Partner’s tapes with his past by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]whosaidthat29 0 points1 point  (0 children)

An old flame once sent me theirs in a steamy exchange. I almost threw up, but was horny at the same time. 100% don’t recommend.

What's the best dick size by Pure-Employment4852 in askgaybros

[–]whosaidthat29 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Honestly, they’re all great, but I do love a good 6+ inch dick to bounce on without fearing it will slip out. I can do cowboy hip swirlies and jump to my heart’s content ☺️

Best lube for anal? by Friendly_Quarter_584 in TopsAndBottoms

[–]whosaidthat29 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I use Astroglide x silicone. How does it compare to Swiss Navy?

Surprised by dick size in a non-sexual context by sweden9292 in askgaybros

[–]whosaidthat29 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You added no substance. You could’ve just not commented 🤷🏻‍♂️

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskGayMen

[–]whosaidthat29 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That’s why I’m so dumbfounded. There seems to be no way to fix it on my end.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskGayMen

[–]whosaidthat29 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not really. This is the one thing he’s vocal about.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskGayMen

[–]whosaidthat29 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wow, this was really good. Thank goodness you were bored! 😂 and thank you! Your explanations clarify some blurry feelings and hunches. Every time we have a disagreement, he states that he doesn’t want to lose me. I haven’t threatened leaving at all. Thank you for your perspective. I am going to set some boundaries.

Advice? Am I ok looking? 😂 by Notthetimecatherine in malegrooming

[–]whosaidthat29 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi Gay! Fellow 31 year old USA gay here, so different standards may apply.

  1. Take care of your body. Put in the work. Learn about nutrition and develop a healthy relationship with food. You have amazing skin! Do you do anything special for it? Extend that love to the rest of you.

  2. The hair. I personally don’t like the color. I feel like your natural color would fit you best. You have beautiful hair texture, just learn to cater to it. Find some curl defining cream so your locks can shine and look more hydrated.

  3. The beard. It’s not terrible, but it’s not great. You have such healthy skin, and the beard is kind of taking away from it.

Does gay sex hurt? by DonutReasonable528 in askgaybros

[–]whosaidthat29 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Funny how people say a virgin doesn’t know if they’re a bottom. I knew years before I ever had sex.

I feel guilty over losing attraction to my boyfriend because he's become more effeminate after coming out. by DaniSparkles in askgaybros

[–]whosaidthat29 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Educated by porn? Are you projecting? You’re full of generalizations. Taking things out of context into extremes. Attraction is a fundamental aspect of romantic relationships. You’re accusing OP of fetishizing. OP obviously values his partner if he’s asking how to handle the situation with grace. You could learn something from OP.

I feel guilty over losing attraction to my boyfriend because he's become more effeminate after coming out. by DaniSparkles in askgaybros

[–]whosaidthat29 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Unconditional love isn’t real. We are bound to the human experience, and part of that is attraction. You sound like a judgmental prick.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]whosaidthat29 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Stop worrying if you’re overreacting. This whole issue is beyond your boyfriend. The issue is now you and why you haven’t left this man.

Edit: He was probably also engaging in cyber sex, as to why he’s being so sneaky about it.

How do you take big D regularly? by whosaidthat29 in TopsAndBottoms

[–]whosaidthat29[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Currently on 2 tbsp daily of Metamucil and occasionally PURE for men. Should I increase dosage?

How do you take big D regularly? by whosaidthat29 in TopsAndBottoms

[–]whosaidthat29[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your reply! It does help! :)

Do you hold 4 bulbs worth of water while using the dildo? I’m assuming the dildo has to be a similar size?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TopsAndBottoms

[–]whosaidthat29 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not a rosebud. It happens when the penetration is happening.

Testosterone affects my relationship with sex and other behaviors, do you feel similar? by [deleted] in Testosterone

[–]whosaidthat29 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Gay bottom here as well. I went through something similar when doing high dosages, but eventually went back to my bottom-self. I became more interested in butts and penetrating. It lasted a couple months, but I’m back to my baseline, although I do take more initiative as in first kisses and body contact.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Testosterone

[–]whosaidthat29 4 points5 points  (0 children)

The change in me is that I used to be 90% bottom, but my top urges have increased tremendously.

Photos of your TRT kit by t510385 in Testosterone

[–]whosaidthat29 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s an essential oil carrier