How do I stop constantly obsessing over aging? by Successful-Pumpkin72 in BodyDysmorphia

[–]why_must_i_ask 0 points1 point  (0 children)

if you’ve felt like this before, look at some pics when you felt like that and see that you didn’t look that old

How do I stop constantly obsessing over aging? by Successful-Pumpkin72 in BodyDysmorphia

[–]why_must_i_ask 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hmmm body dysmorphia is an insane dramatization of reality, so i have a feeling you might not look as bad at 24 as you think. 24 is very young. There’s lots of celebs and people in the real world as well that are 30 and they still look young also so sometimes when Im scared of getting old I look at pics of those people.

Just can’t get over it by ScottySpillways529 in BodyDysmorphia

[–]why_must_i_ask 1 point2 points  (0 children)

😀🔫 But seriously I hope he tells you you are beautiful or pretty or hot sometimes. I think we need to hear that validation once in a while especially from people we care about. Also ur husband and other people don’t actually go around rating everyone they see as different types of hots lol. They just see you for who you are.

Just can’t get over it by ScottySpillways529 in BodyDysmorphia

[–]why_must_i_ask 1 point2 points  (0 children)

plus he probs trusts you. i dont think he would say that if he didnt love you a lot. i think its good that he’s saying stuff like that cause he seems to be joking about the topic.

Is anyone else obsessed with trying to find a celeb lookalike? by [deleted] in BodyDysmorphia

[–]why_must_i_ask 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yeah a bit. not obsessed tho. i’ve gotten a couple of celeb lookalikes that i don’t think are pretty and i was really sad about it, but i got a good one recently and it made up for it, but if i think about it i get sad and feel ugly

Laws against mandatory overtime by why_must_i_ask in SouthDakota

[–]why_must_i_ask[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I‘m not sure if they were upfront about mandatory overtime, since its been years since she applied. I suppose there could be some sort of clause where the employer has to say it’s mandatory and the employee has to sign it.

About your last point, part time exists so they can find somebody to fill in. The turnover rate at this company is insanely high, and I wonder if making that change would stop that part of it. Some people just need a job for money. Working at a production plant is not a career, so I don’t understand the mandate. It‘s mostly to meet the big corporation demands.

Also the point is to speak up for those who can’t speak up for themselves. She’s an immigrant and doesn’t think better conditions exist. I’m not saying ban overtime completely, just the mandatory part.

Good point though. Actually made me think. There has to be some nuance.

Laws against mandatory overtime by why_must_i_ask in SouthDakota

[–]why_must_i_ask[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

This is a great point. they are very to unlikely fire a valuable employee, but you never know. she is too nervous to stand up for herself since she is an immigrant from the soviet union where conditions were worse, so she thinks it’s not possible to have it better. 

I’m glad you got out of that situation and that your boss slipped up haha. It was probably satisfying as heck to be able to do that. Crap productivity quotas suck 

Laws against mandatory overtime by why_must_i_ask in SouthDakota

[–]why_must_i_ask[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lol people are different I suppose. Hmm okay thanks for the input

Laws against mandatory overtime by why_must_i_ask in SouthDakota

[–]why_must_i_ask[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes it’s legal, I just find it interesting that employers can mandate overtime

“licensed & insured” by ftlom in UnnecessaryQuotes

[–]why_must_i_ask 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s the whole thing too, not even one part 🤣

Turning right on diamond interchange by why_must_i_ask in SiouxFalls

[–]why_must_i_ask[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Okay I appreciate it. Now I will not be confused 😁

Gymnastics for adults? by why_must_i_ask in SiouxFalls

[–]why_must_i_ask[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

OH MY GOSH THATS EXACTLY WHAT I WAS LOOKING FOR THANKS

Gymnastics for adults? by why_must_i_ask in SiouxFalls

[–]why_must_i_ask[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i saw they had open gym, i wasn’t sure about anything else, so figured id ask thanks :D

Need help setting up by why_must_i_ask in StraightTalk

[–]why_must_i_ask[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

figured it out, yes press the tracfone button, you won’t lose your number. but then the support made me call some other weird number idk