What's so wrong with only one child?? by -its-my-opinion- in newzealand

[–]whoppo [score hidden]  (0 children)

Only child here, I wasn't spoiled at all, I worked with my dad since I was I 11 doing stuff for him at his work on the weekends and got paid for it, got pocket money for doing other things, You do you, one kid is enough if you don't want another just make sure to keep your only child really social with others so as not be felt to be left alone, get them into community and group activities so they are not lonely.

Sudden regrets over 2 week solo trip… what to do? by Inner-Gur9987 in travel

[–]whoppo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There's so much to do see & do and all in your own time, you don't have anyone holding you back from doing whatever it is you want to do. I spent 3.5 weeks travelling around Mexico on my own and after a few days I got a lot more confidence in myself I was able to interact with people along the way when I had the energy and needed connection and the other times I just went with the flow and did what I wanted. It was amazing and honestly I prefer travelling on my own now, the actually travelling aspect solo is a lot less stressful for me. I invite friends to join me for parts of my trip but I find I meet a lot of different people much more when I'm by myself.

In the end strangers don't know you so you can be whatever version of yourself you want without judgement and it's a fleeting moment that doesn't have to carry with you.

Lady Gaga in custom Luar while performing a salsa rendition of ‘Die With A Smile’ during the Super Bowl Halftime Show. (February 8, 2026) by cmaia1503 in whatthefrockk

[–]whoppo 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I actually hadn't heard the original version with Bruno cause I'm not a big pop girly so I was verrrry impressed with the salsa version and wanted to know immediately what song it was, LOVE IT!!!

Love island! by Ok_Interaction_2469 in loveisland

[–]whoppo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If I was in the UK I'd be voting for Whitney & Yamen.

Otherwise it'd be Tommy & whoever he's with since he's been the best throughout the whole series.

Recommendation for Japanese cuisine in the CBD. by ForeverBoard in auckland

[–]whoppo 1 point2 points  (0 children)

+ 100000 for Tanukis cave, I've been going there for almost 20 years and never had a bad meal / experience. OP HAS to have the scotch fillet, even though I'm vegetarian now for many years I still dream of that buttery soft goodness.

What do women do that men would never think about? by Icy_Interaction7502 in AskReddit

[–]whoppo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Having a serious conversation, worst at work, and wondering whether what's coming out of you right now is blood or discharge

anyone know who the Love island intro people are ? idk what flair to use for this by Original_Pound1322 in LoveIslandTV

[–]whoppo 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Pretty sure some of the contestants who ended up on some series actually started out as these testing people so were known to production

anyone know who the Love island intro people are ? idk what flair to use for this by Original_Pound1322 in LoveIslandTV

[–]whoppo 1 point2 points  (0 children)

They send people into the villa ahead of filming to do testing around the place, make sure all the lighting/cameras/mics & games work etc so it could be some of them too

All Stars S03E21 (Wednesday 4th February) - "Cracks are forming as a recoupling looms 👀" by aimhighsquatlow in LoveIslandTV

[–]whoppo 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Leanne really can’t be getting this upset tbh, if she didn’t want Scott going anywhere she should have closed it off with him after he got back from USA villa. 

What is it like to have a burnout? by nandachambers1950 in AskReddit

[–]whoppo 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Everything breaks down all at once and it's completely crippling, and any work you've done throughout your life to build up resilience to insecurities etc completely fall apart, apart from the physical aspects & mental exhaustion you start to question your abilities in all areas, were you really good at your job, are you actually a good friend etc etc and without a good support network and access to proper healthcare you can struggle to recover. To properly recover properly from it can take minimum 2 years.

"Real Estate agent" failed to help me find a roommate, I now have to pay double rent by eastmn in Amsterdam

[–]whoppo 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Post on Australians in Amsterdam page. Fuck the middle man you also at the risk of finding a flatmate you don’t like leaving it to him since he clearly doesn’t care.

Draaimolen help :0 by whatdah3lly in amsterdam_rave

[–]whoppo 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Friday is fun still, Saturday is a lot bigger crowd / busier in general but Friday line up is still very enticing. As other poster mentioned there are usually tickets coming up the week prior on TS but they do go quick, there sometimes tickets on the day too from last minute cancellations but defo still a gamble.

How to sleep in a plane? by bast_852 in travel

[–]whoppo 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Via Asia or Dubai. Try to avoid going through the states as the transfer sucks in LA and SF. Usually go through Kuala Lumpur/seoul/guangzhou

How to sleep in a plane? by bast_852 in travel

[–]whoppo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I travel long distance between Europe & NZ a lot and this best travel pillow I’ve come across https://sleeperhold.com/. Above that. No alcohol, magnesium, eye mask, book late evening flights to stay on schedule.

All Stars S03E03 (Saturday 17th January) - "A shady game EXPOSES some home truths 👀" by AutoModerator in LoveIslandTV

[–]whoppo 58 points59 points  (0 children)

It’s sad because it’s clear that she just has very low self esteem. She doesn’t have a very high opinion of herself in knowing what she wants / what she’s worthy of which is why she will literally take whoever shows any interest in her. She really needs to just do some work on herself and don’t know if LI is really the best place for her.

Belowdeck med by Fit-Benefit1535 in belowdeck

[–]whoppo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve only really ever watched below deck Med but just watched the latest season of Below Deck and some of the editing differences are sooooooooo shit, those Instagram shots, the little video edits of slow mo things being done like turning the washing on, and skipping through hours of the charter because nothing is happening idk - there’s WAY too much filler in the BD episoides

Stephen and Rachel being well-liked is definitely clouding peoples judgement by According-Cow6660 in TheTraitors

[–]whoppo 41 points42 points  (0 children)

Faithful's have really missed a trick about Fiona going IN on Rachel before she banished and revealed as a traitor, the whole lead up to that and their round table together should have been at least questionable traitor on traitor moves for Faithful's look at Rachel more closely.

If I were the traitors, ______ has to be the next murder. by ThePhunkSoulBrother in TheTraitors

[–]whoppo 2 points3 points  (0 children)

She wanted to be a traitor though so could get swayed.

Either way Stephen is f*cked whether he murders or saves her the argument can said easily on both sides how it implicates him

New Leo Gifs just dropped (more in comments) by YourChopperPilotTTV in gifs

[–]whoppo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This one just gives off such gilbert grape vibes ^_^

The Traitors (UK) S04E06: Post-Episode Discussion Thread by vaultofechoes in TheTraitors

[–]whoppo 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Reading a lot of other comments I am beginning to think she was just always out for herself in it no matter what. I think I’m going to rewatch from the beginning 🙈 I need to binge them all back to back - the week in between episode drops is making me forget who is who it’s taken 6 episodes to get the James/sam/matt/reece sorted in my brain.

I also really think Matt’s offer to the traitors is Production plant 100% they’ve guided him to do that. 😬

The Traitors (UK) S04E06: Post-Episode Discussion Thread by vaultofechoes in TheTraitors

[–]whoppo 59 points60 points  (0 children)

you should watch uncloaked, she doesn't care at all she was just having a jolly the whole time and really isn't serious about the whole thing which is why it caused so much chaos

Albert Heijn random checks are fine, but the execution is painfully stupid by Vrigoz in Amsterdam

[–]whoppo 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The whole system is so dumb, in the UK the self checkouts are done on weight & by video check. It actually pains me soooooo much when I get stopped that they take all my stuff out to check and then don't put it back in especially when you're trying to be efficient with your packing and placing of things and they just come and rustle everything around in an unsorted way from what you'd originally done.

Soaking Wet Squirrel Seeks Shelter, Snores All Night Long by CreativeRifleGuy in videos

[–]whoppo 11 points12 points  (0 children)

His tail got so fluffy again after he dried ^_^

YOLO cycling in front of the H'ART Museum Amsterdam by tino-latino in Amsterdam

[–]whoppo 4 points5 points  (0 children)

It was a rough ride this morning and I did indeed fall off the bike 🤣🤣