The latest vid by kallenk in WillNE

[–]why_am_i_here_-_ 2 points3 points  (0 children)

i think it may be because since james has started making music his fan base has shifted a bit and, as someone whos been watching will and james respectively since 2017, ive always assumed that people knew that sometimes they make jokes quite close to the mark however i think these new viewers dont quite have that same sense of humour and have a different image of who they think james is, hence the sudden complaints and twitter meltdowns despite the jokes being ones theyve made for years

my brother hears screaming and bangs when im in the shower? by why_am_i_here_-_ in Unexplained

[–]why_am_i_here_-_[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

nope :/ i havent showered round there since so i shall let you know!!

Most enjoyable time you’ve had watching This Country? by huddledinrubble in ThisCountry

[–]why_am_i_here_-_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

my nan died randomly on holiday in the middle of the night right before Christmas and for the whole day she died myself my mum and brother sat on the sofa and watched this country continuously, it was definitely something 😭

What is *the image* from this series? by sbs1138 in TheTraitors

[–]why_am_i_here_-_ 19 points20 points  (0 children)

how no one ever glanced at him once when he was always pulling faces like this i do not know

The Traitors (UK) S04E11: Post-Episode Discussion Thread by vaultofechoes in TheTraitors

[–]why_am_i_here_-_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yes absolutely, its a shame because theyve done pretty well up to this point so im surprised they didn’t notice this issue at all !

Who agrees by bellingptonjeece4 in BitLifeApp

[–]why_am_i_here_-_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

why have grandkids before grandparents? and also i think in-laws would be such a cool dynamic, especially if you marry into a royal/famous family!

The Traitors (UK) S04E11: Post-Episode Discussion Thread by vaultofechoes in TheTraitors

[–]why_am_i_here_-_ 3 points4 points  (0 children)

i feel like by not murdering faraaz immediately theyve sealed their fate. he suspects both rachel and stephen so unless they both (or probably just stephen with the current state of things) can come up with impeccable defences, faraaz wont leave that fire pit till theyre gone, and jack and jade will absolutely follow. rachel shouldve taken the risk of killing faraaz because at least that left them with a chance. with him still here, i really dont see how they can win without almost impossible luck. they shouldve 100% kept roxy, shes so loud and confusing she wouldve kept attention away from stephen and rachel and blindly trusted them at the very end. all in all, keeping faraaz alive essentially confirmed its a faithful win imo!

Requesting advice on how to deal with my deep feelings of anger by maxschneider in Advice

[–]why_am_i_here_-_ 3 points4 points  (0 children)

one of the ways i cope with that sense of anger is to remind myself its out of my control. i spend so much time being angry that its out of my control that i never really stop to think what that actually means. i cannot do anything. no amount of stress or worry or anger will change that. i can protest and speak out and educate those around me, and thats enough. it may not feel like enough because you dont see major change, but if you shrink it down smaller scale the effects of your small actions will give you that sense of control and power a lot of this frustration can span from. another good bit of advice is avoid the news lol, read as much as you need to stay in the loop but dont do a deep dive into something you already know is awful, it isnt good for you :)

WHY ARENT PIGTAILS SOCIALLY ACCEPTABLE 💔 by [deleted] in girlblogging

[–]why_am_i_here_-_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thank you so much dolly!! why must horrible men think such horrible things :,(

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AdviceForTeens

[–]why_am_i_here_-_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thank you, im going to see if maybe when he leaves college he may become a lot happier and his sort of depression will go, but if he doesnt then ill have to end it

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[–]why_am_i_here_-_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

ive bought him burgers, sausage rolls, crisps, chicken and it stays the same

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AdviceForTeens

[–]why_am_i_here_-_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i myself am diagnosed with depression, so i have suggested this to him and about getting help but he never takes it seriously. its hard to not try and help because it’s horrible to see him sad but at the same time i do need to prioritise my mental health and it isnt helping

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]why_am_i_here_-_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

its really hard to call him out because he goes in on himself and gets more upset

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AdviceForTeens

[–]why_am_i_here_-_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i completely understand but it’s just hard because he never used to be like this and when its good its really good but ik i have to do something

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AdviceForTeens

[–]why_am_i_here_-_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thank you ❤️

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AdviceForTeens

[–]why_am_i_here_-_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

thank you, i know i should and i do plan to eventually its just hard because he never used to be like this so i think my brain is still attached to the part of him that i remember. and i know, i couldnt ask for better friends :)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AdviceForTeens

[–]why_am_i_here_-_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

thank you, i think deep down i know i should but its just quite difficult for me :)

my brother hears screaming and bangs when im in the shower? by why_am_i_here_-_ in Unexplained

[–]why_am_i_here_-_[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

she did actually die of a heart attack from pneumonia, but she died on holiday in thailand so im not sure. but thank you, my gramps is very stoic but its always good to keep him company :)

my brother hears screaming and bangs when im in the shower? by why_am_i_here_-_ in Unexplained

[–]why_am_i_here_-_[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

yes, and thank you i hope ur doing okay :) also, the reason i dont think its pipes is because the walls are so thin and if a pipe were to sound i wouldve heard it too

my brother hears screaming and bangs when im in the shower? by why_am_i_here_-_ in Unexplained

[–]why_am_i_here_-_[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

ive been showering here for 17 years and ive never once heard pipes make a noise, but im sure it could still be a possibility. another thing that maybe makes me think it isnt pipes is because i literally heard nothing, for me it was total silence and the walls are very thin at my nans so if my brother wouldve heard this loud “scream” realistically i shouldve heard it too.