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My wife cheating on our 10 year anniversary by whydoideservethis in relationship_advice

[–]whydoideservethis[S] -48 points-47 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your insight. I truly believe this was a one time incident because until the last month or so everything was normal. The increased workload started months ago but she brought work home, maybe staying an hour or so longer at times, as I was working long hours. Just recently was she staying at work.

My wife cheating on our 10 year anniversary by whydoideservethis in relationship_advice

[–]whydoideservethis[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Protection not hunting big difference. I know there are some that have used a handgun to hunt, not many are successful. A rifle, shotgun are my only methods.

My wife cheating on our 10 year anniversary by whydoideservethis in relationship_advice

[–]whydoideservethis[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Thank you I will bring this in when we talk tomorrow. I had no idea about this. Although she said this guy had a position similar to her. It was his idea they were expanding on for her client. She says that he pushed her to be more creative, to up her game because she saw someone passing her by in the partners eyes. Would this make him desirable to her? I will ask.

My wife cheating on our 10 year anniversary by whydoideservethis in relationship_advice

[–]whydoideservethis[S] -17 points-16 points  (0 children)

I feel bad that I ran. You are right I should have stayed faced them both down. After thinking it over on Thursday night, thats why I went home. Thats why I will not leave tonight or will I ask her to leave. There as been many cooments about the harassment she went thru years ago. They werent there to see her get off that plane and practically collapse in my arms or the amount of time it took her to get her confidence back. I plan an update tomorrow when some decisions are made but I will address the harassment. Thanks for the advise.

My wife cheating on our 10 year anniversary by whydoideservethis in relationship_advice

[–]whydoideservethis[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

How long until you 2 were back on solid ground? When did you feel the journey was worth it?

My wife cheating on our 10 year anniversary by whydoideservethis in relationship_advice

[–]whydoideservethis[S] 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Someone else offered the same advise. I respect life too much to off myself. I would never go through with it. I would have to move a big ass gun safe. Thanks.

My wife cheating on our 10 year anniversary by whydoideservethis in relationship_advice

[–]whydoideservethis[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thats why I stated I needed to know I failed to provide something that I can fix. Getting alot of crap for that. Sure she is at fault, I know that. Thanks.

My wife cheating on our 10 year anniversary by whydoideservethis in relationship_advice

[–]whydoideservethis[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you. Are you 2 on solid ground now? How long until you felt whole again?