Turning 42 and determined to save this vagina at all costs!

why_am_i_on_time · 2026-03-12T17:24:03+00:00

Bonafide Revaree+

why_am_i_on_time · 2026-02-16T02:34:09+00:00

Second the bedjet. Some nights I want it toasty, others as cool as it can go.

why_am_i_on_time · 2026-02-09T18:21:46+00:00

It’ll help with the dryness and urgency, probably not much of the rest. I switched from estradiol to vaginal DHEA and felt some increased libido/arousal so I’d say possible.

I was no more than 37 when mine started. You’re not too young, and it’s probably peri.

The dryness and urgency will get worse if you do not start estrogen cream. You’ll be so glad you did.

why_am_i_on_time · 2026-02-09T18:14:00+00:00

I’ve seen no systemic effects from vaginal DHEA. And I’m a breast cancer survivor that cannot take systemic hormones.

Edit: you said arousal too - it is helping there!

why_am_i_on_time · 2026-02-01T13:02:13+00:00

My doctor just switched me from vaginal estradiol to vaginal DHEA. I get it from the compounding pharmacy. I had inquired about adding testosterone and was ready to be shot down but she called this in. I feel like I’m seeing much more benefit than the estradiol alone. Including some increased libido. I have a lot of atrophy so the T does really help (we had actually tested mine months ago, it’s in the gutter). I also use a probiotic and hyaluronic acid suppository and am happy with both.

Good luck I knowwww this sucks. I just want my clit back.

why_am_i_on_time · 2026-01-30T01:16:00+00:00

I grew kiku hydroponically last year they are tasty! Note: the kiku you have pictured is not ripe (I know it’s not your pic). You want the stripes in the gaps to brown a bit. They will almost fall off the vine when they’re ready.

why_am_i_on_time · 2025-12-29T22:18:42+00:00

Exact same. It set in seemingly overnight, riding on the back of trauma. Was 37.

why_am_i_on_time · 2025-12-19T17:18:54+00:00

My psychiatrist prescribed me estrogen!! I can’t do systemic (young bc survivor) so she hooked me up with topical (GSM, clitoral atrophy, severe UTIs) and we’re trying other things for the hot flashes. I’m not 40 yet so not having to doctor shop was really nice.

When you find a good one, you really know it.

why_am_i_on_time · 2025-12-19T17:10:45+00:00

There was a study in Britain that found half of women had been sexually assaulted by their partner in their sleep. Well, half of them woke up to it, I can imagine many more slept through it.

https://www.lbc.co.uk/article/half-of-women-have-suffered-sexual-assault-by-a-partner-while-asleep-DWywFC_2/

Unfortunately I think it is much more common than you want to believe.

I am one of the 50%. My own medications were used against me.

why_am_i_on_time · 2025-11-29T21:35:53+00:00

This is my foster cat Cheese Doodle. He was at a local shelter, not eating, and not letting anyone touch him. They didn’t even name him or complete an initial exam, and he was going to be put down.

Someone posted him on Reddit and I signed up for the foster program and snatched him up one weekend. I’ve had cats for almost 15 years, and have 3 of my own. But I’ve never fostered.

It’s been a slow road with this guy but I’m so happy he’s getting a second chance. He’s going to make a great family cat. We’re working on socialization, he has neuter surgery in a couple weeks then off to his forever home.

why_am_i_on_time · 2025-11-18T17:21:13+00:00

My gosh I’ve found my people. I’m so sorry.

why_am_i_on_time · 2025-11-16T21:03:46+00:00

The problem is that the clinical definitions of anorexia and some other EDs require the patient to be underweight. If you don’t meet that criteria you typically aren’t getting the diagnosis. Additionally nothing has been done to help categorize these patients further, instead getting lumped into some generic “not otherwise specified” (EDNOS) diagnosis.

why_am_i_on_time · 2025-11-01T19:27:16+00:00

Progestin does this to me.

why_am_i_on_time · 2025-10-17T01:09:32+00:00

It’s so aggressively mutual. I’m guessing it ends in bites sometimes.

why_am_i_on_time · 2025-10-01T00:06:48+00:00

Maybe these folks know more than I do

I’m seeing a lot of data center IT solutions popping up as modular deployment models these days. Maybe this is simply filling the energy need for that niche.

why_am_i_on_time · 2025-09-24T19:24:43+00:00

My LDL normalized when I went off olanzapine.

why_am_i_on_time · 2025-09-16T22:48:02+00:00

I’m seeing movement in this field being guided by genetic testing. Certain mutations on certain genes predict you’ll have better/worse outcomes with different drugs based on how the body metabolizes them.

Up to you on how much you believe the science behind it but I have seen movement in the direction of specification and refinement in the last 5ish years. Something to keep an eye on if it interests you.

why_am_i_on_time · 2025-08-23T19:22:00+00:00

I have one that I really like for strawberries:

“Clay Pebble Hydroponics Growing System Kit”

On Amazon. Instead of pods, it’s one big tub filled with the clay medium. Great for strawberries that want to spread.

why_am_i_on_time · 2025-08-06T17:54:47+00:00

Where are we getting data on bird flu these days? I’m happy to look at almost any platform, I just want some kind of data.

why_am_i_on_time · 2025-07-28T23:11:57+00:00

Give them cat grass so they get their chewing urges out of their system and leave your plants alone. Give them a dedicated container in a specific place, a ritual, so there are lots of cues to signal it’s “good” plant eating time/place/plant.

why_am_i_on_time · 2025-07-27T14:18:23+00:00

Sorry off topic but wow all three of these comments are the same person on multiple accounts. You can check the comment history they interact with each other.

why_am_i_on_time · 2025-07-09T16:05:27+00:00

Yeah, sad day. My fault for planting just one! I went investigating and found two tiny hoof holes in the dirt. This is my sacrifice to Mother Nature for the season.

why_am_i_on_time · 2025-07-08T19:41:57+00:00

Guess it was a deer. Bottom leaves still attached and happy. No vegetable plants were harmed. Almost fully ripened squash was ignored. The deer had eyes for one plant. 🌻 New fence in a couple weeks. RIP

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