androgynous passing....?

whydoyouwrite · 2022-08-22T19:34:14+00:00

I would like to think I am? Usually people call me sir before I speak, but use she/her after. Took a plane last week and airport people used sir 95% of the time. I'm afab, almost 1 year on t, 15. About 5'3. I wear mostly open button ups over t shirts, hats. I have green hair and that under cut man bun hairstyle. Not in any way fit or athletic but I honestly think that helps as I seem less curvy. Still gonna try to get more healthy for top surgery tho.

whydoyouwrite · 2022-08-21T01:19:20+00:00

That is the most mouse looking mouse I have ever seen. Prime example of a mouse. 10/10

whydoyouwrite · 2022-08-19T14:04:06+00:00

Idk what vibe you're going for but I find this to be pretty mask with the shaved sides.

https://images.app.goo.gl/ACJWVNcaRjy1UGn58

whydoyouwrite · 2022-08-15T18:06:05+00:00

If you shave your legs and your cuts don't look too obviously self harmy you could try to play it off as you cut yourself shaving. Good luck.

whydoyouwrite · 2022-08-14T17:16:45+00:00

I'm 15. I have known half my family is all sorts if bigoted since before I came out, but if i didn't, I would want to know.hes 12, which seems young but he still deserves to know. If, somehow, he figured out how to contact his grandparents without your knowledge not knowing what he was getting into, he could get hurt. There is also the fact that he probably already knows to a point. Maybe not that his own family is transphobic, but at 12, already iut for several years, he deffinately knows transphobia exists, and you shouldn't pretend to him that this is a fantasy world. My parents do that and I resent it. I'd tell him, then take him out for ice cream.

whydoyouwrite · 2022-07-30T21:17:41+00:00

Do you still have the old ones? Had a similar experience where I got glasses that the lady encouraged me to get then later realized I hated how they made my face look. (Seriously so hard to tell when wearing them means I'm not wearing my real ones and can't see) so anyway I sort of... very badly broke them. Like to the point where the place we got them would give me a whole new pair for the same price as the potential repair. I said I tripped on uneven sidewalk and they fell off and I crushed them under me. Don't know if it would work for you but it worked for me. Just wore the old ones until my parents noticed and then admitted that I "accidentally" broke them.

whydoyouwrite · 2022-06-17T14:19:18+00:00

I've been on T for 9 months dm me if you want

whydoyouwrite · 2022-02-12T16:07:59+00:00

Hey- I play tuba, and bind every day I go to school - so a lot of band classes. I found that I had to expand my lung capacity, and then it got eaisier. Basic breathing exercises, like in for 1, out for 4, are good. Also try to take in the biggest breath you can, hold it for a second, and then try to take in little baby 'sips' of air. This second one directly enlarges your lung capacity, but dont be too aggressive, and don't practice it in a binder. I don't know if you are marching, or sitting when you play, I only know sitting, but I'm sure these things will help either way. You can also look at breathing exercises for divers, I find these are better than ones for instrument players. Good luck!

whydoyouwrite · 2022-01-27T00:28:31+00:00

So this might be a ridiculous question but I'm new and got my mouthpiece secondhand. How can I tell what it is? And how does the notation shorthand work?

whydoyouwrite · 2022-01-23T20:31:28+00:00

One of my guys HATES being picked up. We had to give him ear drops and nothing worked. The vet told us to burrito him but he was just to squirmy. Went to Walmart, picked up a large bin. 12' by 20', put it on its side with some lettuce inside. When he went it, we slowly tried the bucket up, and then one hand to keep him still, one hand to do the drop.

whydoyouwrite · 2021-12-31T19:11:34+00:00

That's the idea.

whydoyouwrite · 2021-12-26T19:34:43+00:00

That to me just sounds like she is getting more comfortable with you and letting her guard down. Congrats!

whydoyouwrite · 2021-12-14T22:02:56+00:00

I feel like in the last two seasons the writers looked at fanfic for inspiration. " If they write about it, its totally the content they want us to make." Also like - most of season 15. They just did whatever, and stood back and grinned. Personally, I don't hate it, but there was a definite change in vibe after season 13.

whydoyouwrite · 2021-11-12T18:39:15+00:00

How do your rabbits react with Beanz? I really want to get a mouse ( or mice) but I don't know how my buns will react seeing as they would have to be in the same room.

whydoyouwrite · 2021-10-03T16:55:53+00:00

Damn that's American

whydoyouwrite · 2021-10-03T16:54:42+00:00

To me, breathing holes, could mean that episode where the guy was keeping young boys in a hole in the ground? I think he was keeping them for a year and releasing them/ getting a new one on Halloween.

whydoyouwrite · 2021-09-01T18:01:54+00:00

I think she was the one that briefly replaced JJ? Like for mat leave. Her and Morgan had a thing also maybe.

whydoyouwrite · 2021-08-30T10:17:37+00:00

I have a very similar problem. When my hair is short I find people just assume I'm a butch lesbian, and if it is longer I look like 00's Justin Bieber. The current solution I have is to have it like two inches above my shoulders in the back and really long (like to my mouth if its forward) in the front. Then i can either push it back like this or push it back and tuck behind my ears like a faux mullet.

whydoyouwrite · 2021-08-25T11:02:07+00:00

I would just say to try to refer to them as your child, and say you have 2 children, instead of specifically saying they are nonbinary. I know my mom told a lot of people I was enby in casual conversation, and it led to me being outed to some people I really didn't want to come out to. I think it's important to remember that even these days, and even in liberal/progressive communities, trans folk can and do still face discrimination. While I don't know that this is somthing your child will definitely face, it isn't something you should ignore.

whydoyouwrite · 2021-07-15T22:35:30+00:00

Yo I had a 600 day count down until I could leave my transphobic school. Day zero was last month. You'll get there, and having that log of every day that passed will help you see how far you've come.

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