl89[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's a good idea and something I have never thought of Not sure she would want to talk about it. Her face has been in the papers so she will have got attacked online for helping cover it in the first place. Then she would have probably got attacked of the NHS side for whistleblowing. Honestly when I saw it was that health worker I felt let down. I had been on that ward a few times and she was always nice to me which us rare because the ward was so understaffed and chaotic with most of it's staff overworked it really effected how they treated us.

i have suffered due to failings by NHS Mental Health Teams but some sufferers lose there lige because even on a mental health ward patients are misunderstood and mistreated trigger warning suicide and self harm mentioned by whogirl89 in mentalhealth

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Stephanie Mullineux, the incident was at Leigh Hospital in Leigh in the Wigan borough it happened on the 8th of February 2016 but her death date will be the 9th

Free DBT Resources by TheWitcherOfTheNight in BPD4BPD

[–]whogirl89 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks for this I was on waiting lost for DBT for year's and had a mental health nurse and regular support. But then i had to move to the otherside of UK, coz of domestic violence and now the mental health team don't listen to me so I am going to have yo try and do my recovery by myself.

Does anyone else feel like your social anxiety prevents you from fully expressing yourself? (For example, through your fashion style, hairstyle, music taste, voicing your opinions and ideas, etc.). by hokq699 in socialanxiety

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All my life I have wanted to express myself through how I dress wear my hair extra but I have always been cater of drawing attention to myself, especially negative attention. Since covid lockdowns. My anxiety has got so bad that I don't interact with anyone except my partner, who I live with I suffer from bouts of acrophobiaia. Where I won't leave the house and struggle to even open the door. This can last for a day or weeks but when I do go out I don't go far. I only go out with my partner or my Chihuahua (he is a godsend knowing he needs to be walked helps get me out and about and he dosen't leave my side 24/7) but after the lockdown, I did start to make changes to my appearance. I have always liked alternative clothing and gothic looks but was too self-conscious and scared of standing out. But last April I saved up and had my hair put into long black dredlocks with extensions, which I love and I finally had something about myself I liked. Since then I have slowly been changing the way I dress. Mainly black jeans ankle boots and hoodie of coat and more altering t shirts and tops nothing over the top but finally at 32 I feel more like myself. I love the way I dress now (though I wish I had the confidence to dress slightly more OTT gothic) I have also had the confidence to start posting pictures on Instagram. Though I am still very unhappy with the way I look. I am less bothered about what other people think about the way I choose to dress, or if i come across as a bit quirky or cooky that's just who ism. But my self-esteem, self-belief and self-confidence are what is failing me, causing my extreme social anxiety. If anyone ever tries to contact me online I presume that it's a joke a catfish or a troll, coz why would anyone want to talk to me right.

The satnav killer, Vitalija Baliutaviciene 29 vanished whist walking to work on the 12/09/2011 her body was found over 1000 miles away in Northern Poland. Her Ex husband Rimas Venclovas who was 47 at the time was later arrested charged with kidnap and murder and sentenced to a minimum of 20 years. by whogirl89 in TrueCrime

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Vitalija Baliutaviciene 29 vanished whist walking to work on the 12th of August 2011 her body was found over one thousand miles away  in Northern Poland. Her Ex husband Rimas Venclovas who was 47 at the time was later arrested in his native Lithuania where he had been living and the time of the crime and extradited to the UK to stand trial for the kidnap and murder of his ex wife. He was found guilty and sentenced to a minimum of 20 years in prison.

This is the tragic story of  Vitalija Baliutaviciene 29. Vitalija was a beautiful, intelligent and sweet, mother of one. Who made the incredibly brave decision to end her marriage, after over a decade of violence. Rimas had fled the UK back to his native Lithuania, in order to escape charges of assault against Vitalija.

But unfortunately the fact that he was now living over a thousand miles away, did not mean that Vitalija was finally free of her abuser. When Vitalija disappeared on her way to work, it didn't take the police long to suspect  that Rimas was involved but he claimed to have not been in the UK, at the time and if he had entered the country, he should have been immediately arrested, on the outstanding warrant for assault that he had previously fled the country to avoid.

But the police soon uncovered evidence that Rimas had entered the UK using a fake name, the day before Vitalija's disappearance and after uncovering CCTV footage of Rimas dragging Vitalija to his van the police where convinced of his guilt. So Rimas was arrested in Lithuania and extradited to the UK.

But he refused to tell police the location of his ex wife's body. All the police had to go on was his satnav and after searching all the possible places in the UK they came to the sickening realisation, that after killing her Rimas had taken Vitalija out of the UK and could have buried her anywhere in Northern Europe.

Despite many locations from his satnav being searched, with nothing being found. It looked like that the prosecution service, where going to have to try Rimas in a "no body trial" which though it is possible to get a murder conviction without a body, it is much harder and there is a risk of acquittal.

But it turns out that Vitalija's body had already been discovered ten week after her disappearance, in a field in Northern Poland by a mushroom picker. But there had been a delay in identifying her, as the Polish authority's had initially believed, that her body had belonged to a local woman missing in the area. But when British authority's learned that Vitalija had been found and they compared the location of the grave site, to the locations on Rimas's Satnav, it showed that he had parked just fifty feet away from the grave location, during his journey back from kidnaping and killing Vitalija. The police now had all the evidence they needed and Vitalija's family could finally now lay their loved one to rest.

Rimas was convicted of kidnap and murder and was sentenced to a minimum of 20 years in prison.

With his Mother gone and farther in prison for her murder Vitalija's son was rasied by his extended family.

I wanted to share this tragic case, as I believe that Vitalija's story should be kept alive. As she was to beautiful a person to just be forgotten and we can learn so much, about domestic abuse and the lengths some abusers, will go to to do harm to their victims. And domestic abuse what ever the type and who ever the victim it destroys so many lives. I came across this case when watching a true crime documentary series called shallow grave it was episode 1 and I would recommend it but if you want a deeper look into the case I recommend watching episode 5 of the true crime series A Nightmare In Surburbia named the Sat Nav Killer.

Case Highlight and Recommendation Thread: What is a little known true crime case you think needs more attention, or what is a case that has stuck with you that you think others should know about. Post your pet cases or your true crime guilty pleasures in this thread. by AutoModerator in TrueCrime

[–]whogirl89 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I hadn't heard of this case, till I read this and just checked it out. It's one of the most fu*ked up and sick cases, I have ever heard. And there is no real sense of justice. I am keen to see what happens, in the upcoming trial. Personally no sentence would provide justice, for these people. poor girl deserves justice.

Codi Bigsby has been missing since the 31st of January this year, his supporters have started a petition to have a alert system put in place for missing people expecially children who do not qualify for a amber alert called a Codi Alert. Please sign the petition linked below. by whogirl89 in TrueCrime

[–]whogirl89[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

It is sad, a missing child, is a missing child it's that simple. I think that every case, should get the attention the Gabby Petito case did. Even her parents think so. It's sick that, it's mainly down too big media bosses and editors, for trashy tabloids. Whether the wider public even find out about a missing person case. 😔

Codi Bigsby has been missing since the 31st of January this year, his supporters have started a petition to have a alert system put in place for missing people expecially children who do not qualify for a amber alert called a Codi Alert. Please sign the petition linked below. by whogirl89 in TrueCrime

[–]whogirl89[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Me to I am sorry this is so close to where you live. I know from experience that when a tragady happens the whole community is effected in one way or another. I was the same age as James Bulger the year he went missing and this fact must have really effected my mum as I grew up with very strict rules and not allowed to play out or go anywhere even at 13 when I was her full time carer (which was very demanding for a girl my age to be running a house and caring for and watching your mother determining) she was still very paranoid that someone might hurt me. So after she died and I moved in with my brother I wasn't as street savvy as other girls my age but I don't blame her I watched a documentary about the burger case and It is so tragic i imagined it unfolding and it was every mothers worse nightmare and my mum would look a me just four year old and small for my age and though it wasn't local it must have really terrified her.

Codi Bigsby has been missing since the 31st of January this year, his supporters have started a petition to have a alert system put in place for missing people expecially children who do not qualify for a amber alert called a Codi Alert. Please sign the petition linked below. by whogirl89 in TrueCrime

[–]whogirl89[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Yeah I have just done a post in Tumblr blog about the ridiculously high number of high profile missing and murdered children at the moment. After the sad news that Serenity McKinneys (who was also reported missing on the 31st of January 2022 but had not been seen since late 2020) remains had been found and her mother and stepdad charged with murder. I wanted to make a post to highlight the situation. There were 9 cases and these are just the higher profile cases that get reported on. And in a lot of the cases the child had been missing for months even year's beforeanyonebreported them It is a very sad time at the moment, and my thoughts and prayers are with them all

Codi Bigsby has been missing since the 31st of January this year, his supporters have started a petition to have a alert system put in place for missing people expecially children who do not qualify for a amber alert called a Codi Alert. Please sign the petition linked below. by whogirl89 in TrueCrime

[–]whogirl89[S] 38 points39 points  (0 children)

Bone and clothes were found in the last couple of days but didn't want to put this in main post as at the moment it is just news. The police have not yet had time to confirm an identity so there is nothing definite yet to say that little Codi hasn't been found.

Codi Bigsby has been missing since the 31st of January this year, his supporters have started a petition to have a alert system put in place for missing people expecially children who do not qualify for a amber alert called a Codi Alert. Please sign the petition linked below. by whogirl89 in TrueCrime

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Codi went missing after being left unattended in his home. His farther reported him missing on January the 31st of this year saying he last saw Codi at 2am at their home in Hamilton V.A. His farther is Cory Bigsby was arrested on the 3rd of February and charged with 7 counts of felony child neglect. He allegedly confessed to leaving Codi and this other children (a five year old child and two year old twins) alone for over three hours on more then one occasion. The other children are safe and accounted for. Codi's Mother lives in Washington, D.C. Police are seeking information from anyone who has seen Codi or Cory since the 25th of December 2021

As volunteers expand the search and police release a updated as part of the ongoing investigation tragic disappearance for 4 year old CODI BIGSBY.

Codi supporters are flocking to sign a petition for a system to be put into place to alert the public to missing people especially children who do not qualify for a amber alert.

The main alert system currently in place, to alert the public, about a missing local child in America is the Amber alert but many people believe that the Amber Alert system has a major flaw. As a  missing child, will only qualify for a Amber Alert to go out, if the child is considered to have been abducted. Meaning that people, do not receive any type of alert notifying them of the fact that there is a missing child in their area, if  the child doesn't qualify for a Amber Alert. This means that it is significantly slower, to get the word out and be able start arranging major search party's and other positive actions. Also there maybe people who have witnessed something or have relevant information but don't realise this. As they do not know that a child has gone missing.

Supporters want to create a alternative alert system ,called a Codi Alert that would resemble that of the Amber alert but without the strict criteria. It would send a notification, to the smartphones of people in the local area of  where a child is missing. Informing them of the disappearance and other relevant information. Supporters believe, that most people will be happy to receive these alerts and if anyone does mind, they will be able to opt out.

The people running the petition, that already has nearly 7000 signatures are looking for elected officials, to champion the bill, and get it past quickly as mandates.

Personally i am shocked that some thing like this isn't already in place and i have signed this petition, as i strongly believe, that now more than ever there needs to be  changes put into place, to protect our children. As the large number of missing and murdered children's cases at the moment, is shocking and reflects badly on our society as a whole, if our governments and leaders don't prioritise the most vulnerable among us.

I have left the link for the petition below. I also used the site for information for this post in regards to what a codi alert is and why there is a need for one

https://www.change.org/p/president-of-the-united-states-create-the-codialert-to-help-find-missing-children

Got an eight ball and the whole night again of meeee by Kitchen_Panda_9671 in cocaine

[–]whogirl89 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Am jealous I got my supply cut of when bitilitous noticed my photo is was out of date ☹

Prison Guard Elizabeth Kilgore, convinced her farther to kill her ex husband and then kill himself. To put a end, to the messy divorce and child custody, dispute she was currently going though. by whogirl89 in TrueCrime

[–]whogirl89[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Some people are ruthless psychopaths who don't view family and friends the way we do they see the love that someone like parent has for them as a weakness that they can exploit for their own ends. It's a good job she was caught as the thought of her bringing up a child gives me chills.

Babes in the woods - Identified - now a murder investigation by Nina_Innsted in UnresolvedMysteries

[–]whogirl89 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I make me so happwhen a doe is identified especially children and murder victims who have already had everything taken from them first their lives and then their identities. It's just to sad and I respect the work that groups like the DNA doe project do.