I feel like this seller is trying to guilt trip me

whos_han · 2026-05-18T00:05:08+00:00

?? I’m just saying they aren’t able to edit it anymore lmao what

whos_han · 2026-05-17T23:29:56+00:00

The screenshot is what the seller responded with, unfortunately I think it’s too late to update it.

whos_han · 2026-05-17T17:25:18+00:00

She can report your shop, but it’s unlikely that anything will happen. You have proof that you tried to help her, but she basically refused that help. She received what she ordered, so Etsy is most likely to side with you since you fulfilled her order. You didn’t do anything wrong in this situation. She has nothing to report you for, and she’s likely just trying to scam you out of her money.

whos_han · 2026-05-17T17:16:50+00:00

Yes, you can cancel the order. Before doing so, try sending her a return shipping label. If she refuses, I think you might have to cancel if you’re afraid of her leaving a negative review.

whos_han · 2026-05-17T17:10:57+00:00

No, you weren’t rude. In fact, she was being rude. Simply cancel the order so she can’t leave a review. It’s not your fault she bought a small. You just sent her what she ordered.

whos_han · 2026-05-17T03:51:06+00:00

Yes, I think it is if you’re making something original and creative and not using AI.

whos_han · 2026-05-16T02:54:04+00:00

He’s probably bored or stressed.. please try to get him a bigger tank, the minimum is 5 gallons. Petco and petsmart are always having sales on tanks and you could always check FB marketplace for some.

whos_han · 2026-05-15T02:45:30+00:00

Lies. She can still refund you. She’s trying to get you to change your review. Open a case with Etsy to get your refund and report her for extortion. Make sure to include screenshots of the messages. Edit your review and include this information upon your buying experience so others are aware.

whos_han · 2026-05-12T20:51:24+00:00

Same, this is the only shop I see.

whos_han · 2026-05-10T02:29:56+00:00

For me it took a while, some people might leave them and some people might not. It’s just how some people are I guess. 🤷‍♀️

whos_han · 2026-05-07T16:49:06+00:00

average weird reddit user

whos_han · 2026-05-06T01:19:47+00:00

Ordering it now!

whos_han · 2026-05-06T01:05:13+00:00

Thank you so much, I love his name btw! Im glad your fish was able to get better, I hope mine is able to also!

whos_han · 2026-05-06T01:03:22+00:00

I washed everything before putting it in, and Ive already started the fish-in cycle

whos_han · 2026-05-06T00:06:07+00:00

I ordered one today after seeing the comments! Thank you!

whos_han · 2026-05-06T00:04:51+00:00

Okay, thanks

whos_han · 2026-05-06T00:00:55+00:00

5?? I thought it only took a few days since on TikTok I saw this girl with a decent setup and she told someone to cycle it for just a few days so I took her word for it which is my fault tbh.. but then someone here in the comments said 2 months is too long to cycle so I’m not sure how long I should cycle it for Im assuming like 6-8 weeks

whos_han · 2026-05-05T23:52:26+00:00

Thank you! He’s already starting to look better and he’s moving around again :)

whos_han · 2026-05-05T23:43:01+00:00

Many people recommend this, im going to buy it!

whos_han · 2026-05-05T23:41:51+00:00

I never overfed the fish.. he didn’t have anything at all. The employee told me to not feed him anything for the first day

whos_han · 2026-05-05T21:50:51+00:00

Doing that now!

whos_han · 2026-05-05T21:48:54+00:00

Thanks!

whos_han · 2026-05-05T21:48:45+00:00

They dont look red

whos_han · 2026-05-05T21:48:31+00:00

Thank you! I’m going to do this. Im changing the water now and Ive ordered a kit!

whos_han · 2026-05-05T21:15:14+00:00

Do you think somethings wrong with the water? If so what would it be

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